Part of قصة حجة أمنا عائشة رضي الله عنها (اكتملت السلسلة)
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قصة حجة أمنا عائشة رضي الله عنها | الحلقة (6)
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The story of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, menstruated lavishly
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Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, was listening to the Prophet’s sermon, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his companions
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He urged them to make it his lifetime
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But she was surprised when she started menstruating while she was in Saraf, near Mecca
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This means that she will not be able to perform Umrah
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The time remaining for the Day of Arafat is short, and menstruation has its time
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Then our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, realized that she would not be able to perform Umrah
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She hears the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, urging his companions to make it his life
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So she cried
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon her while she was crying
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He did not let her know the secret of her crying
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Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says
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When we came, she had menstrual periods
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Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, came in and I was crying
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He said, “What makes you cry, Aisha?”
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I said, “If I knew, by God, I would not have performed Hajj this year.”
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He said: What is the matter with you? Perhaps you are my soul
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I said yes
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He said, Glory be to God
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This is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam
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So do what the Hajj does
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However, do not circumambulate the House until you are pure
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In general, a menstruating woman's psychology changes during menstruation
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So what about Hajj?
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She wants to perform rituals with Muslims
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She fears being late for them or delaying those with her
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That is why our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, cried
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She said, “If I were to find out, by God, I would not have performed Hajj this year.”
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This shows how strongly she is affected by menstruation
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Among the beautiful morals of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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And he treated his family well
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When he saw her crying
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Ask her why she is crying and why she is so kind
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He said, “What makes you cry, Hunt?”
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I said, “I heard what you said to your friends.”
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Umrah was prohibited
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She explained the reason behind her crying
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She will not be able to survive
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So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, inquired about her
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Again about the reason for this
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He said: What is your business?
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I said I don't pray
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I was about menstruation according to its specific ruling and it was more polite than it
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The effect of this was evident in her believing daughters
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They all talk about menstruation
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By denying prayer or otherwise
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This is one of the nice euphemisms
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And in this, dear sisters
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The etiquette of using beautiful words with your husband and others
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Especially when people find it difficult to mention it
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This hadith is useful
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That the beginning of menstruation
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With our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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On her Hajj trip
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It was the third Saturday of Dhu al-Hijjah
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Consoling the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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To our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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When she wanted
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The treatment of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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To his wives, mothers of believers
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It is the most delicate treatment between a husband and his wife
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And everyone who wants to learn
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The art of dealing with spouses
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He must study
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The life of our Holy Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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With his wives
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This is the ideal for a married couple
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Beautiful dealing pictures
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Between the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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And his wife Aisha
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What happened to her in this story
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Aisha cried when she had her period
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It happened because of the distress that befell her
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And sadness over the loss of life
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This is why men may not realize it quickly
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The man may not care about him
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Because he believes that menstruation is normal
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It happens to every woman
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And it is
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But the woman may be in a psychological state
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Affected by menstruation
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Like the one waiting for the campaign after her marriage
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And he's late for it
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She cries when her period begins
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Or for any other reason
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Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did so
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With Aisha
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Guidance for couples in the art of dealing
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With a woman in such a situation
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was not satisfied
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By asking her why she was crying
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Rather, it made it easier for her
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Show her that she is not the only one
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Who is afflicted with this menstruation
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Rather, all the daughters of Adam
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And he said
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This is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam
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That is, He decreed it for them
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And he obliged them to do so
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They are devoted to being patient with him
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But you are a woman from the daughters of Adam
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God has decreed for you what He has decreed for them
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, calmed down
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He terrified her with two things
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The first is that menstruation is something God has written
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On women in general
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The other is that she is like them
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What is happening to them is happening to them
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This is entertainment and comfort for her
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And relieve them
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How does a forbidden woman behave?
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Hajj if she menstruates
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After the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, calmed down
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From the horror of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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Move to another dimension
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In calming her psychologically
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He explained to her that menstruation was coming
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It does not harm a woman in ihram
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It does not affect her ihram
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And he said
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It won't hurt you
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You are a woman from the daughters of Adam
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God has decreed for you what He has decreed for them
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So stand by your argument
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May God bless you with it
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Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided her
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What do you do in this situation?
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And he said
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So he fulfilled what the pilgrim fulfilled
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However, do not circumambulate the House
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Until you wash yourself
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This indicates the guidance of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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To our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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That includes menstruation and postpartum
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It does not negate the entire work of Hajj
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Except for what relates to entering the mosque
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From circumambulation and bowing after it
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Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said
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Luck
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So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, commanded me
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To perform all the rituals
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Except for circumambulating the Kaaba
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Oh dear sisters
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But the forbidden woman was forbidden
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Hajj or Umrah if she menstruates
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From circumambulating the Kaaba
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She was not prevented from remembering and praying
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And reading the Qur’an
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Don't be too restrictive
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Spreading hope in women's psychology
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It is one of the arts of dealing with the wife
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In such embarrassing situations
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And painful for women
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Bring hope into her soul
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This is taken from the action of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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With our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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When she menstruated
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When he said to her
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So stand by your argument
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May God bless you with it
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That is, He will bless you for Umrah so you can perform it
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Or he will grant you the reward of Umrah
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Even if you don't perform it
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Because actions are based on intentions
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And you only abstained for a legitimate excuse
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It happened that our mother Aisha performed the umrah
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May God be pleased with her after Hajj
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This is a great method
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, teaches us about it
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How to deal with the wife
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When her psychology changes
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Especially when traveling
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It combines the hardship of travel
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And the hardship of the event that happened to the woman