Part of أمنا عائشة رضي الله عنها (اكتملت السلسلة)
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أمنا عائشة | الحلقة (22) | يا عائشة، قومي فأوتري
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Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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O Aisha, get up and perform your prayers
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Prayer at night is one of the most honorable voluntary prayers through which the servant draws closer to his Lord
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said about him
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He knew that the honor of a believer is to pray at night
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As the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told about him
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It is the practice of the righteous before us
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It is the Muslim's solitude with his Lord, Glory be to Him
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He speaks to him and expresses his complaints
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It is an individual act of worship between the servant and his Lord
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But in Ramadan, a group prays
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The Muslim practices the night prayer for one month
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May he continue with him
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After tasting its deliciousness and sweetness in this blessed month
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And less night prayer
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The Muslim must perform the Witr prayer
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He prays it immediately after dinner
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Or he delays it until the end of the night before going to sleep
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The Witr prayer, to say the least, is a confirmed Sunnah
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not leave it while traveling or attending
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He urged Muslims to preserve it
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Therefore, scholars disliked a Muslim abandoning the Witr prayer
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He should only pray it in Ramadan
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He was raised by the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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For Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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He used to wake her up to pray Witr at the end of the night
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Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was praying at night
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When he prayed the Witr prayer, he said, “Get up and perform the Witr prayer, O Aisha.”
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Narrated by Muslim
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Raising one’s wife to do obedience is a voluntary act of worship
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It is the husband's task
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Especially if God has guided him and given him success
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For such good deeds
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He had preceded his wife in this
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This is among her rights over him
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God Almighty has commanded Muslims
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To protect themselves and their families from hellfire
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And He said, Glory be to Him
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Oh, where are those who believe? Strengthen yourselves
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Protect yourselves and your families with fire
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A fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are harsh and harsh angels. They do not disobey God in what He commands them, and they do what they are commanded.
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Part of a man’s protection for his wife from Hell is that he raises her to obey God
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Maintaining the performance of God’s rituals is an obligation on Muslims
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Or it is a means of bringing Muslims closer to God Almighty
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And in the action of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, with Aisha in this hadith
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Raising us Muslims as righteous husbands in several aspects
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The first
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If God has enabled the husband to do a good deed and he has excelled in it
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It is not right for his husband to demand the same level he has reached
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The wife is a human soul
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She may be prepared for another good deed other than what the husband excelled at
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The husband does not demand from her the good deeds he does
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Such as being successful in fasting frequently
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Or for the length of standing
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Or because of a lot of charity
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Or reading the Qur’an a lot
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It is not right here for the husband to demand the same level of work from his wife that he performs
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The second
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The husband raises his wife to do good deeds
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He must encourage and help her to do these good deeds
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As minimal as possible
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Third
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The husband must take into account his wife’s inclinations to do good deeds
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He helps her with it
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Human souls are of different backgrounds and moods
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Some people are inclined to do something other than what others are inclined to do
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And they are both fine
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Fourth
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Cooperation between spouses in doing good deeds
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Many hadiths have indicated this
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Among them is his saying, may God bless him and grant him peace
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May God have mercy on a man who got up at night and prayed
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He woke up his wife
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If she refuses
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He splashed water on her face
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May God have mercy on a woman who got up at night and prayed
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She woke up her husband
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If he refuses
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She splashed water in his face
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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This cooperation is for night prayers
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, praised him
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On the spouse who initiated it
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He prayed for his mercy
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Fifth
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The good wife
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She is the one who responds to her husband
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If he invites her for what is good and righteous
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This response will leave an impact on the husband
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It also leaves its mark on itself
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As for its effect on the husband
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If the husband finds a response from his wife to him
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This prompted him to continue helping her do good work
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And diversify these businesses for her
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The wife's status in himself increased
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As for its effect on itself
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This is a prelude to her continuing to do good deeds
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And for more
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This also happened to our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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She became one of those who regularly prayed the night prayers
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It prolongs standing
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Sixth
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We benefit from this story as well
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Human companions, men and women
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Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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People get tired, exhausted, and sleep
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She needs someone to wake her up to pray
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It is inconceivable that we could create a good society devoid of human qualities
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The husband may try to wake his wife up to perform the night prayer
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But she can't, so she apologizes to him
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Or invite her to fast one day
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She apologizes to him for her inability and weakness
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It should not be in such a situation
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A man gets upset with his wife because she does not respond to him
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And finally
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We are in a time when there is a lot of temptation and pressure on the family to ruin it
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There was a lot of pressure on the man to break him in front of the woman
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There was a lot of pressure on women to rebel against their husbands in particular
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And on men in general
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It does not escape these pressures
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Except to hold fast to God and to His strong rope
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If the husband finds a good woman, she will help him obey God
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He is the conciliator
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The world was given to him
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If a woman finds a good husband, he will help her obey God
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She is the lucky one
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Either they cooperate and volunteer to obey God
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Otherwise, this is a loss of an opportunity presented to them on a golden platter
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At a time when such opportunities were scarce
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Oh God, fix our souls and fix our husbands for us
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
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Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her