Name: أمنا عائشة | الحلقة (14) | يا عائشة، ما يبكيكِ؟
Uploaded: 2026-07-05
Duration: 627 s
Description: budoorzahera — Hadith lesson series with full transcripts, translation and audio in sixteen languages.

0:00 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her

0:04 Oh Aisha, what makes you cry?

0:16 The treatment of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his wives are the mothers of the believers

0:22 It is the finest treatment between husband and wife

0:26 And everyone who wants to learn the art of dealing with spouses

0:30 He must study the treatment of our Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, with his wives

0:36 This is the ideal for a married couple

0:39 One of the beautiful pictures of interaction between the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and his wife Aisha

0:47 What she went through while she was with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, during the Farewell Pilgrimage

0:53 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says

0:56 Let us perform Hajj

0:58 Even if we are unlucky

1:02 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to me while I was crying

1:07 He said, “What makes you cry, Aisha?”

1:11 I said luck, I wish I had not made Hajj

1:16 He said, Glory be to God

1:19 That is something that God Almighty has decreed for the daughters of Adam

1:24 Perform all the rituals except not circumambulating the Kaaba

1:29 She said: When we entered Mecca

1:32 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

1:36 Whoever wants to make it an Umrah, let him make it an Umrah

1:40 Except for the one who has a sacrificial animal with him

1:43 She said: The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, slaughtered cows on the Day of Sacrifice for his wives

1:51 When it was the night of Batha, she became pure

1:55 She said, O Messenger of God

1:58 I return my companions for Hajj and Umrah

2:01 And I come back with an excuse

2:04 So Abdul Rahman bin Abi Bakr ordered

2:07 So he took me to Tan'im and stayed for Umrah

2:11 Narrated by Ahmed

2:13 Our mother was Aisha, may God be pleased with her

2:16 You listen to the sermon of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his companions

2:21 He urged them to make their ritual a Umrah

2:25 But she was surprised when she started menstruating

2:28 It is in Sarf, near Mecca

2:31 This means that she will not be able to perform Umrah

2:35 The time remaining for the Day of Arafah is short

2:39 Menstruation has its time

2:41 So I met our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her

2:44 She will not be able to survive

2:47 She hears the encouragement of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his companions

2:51 By making it a lifetime

2:53 So she cried

2:55 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon her

2:58 And she is crying

3:00 He did not let her know the secret of her crying

3:03 And he said

3:04 What makes you cry, Aisha?

3:07 Aisha cried when she had her period

3:10 It happened because of her distress and sadness over missing out on Umrah

3:16 This is why men may not realize it quickly

3:20 The man may not care about him

3:22 Because he believes that menstruation is a natural thing that happens to every woman

3:27 And it is

3:29 But the woman may be in a psychological state

3:32 Affected by menstruation

3:35 Like the woman who is waiting for pregnancy after her marriage and it is delayed

3:39 She cries when her period begins

3:42 Or for any other reason

3:44 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did what Aisha did

3:49 Guiding husbands on the art of dealing with women in such situations

3:55 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was not satisfied

3:58 By asking her why she was crying

4:01 Rather, it made it easier for her

4:03 Show her that she is not the only one who suffers from this menstruation

4:09 Rather, all the daughters of Adam

4:11 And he said

4:13 This is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam

4:17 Al-Qurtubi said it means menstruation

4:20 And he wrote it to them

4:22 That is, mount them on it

4:24 And fix it on them

4:26 It comforts and entertains her

4:29 It is evidence of his inclination and affection for her

4:33 Ibn Rajab, may God have mercy on him, said

4:36 He decreed it for them and forced them to do so

4:40 They are devoted to being patient with him

4:43 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, calmed her down with two things

4:49 The first is that menstruation is something God has prescribed for women in general

4:55 The other is that she is like them

4:58 What is happening to them is happening to them

5:01 After the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, calmed down our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her

5:08 Move to another dimension in her psychological soothing

5:13 He explained to her that menstruation on a woman in ihram would not harm her

5:18 It does not affect her ihram

5:21 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided her on what to do in this situation

5:27 And he said

5:29 Perform all the rituals, except that you do not circumambulate the Kaaba

5:34 Al-Bukhari titled this hadith in his Sahih by saying:

