Part of أمنا عائشة رضي الله عنها (اكتملت السلسلة)
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أمنا عائشة | الحلقة (17) | يا عائشة، لتخبريني أو ليخبرنّي اللطيف الخبير
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Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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Oh Aisha, tell me first, the Kind and All-Knowing will tell me
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God created woman
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He showed us the relationship that would exist between her and the man
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And God Almighty said
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It is He who created you from one soul
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He made her her husband to live with her
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He also said
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Among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves
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wives, that you may find comfort in them
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And He placed between you affection and mercy
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Indeed, in that are signs for people who reflect
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The verses indicate that the man is the one who is at ease with the woman
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And not the other way around
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Because the man is constantly on the move outside the home
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He goes home to live
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And the woman is his home
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While the woman makes the decisions at home
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It is stable in it and not mobile
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Moving outside the home was an emergency for her
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And he doesn't actually commit
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Moreover, it is a right that you demand
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Therefore, she does not live with a man
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But he is the one who lives in it
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There is no indication in the Qur’an that a woman resides with a man
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But what was reported is that the man is the one who lives in it
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And so that the man can live with his wife
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He needs to realize a truth that does not change with time
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Nor with the progress of civilization
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It is that the nature of women is different from the nature of men
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God Almighty said
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The male is not like the female
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If the man misunderstands this fact
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He lived in poverty
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It is the nature of women
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It does not fit a man in one way
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The error is repeatable
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Even if the man taught it over and over again
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That is why the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Woman was created from a rib
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His path will not set you straight
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If you enjoy it
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I enjoyed it and its crookedness
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If you go to straighten it, you will break it
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Her divorce broke her
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Narrated by Muslim
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If a woman does not agree with a man in one way
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What is the best solution to deal with it?
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The perfect solution for dealing with women
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This is what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided us to
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By saying and doing
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Whoever wants to treat his wife well
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He must study the biography of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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With his wives
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How did he deal with them?
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Examples of this are:
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His saying, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Woman was created from a rib
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If you want to straighten the rib, you can break it
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She lives in her house
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Narrated by Ahmed
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He guided, may God bless him and grant him peace
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To use orbits with women
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To continue living with her
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And managed
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That a man should be kind to his wife until he returns her to the truth
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Or keep her away from falsehood in the best ways
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A practical example is in the life of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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With his wives
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This beautiful story
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Which shows us the beauty of the creation of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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In dealing with his wives
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And his orbits are for them
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With repeated mistakes on the part of them regarding jealousy
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On to the story
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On the authority of Muhammad bin Qais bin Makhramah bin Al-Muttalib
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He said one day
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Shall I not tell you about me and my mother?
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He said
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We thought he wanted his mother who gave birth
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He said
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Aisha said
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Shall I not tell you about me and the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace?
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We said yes
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He said
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She said
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When it was the night that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was with me
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He turned over, put on his robe and took off his shoes
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So he placed them at his feet
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He spread the edge of his garment on his bed
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So he lay down
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It was only a heir who thought that he had lost his temper
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So he took his robe slowly
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And take your shoes slowly
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He opened the door and went out
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Then he dried it slowly
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So I put my shield on my head and got ready
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Izari was convinced
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Then I set off after him
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Until Al-Baqi'a came and stood up
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So he stayed up for a long time
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Then he raised his hands three times
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Then he swerved
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So I deviated
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So hurry up
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So I hurried
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So he jogged
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So I ran
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So bring it
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So I brought
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So I got ahead of him and entered
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It was only when I fell asleep
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So he entered
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And he said
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What's wrong with you, Aisha?
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Hash, Rabia
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She said
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I said nothing
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He said
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To tell me
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Or let the kind and knowledgeable one tell me
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She said
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I said, O Messenger of God
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May my father and mother be sacrificed for you
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So I told him
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He said
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You are the blackness that I saw before me
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I said yes
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So let me feel pain in my chest or make me feel hungry
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Then he said
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Did you think that God and His Messenger would be unfair to you?
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She said
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Whatever people conceal, God knows
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Yes
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He said
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Gabriel came to me when I saw him
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So he called me and hid it from you
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I answered him and hid it from you
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He did not enter you while you had put on your clothes
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And I thought I had fallen asleep
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I hated to wake you up
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I was afraid that she would feel lonely
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And he said
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Your Lord commands you to go to the people of Al-Baqi' and ask forgiveness for them
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She said
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I said
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How do I tell them, O Messenger of God?
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He said
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Say
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Peace be upon the people of the land, whether believers or Muslims
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May God have mercy on those of us who come forward and those who remain behind
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And we, God willing, will follow you
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Narrated by Muslim
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There are several pauses in this story
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The first
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This is one of the stories of Aisha’s jealousy, may God be pleased with her
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We note that it is similar to the story we mentioned in the previous article
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Where she loses him at night in her bed
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So you search for him
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It is thought that he went to one of his wives
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Then you discover otherwise
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, repeated the same guidance
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He did not tell her that we had already taught you
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Why do you repeat the mistake?
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Because, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He knows that a woman does not follow a man in one way
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She must repeat the mistake
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This is a lesson for all men in the way they deal with their wives
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Especially when we repeat the mistake
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Second
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The morals of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, with his wives are evident in this story
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And his concern for his comfort
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He left very quietly so that Aisha would not wake up
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Don't feel lonely if you sit alone at night
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This is from his noble morals and mercy, may God bless him and grant him peace
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This is another lesson for men to consider their husbands' comfort
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Third
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Aisha, may God be pleased with her, is jealous
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It made her not pay attention to these great meanings
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Which the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, adorned
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Rather, jealousy made her unable to bear the actions of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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On the best bearings
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But I carried her on the worst bearings
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She thought he was going to one of his wives that night
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This is a kind of injustice to the wife if he did it
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That is why the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her
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Did you think that God and His Messenger would be unfair to you?
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That is, for God and His Messenger to wrong you
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Aisha admitted to him that this was the thought that came to her mind
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And she said
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Whatever people conceal, God knows
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Yes
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Jealousy does not justify the wife to think badly of the husband
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Therefore, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, denounced her suspicion
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Fourth
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That Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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I realized that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was heading to Al-Baqi’ to pray for the dead
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However, she continued to watch him and did not return home
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She was not reassured by his exit
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Although the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, stopped and prayed for a long time
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And all this is because of jealousy
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Which robs her of the correct thinking in dealing with the event
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Fifth
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What a woman conceals of her bad opinion of her husband may be hidden from him
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But it is not hidden from God
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Therefore, women must feel this truth that Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said
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Whatever people conceal, God knows
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Six
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That the wrong action of the husband or wife
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He may show signs of it
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And what happened to Aisha, may God be pleased with her, was her self-disgrace
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her
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What's wrong with you, Aisha, Rabia?
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She said I said nothing
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He said to tell me or let the kind and knowledgeable one tell me
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Aisha was out of breath
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Her stomach rises and falls from her rapid breathing
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Because she was running fast
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To reach home before the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, left it
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He thinks she is asleep
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It is necessary in such a case
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To be at the peak of tranquility
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This sign was a reason to expose her jealousy
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And what resulted from her persecution of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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O Muslim woman!
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You are exposed to the consequences of your jealousy
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Not regulated by legal controls
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It may bring you disaster
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With bad thoughts and shameful actions
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
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Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her