Part of أمنا عائشة رضي الله عنها (اكتملت السلسلة)
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أمنا عائشة | الحلقة (25) | يا عائشة، هذه بتلك
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Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, this Aisha and that one
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God Almighty commanded the wife to be treated with kindness
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God Almighty said: Treat them with kindness
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Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
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This includes verbal and actual intercourse
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The husband must treat his wife with kindness
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Stop harming and do good
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And good treatment
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This includes alimony, clothing, and the like
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The husband must treat his wife with kindness like him to her in that time and place
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This varies depending on the circumstances
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He is the best one to apply this verse in his life
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He is the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Until he said about himself, may God bless him and grant him peace
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The best of you is the best to his family, and I am the best to my family
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Narrated by Ibn Majah
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Al-Sanaani, may God have mercy on him, said
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He was absolutely the best of people
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This is not a matter of pride
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Rather, he informs the servants of his good treatment so that they may imitate him
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He was known from his companions, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He was the best of people
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And to his family first
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He had a condition for his family that no one else had
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Of good treatment, tolerance of harm, and fairness
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And similar things in the books of his virtues and conduct
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Al-Sundi, may God have mercy on him, said
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What he means is good treatment with his family
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Among the things required in religion
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What is characterized by it is among the options in this respect
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It is possible that the one who is characterized by it will be successful in doing all good deeds
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Until it becomes good at all
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And God knows best
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One of the beautiful stories of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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With his wives, he is a good family
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His competition for Aisha, may God be pleased with her, in travel
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
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She preceded the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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So I beat him
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When she became pregnant with meat
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He outran me and he outran me
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He said, O Aisha
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This is that
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Narrated by Al-Hamidi
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The competition was not devoid of jokes, by God
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Rather, you face the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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By joking and laughing with her, may God be pleased with her
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Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says
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I went out with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, on some of his travels
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As a slave girl, I did not carry meat or make myself fat
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He told the people to come forward
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So they came forward
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Then he told me to come so I can race with you
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So I raced to him and I raced to him
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So he remained silent about me
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Even if I carried the meat and became fat and forgot
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I went out with him on some of his travels
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He told the people to come forward
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So they came forward
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Then he said, “Come, so I can race with you.”
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So I raced to him and he raced to me
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He started laughing as he said
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This is that
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Narrated by Ahmed
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And in a narration by Al-Tabarani
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Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said
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So I raced to him and he raced to me
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He hit my shoulder and said
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This is that
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Rather, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He urged her to contest the second time
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Because she apologized for carrying meat
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, insisted on the competition
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Aisha, may God be pleased with her, told me
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She was with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, on a journey
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He said to his friends
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Come forward
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So they came forward
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He said to me
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Come so I can race you
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So I raced to him and I raced to him
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And when it was after
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I went out with him on a trip
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He said to his friends
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Come forward
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So they came forward
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And he said
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Come, I will race with you
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And I forgot who it was
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And I carried the meat
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So I said
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How can I compete with you, O Messenger of God, when I am in this state?
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He said
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To do so
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So I raced to him and he raced to me
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And he said
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This is a precedent
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Narrated by Abu Naeem
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So he, may God bless him and grant him peace, courted Aisha, may God be pleased with her, with this competition
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Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
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It was one of his morals, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He is beautiful among the everlasting human beings
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He caresses his family and is kind to them
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He expands their expenses
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And women laugh
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He even used to compete with Aisha, the Mother of the Believers, may God be pleased with her
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He courtes her with this
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This is his biography, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Evidence of his good treatment of his family
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Until he was the best of people to his family
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But we are plagued with some kind of ideas
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Which considers playing with one's wife to be a sinful act
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Picture the men scowling at the wife
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And they smiled in the face of their friends
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Some people even thought that this is what Islam commands
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This method of dealing with women in general was not successful
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And the wife especially
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Because it violates the nature that God created people with
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This was the reaction of many women of this time
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Who are afflicted with this type of men?
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Discontent with Islam and its people
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He described it as ugly
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And praise of Western culture
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Considering it a model that should be emulated
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Appreciating women and respecting their feelings
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Professor Muhammad Rashid Reda, may God have mercy on him, said
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It is the affection between spouses
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And joking and playing
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Among men are those who believe that a woman’s pleasure and foreplay are
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Which takes away her reverence for him
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And her respect for him
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He forgets that letting that go makes her forget it
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Her calmness towards him and her love for him
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Love replaces reverence and modesty
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If it is true that joking and playing
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Fruit and foreplay are not compatible with them
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And that is not true
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The greatest men are the prophets and the wise
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And polite kings
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They satisfied their wives at home
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This betrays nothing of their awe and reverence
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He was the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He jokes with his women and flirts with them
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He said to Jabir, may God be pleased with him
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When he asked permission to marry a married man
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Welcome tomorrow, you will manipulate her and manipulate you
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And the hadith is in the two Sahihs
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And so he did, may God bless him and grant him peace
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They even narrated that he was racing against Aisha
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That is, intense running
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It preceded it and it preceded it
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Then he preceded her and preceded her
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He said this to that
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Where Abu Dawud, Al-Nasa’i and Ibn Majah have it
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And its chain of transmission is correct
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It is affected by the fact that Omar used to say
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Everyone in his house is a boy
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And in revival
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Omar, may God be pleased with him, said despite his harshness
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A man should be like a boy in his family
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If they searched for what he had, they found him to be a man
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There is a limit to humor at home
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Whoever transgresses it, his decency is gone
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And whoever falls short in it, his family will be burdened
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Women's dependence on men
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Included are afflictions and causes of misery
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Are you one of those who joke with his wife and play with her?
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I hope so
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
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Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her