5:38 A menstruating woman performs all rituals except circumambulating the Kaaba

5:43 Ibn Rajab, may God have mercy on him, said

5:45 Bukhari’s purpose in this chapter

5:48 Menstruation does not prevent anything from the rituals of Hajj

5:52 Other than circumambulating the Kaaba and praying as a consequence

5:56 Other than that, it includes stances, remembrance, and supplication

6:00 Menstruation does not prevent any of it

6:03 A menstruating woman does it all

6:06 This included standing at Arafat and Muzdalifah

6:10 Throwing camels and remembering God Almighty

6:13 And his supplication in these places

6:16 All of this is agreed upon as permissible

6:19 Ibn al-Mulqin, may God have mercy on him, said

6:22 A menstruating woman witnesses all rituals

6:26 And enlarge it on the two Eids

6:28 Evidence that it is permissible to read the Qur’an

6:31 Because it is Sunnah to mention God in rituals

6:35 Women are in Ramadan

6:37 Be worried about getting your period

6:41 Especially in the last ten days

6:44 Because of her intense desire to worship and read the Qur’an

6:48 And seize the season of goodness

6:50 You may resort to using some medications

6:53 Which delays menstruation

6:55 Which is almost without damage

6:58 On her health and psychology

7:00 These medications may cause

7:03 In menstrual dysfunction in women

7:06 Colors descend on it

7:08 Which makes her confused

7:11 She does not know whether she is menstruating or pure

7:16 Even if the woman remembered

7:18 The saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

7:20 For Aisha, may God be pleased with her

7:23 This is something that God has written for the daughters of Adam

7:27 So do what the pilgrim does

7:29 However, do not circumambulate the House until you are pure

7:33 She will be satisfied with what was prescribed for her regarding menstruation

7:36 In the time that God has destined for her

7:39 Then do what a fasting person does

7:41 Of righteousness and goodness in this month

7:44 However, she does not fast or pray

7:47 It would have been better for her than these medications

7:50 Which may harm her without her realizing it

7:53 And from the perfuming of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

7:56 For the sake of Aisha, may God be pleased with her

7:59 He, may God bless him and grant him peace

8:02 When some of us fled after stoning the Jamarat

8:05 He stayed in Al-Muhassab

8:07 It is a place between Mina and the Grand Mosque

8:10 He prayed noon and afternoon prayers there

8:13 And Morocco and dinner

8:15 When the evening came

8:17 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, interviewed him

8:20 On the subject of ritual sacrifice

8:22 She said, O Messenger of God

8:25 I return my companions for Hajj and Umrah

8:28 And I come back with an excuse

8:31 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, tried

8:34 Convince her that it was written for her

8:37 He said to her

8:39 Your circumambulation of the Kaaba and between Safa and Marwa

8:42 It is sufficient for your Hajj and Umrah

8:45 Narrated by Abu Dawood

8:47 She refused and said, O Messenger of God

8:50 You performed Umrah and I did not perform Umrah

8:53 O Messenger of God

8:55 Bring people back with two wages

8:57 And I will come back with a reward

8:59 O Messenger of God

9:01 People issue two pennies

9:03 One penny was issued

9:05 O Messenger of God

9:07 Your companions will return with the reward of Hajj and Umrah

9:10 I did not go beyond Hajj

9:12 Will your wives return for Hajj and Umrah?

9:15 And I return under an excuse that does not include Umrah

9:19 Ibn Taymiyyah, may God have mercy on him, said

9:22 When she insisted

9:24 Make her live a life of pleasure for herself

9:27 Ibn al-Qayyim, may God have mercy on him, said

9:30 She found it within herself

9:32 To return her companions

9:34 Independent Hajj and Umrah

9:36 If they are enjoying themselves

9:39 And he did not observe and did not associate

9:42 She returns with Umrah as part of her Hajj

9:46 So he ordered her brother to grant her life of prosperity

9:49 To sweeten her heart

9:52 This is an example of a fragrant biography

9:55 From the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

9:58 It expresses the beauty of his dealings, may God bless him and grant him peace

10:02 With Aisha, may God be pleased with her

10:05 His entire biography is beautiful

10:08 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing

10:11 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds

10:14 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her

أمنا عائشة | الحلقة (14) | يا عائشة، ما يبكيكِ؟

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