Part of أمنا عائشة رضي الله عنها (اكتملت السلسلة)
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أمنا عائشة | الحلقة (16) | يا عائشة، مالكِ؟ أغرتِ؟
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Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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Oh Aisha, why did you tempt me?
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Jealousy is a beautiful trait of a woman
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It indicates the depth of her love for her husband
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Al-Humaidi knew jealousy, may God have mercy on him
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It is a tightness between a woman and her husband
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Whatever happens to his heart
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Or her heart towards him in marital matters in particular
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From his inclination to others or her inclination to others
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It is derived from a change of heart and a surge of anger
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Because of participation in what is specialized
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Jealousy is praiseworthy if it is used in the right way
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In accordance with legal controls
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If it exceeds the legal limits
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It is reprehensible and women sin against it
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Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
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The origin of jealousy is not acquired for women
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But if you do it too much, you will be blamed
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Jealousy is expected from virtuous women and others
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The best women of this nation
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The wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, are mothers of the believers
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They were jealous
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The most jealous person was Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, invested
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Aisha's jealousy, may God be pleased with her
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In raising her to control her jealousy according to legal controls
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To learn what jealousy is permissible for her and what is not permissible
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One of these beautiful incidents
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What happened to her one night with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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When I woke up at night, I didn't find him
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Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said
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I lost the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He was with me on my bed
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I found him prostrating with his heels straight
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Facing the Qiblah with his fingertips
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So I heard him say
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I seek refuge in Your satisfaction from Your anger
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By pardoning you from your punishment
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And from you
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I commend you
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I don't know everything about you
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When he was victorious, he said:
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Oh Aisha
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Your demon took you
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And she said
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Do you have a devil?
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He said
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There is no human being who does not have a devil
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So I said
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And you, O Messenger of God
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He said
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And I
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But I prayed to God for him and he became Muslim
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Narrated by Ibn Khuzaymah
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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That the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He left there one night
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She said
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I gaped at him
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She said
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So he came
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He saw what I was doing
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And he said
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What's wrong with you, Aisha?
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I was tempted
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She said
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So I said
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Why should someone like me not be jealous of someone like you?
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Then your devil took you
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She said, O Messenger of God
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Oh my demon
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He said yes
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I said
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And with every human being
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He said yes
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I said
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And with you, O Messenger of God
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He said yes
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But my Lord Almighty helped me to convert to Islam
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Narrated by Ahmed
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This is one of the situations of jealousy that Aisha, may God be pleased with her, went through
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The conclusion of this position
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Aisha, may God be pleased with her, was asleep
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And it was her night
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It is assumed that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was sleeping next to her
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But she did not wake up in the night and did not see him next to her
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So I searched for him in the darkness of the night
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So she felt around her
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Her hand fell on him while he was praying and praying
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So she went back to her bed
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not finish his prayer
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He told her
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What's wrong with you, Aisha?
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I was tempted
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She said and I said
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Why should someone like me not be jealous of someone like you?
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Did your devil take you?
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So, may God bless him and grant him peace, he considered her jealousy in this place to be the incitement of Satan
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So what is the reason?
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The reason for this
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It is the thought that occurred to her
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It is that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, left her and went to one of his wives
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This is a bad opinion of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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And he would not be fair to her on her night
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This is a bad idea
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It only comes to the soul from the whispers of Satan
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Al-Tibi, may God have mercy on him, said
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And in his saying
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Your demon has come to you
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A reference to what was mentioned in the hadith of Jabir bin Atik
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From his saying
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As for those whom God hates
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Jealousy is without suspicion
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I mean, how can you be jealous of me?
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You see that I am being unfair to you
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That is, this is not suspicious
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Jealousy comes from a woman
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Based on bad thoughts about the husband
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It is the reprehensible jealousy that women are blamed for
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And he expected her to sin
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It ruins her life with her husband
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Jealousy is an innate moral in all women
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However, it is adjustable
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And steerable
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Its severity can be reduced
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And adjust it to a certain limit
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This also happened with Umm Salamah with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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When the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, prayed for her
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May God remove her jealousy
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As directed by the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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For his women
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By standing at the legal limit in jealousy
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For everyone who violated the legal controls on jealousy
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There are three legal controls on jealousy
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And it is
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The first
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To be suspicious
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The second
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Not to commit what is forbidden to her in words or actions
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These are examples of taboos
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Jealousy does not permit backbiting
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Jealousy does not permit the diversion of other people's possessions
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Jealousy does not permit a woman to demand from her husband what she is not entitled to
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Jealousy does not permit injustice
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Jealousy does not permit a woman to insult her friend
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Jealousy does not allow the husband to be satisfied with what he did not give
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Jealousy does not permit bad thoughts about the husband
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Jealousy does not permit spying on the husband
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Jealousy does not permit harming one's husband
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Third
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That jealousy does not lead to corruption of good deeds
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These are the controls of jealousy
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If one of these controls is violated, then
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She is to blame for her jealousy
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As for the jealousy that makes her work to win the husband’s heart
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This is praiseworthy jealousy
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The woman rents it
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
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Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her