Part of قصة أمنا حواء (اكتملت السلسلة)
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قصة أمنا حواء | الحلقة (23) | يا حواء من هو قدوتك؟
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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The story of our mother Eve
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Oh Eve, who is your role model?
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Oh Eve, who is your role model in life?
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A question that I don't think you can answer wrongly
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I expect you to say so
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, is my role model
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This is the answer that comes to the soul quickly
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It has great significance in the soul
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It also indicates the great position of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, in your heart
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But God tested us, Eve, by saying:
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Say, “If you love God, then follow me. God will love you and forgive you your sins.”
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God is Forgiving and Merciful
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Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.”
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If they turn away, then God does not love the disbelievers
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Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
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This noble verse applies to everyone who claims to love God
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It is not in the Muhammadan way
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He is false in his claim regarding the same matter
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So that he follows the Muhammadan law
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And the Prophetic religion in all its words, deeds and conditions
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It was also proven in the Sahih on the authority of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, that he said
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Whoever does something that is not according to our command, it will be rejected
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That's why he said
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Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you.”
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That is, he will get you more than what you asked for from your love
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And it is His love for you
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It is greater than the first
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As some wise scholars said
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It's not about loving
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It's about loving
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Al-Hasan Al-Basri and other predecessors said
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Some people claimed that they love God
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So God tested them with this verse and said:
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Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you.”
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Then God Almighty said
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And He forgives you your sins
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God is Forgiving and Merciful
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Yes
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By following the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
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You get all this from the blessing of his embassy
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Then God Almighty said a command for everyone, both private and public
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Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.”
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If they turn away
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That is, they disobeyed his command
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God does not love unbelievers
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This indicates that opposing him in the method is blasphemy
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God does not like those who are characterized by that
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Where did he claim and claim in himself that he is a lover of God?
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And approach him
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Until the Messenger follows the illiterate Prophet
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Seal of the Apostles
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And the Messenger of God to all the heavyweights
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Jinn and humans
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Which if the prophets
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Rather, the messengers
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Rather, those of determination are among them
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In his time
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They could only follow him and enter into obedience to him
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And follow his law
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Oh Hawa
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I need you a few minutes
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Think about Ibn Kathir’s previous words
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In his interpretation of the verse
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Then you look at your circumstances
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Then you apply the words of God Almighty
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And those who avoid the taghut should worship it
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They turned to God for good news
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So give good news to servants
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Who listen to say
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They follow the best of it
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Those whom God has guided
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And those are people of understanding
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Oh Hawa
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God Almighty said in the story of our father Adam
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And our security is Hawa
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So we said, “O Adam.”
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This is an enemy of you and your husband
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They will not expel you from Paradise and you will be miserable
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You may neither starve nor be naked there
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And you will not feel thirsty therein nor will you sacrifice
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Satan whispered to him
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He said, Adam
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May I direct you to the mole tree?
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And a kingdom that never fades
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So he ate from it, and their private parts became apparent to them
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And they began to swear at them
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From the paper of paradise
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Adam disobeyed his Lord and went astray
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Then his Lord chose him and turned to him and guided him
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He said, "Get down, everyone."
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Some of you are enemies to each other
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Either they come to you from this
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Whoever follows gifts
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He will not go astray or be miserable
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Oh Hawa
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These verses indicate
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A woman follows the example of her husband
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And she followed him
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In three places
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The first
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Satan whispered to him
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So God Almighty mentioned Satan’s whispering to Adam without Eve
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Because a woman often imitates her husband in his actions
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Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said
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Satan limited himself to begging Adam
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He wants to eat Adam and Eve
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Because he knows that a woman’s imitation of her husband is centered in Al-Jabalah
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The second
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Adam disobeyed his Lord and went astray
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He mentioned Adam's disobedience
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He did not mention Hawa
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Although both of them disobeyed their Lord
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Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said
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Proof of disobedience to Adam without his wife
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It indicates that Adam was a role model for his husband
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When he ate from the tree, his wife followed him
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Third
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He said, "Get down from all of them."
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That is, Satan and Adam
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He did not mention Hawa
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Because she follows her husband
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Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said
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He is commanded to descend from heaven
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Adam and Satan
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As for Hawa
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So he followed her husband
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Oh Hawa
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It is natural for a woman to follow her husband
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The more a woman loves her husband, the more she follows him
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She made him her role model in life
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This is beautiful
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When the husband is guided by God Almighty
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But the problem, Hawa
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It manifests itself in two things
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The first
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If the husband’s actions are contrary to God’s command
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And the command of His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
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This is where the trial and test occur
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Do you advance the command of God and the command of His Messenger?
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Or do you offer your love to your husband and your concern for his pleasure?
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This is the problem, Hawa
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It has several reasons
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Among them is your belief that obeying God will cause you to lose your husband
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And end your married life
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Or there are many problems
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Putting the husband’s wishes before God’s wishes
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Muawiyah wrote to Aisha, the Mother of the Believers, may God be pleased with her
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Write me a letter recommending it
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And don't be too much for me
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So Aisha wrote to Muawiyah
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Peace be upon you
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As for after
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For I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying
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Whoever seeks God’s satisfaction through people’s discontent
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May God protect people’s livelihood
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Whoever seeks people's satisfaction by angering God
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God entrusted it to the people
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Peace be upon you
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Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
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And to you, Hawa
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An example of bad scholars in this time
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Who sought to please the sultans
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Even at the expense of religion
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The consequence was that God gave them power over those who pleased Him and sought the world
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Some of them were imprisoned
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Some of them were killed
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Do not be tempted by your husband’s approval of you for a period of time
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God grants respite and does not neglect
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The second problem, Hawa
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It appears when you disagree with your good husband
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Your example should begin with him because he is your husband
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When you disagree with him
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You mean to contradict him in his religiosity
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And you do what makes him angry
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From what you know, it is objectionable to him
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This is what women do most in such situations
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It is grooming
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And changing the azimuth in the way of dressing
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Teasing the husband
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This may apply to the hadith of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Which he said
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Three don't ask about them
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A man left the group
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He disobeyed his imam
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He died disobedient
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And a female slave or slave was left behind and died
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A woman whose husband was absent
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The worldly provisions are sufficient for her
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So I dressed up after him
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Don't ask about them
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Narrated by Ahmed
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It does not save you from these problems, Hawwa
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Unless you follow the example of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sincerely
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Your desire is to truly please God
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
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The story of our mother Hawwa