Part of أمنا عائشة رضي الله عنها (اكتملت السلسلة)
· Lesson 11 of 25
أمنا عائشة | الحلقة (11) | يا عائشة أحبيه ... فإني أحبه
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Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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O Aisha, love him, for I love him
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Agreement between spouses on family-related issues
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It helps them to walk through life without problems
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One of these issues is the relationship with individuals related to the family
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This relationship may lead to increased income for the family
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It may lead to strong emotional attachment
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Of love and affection on one side of the family
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It will be visible to him
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If compatibility between the spouses does not occur on this character
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Jealousy often arises between spouses
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Problems occur or are created without explaining the real reason
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was careful in raising his family
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To treat this problem before it occurs
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He instructed women in particular on etiquette that prevents such a problem from occurring
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Because we are talking about the friend, the friend’s daughter
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Which the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, raised on his own
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We will mention the situations she went through
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It contains the teachings of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to her or to others
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In our topic in this article
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The first position is related to love for the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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By Osama bin Zaid, may God be pleased with them both
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, stated this in many instances
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With his love for Osama, he announced it to the people
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On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar, may God be pleased with them both
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sent a mission
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Osama bin Zaid commanded them
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So the people challenged his emirate
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Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, stood up and said
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If you challenge his leadership
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You were challenging his father's emirate before
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And I swear to God that he is the creator of the emirate
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Even if it is for the people I love most
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This is for the most beloved of people after him
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, announces to everyone
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He loves Osama bin Zaid
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Osama is from outside the family of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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How did the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, raise his family with his love?
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We mentioned it before
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, takes advantage of life’s situations
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In raising his family and the companions around him
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May God Almighty be pleased with them all
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One of these situations
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What Aisha, may God be pleased with her, narrated
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Where she said
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, wanted to expel poisonous mucus
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Aisha said
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Let me be the one who does it
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He said
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Oh Aisha, love him
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I love him
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Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
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The agreement between spouses to love a young child from outside the family
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It prevents harm from being caused to it by any party
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Especially if this child is from another wife of the husband
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A rational woman loves her husband’s children in order to gain his love
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He loves those he loves
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It may be the other way around
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So education is for the children
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To be compatible with their father in those who love them
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This is the second position
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What Aisha, may God be pleased with her, narrates, says:
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He sent the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Fatima, daughter of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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To the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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So I asked permission for him while he lay with me in my bed
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So he gave her permission
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She said, O Messenger of God
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Your husbands sent me to you
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He asks you to do justice to the daughter of Abu Quhafa
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I am silent
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And she said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her
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Any structure
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Don't you like what I like?
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She said yes
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He said
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So love this one
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She said
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Fatima stood up when she heard that from the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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So I returned to the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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So she told them what she said
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And what the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her
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So they told her
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We don't think you've done anything for us
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So return to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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So tell him
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Your wives are asking you for justice regarding the daughter of Abu Quhafa
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Fatima said
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By God, I will never talk to him about it
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Narrated by Muslim
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The saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his daughter Fatima
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Any structure
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Don't you like what I like?
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It is enough to be said to every Muslim girl
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If the daughter wants to be righteous towards her father
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Applying the word of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, is a process
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It is enough to make a girl’s heart free of hatred, malice and malice
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He protects her tongue from backbiting and gossiping
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It is enough to prevent problems between sons and stepmothers
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Among the etiquettes that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided the wife to
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To avoid running into such problems
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Based on the difference in attitude towards people
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The wife should not allow anyone to enter the marital home
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Except for those whom the husband approves of
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The Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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It is not permissible for a woman to fast while her husband is a witness without his permission
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Do not enter his house without his permission
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Indeed, you have a right over your women
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And your women have a right over you
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As for your rights over your women?
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Let not those whom you hate enter your beds
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He does not allow anyone you hate into your homes
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Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
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This hadith indicates the difference in the attitude towards people between the spouses
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So that this difference does not affect the relationship between the spouses
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The woman was ordered to keep away the people she loved
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The husband does not love them from the marital home
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They do not enter the house
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They do not approach the family
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Protection for this family from problems
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If this etiquette is to protect the family
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A woman does not allow anyone whom her husband hates to enter her home
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How can we bring into our hearts those whom God Almighty hates?
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Or those who are hostile to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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And they mock his Sunnah
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Or they challenge the honor of his wives, mothers of believers
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Do we not love those whom the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, loves?
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Let us love Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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We name our daughters after her
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And we defend it
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We spread her biography among people
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Be a role model for every woman who loves God and His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
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Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her