Part of مسك الخطاب (اكتملت السلسلة)
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مسك الخطاب | الحلقة (66) | لو كنت معاتباً
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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There is nothing wrong with reproaching
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God Almighty says in His Holy Qur’an
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He admonished his Prophet with gentle reproach
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And the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He blamed his friends
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But there are some rules in reproach
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You must pay attention to it
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So they said
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Excessive blame causes hostility and hatred
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Abandoning blame altogether causes estrangement
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It is like salt in food
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If it exceeds its limit
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If he turns to his opposite
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We have it in the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
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A good example
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This is Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him
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The servant of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He says
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I served the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, for ten years
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He never said anything to me
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And he did not say to something I did, to what I did
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Nor for anything I left behind when I left him
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He was the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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One of the best created people
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I have never touched any thread or silk
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Nothing was more automatic than the palm of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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I have never smelled musk
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No perfume was better than the sweat of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Therefore, it is necessary to be gentle in reproaching
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Error cancelled
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Too much of it is wrong
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It is necessary to reproach
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To point out the mistake to the person you blame if he is wrong
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Another truth about reproach
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Do not ask others not to make mistakes
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On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said:
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Every human being makes mistakes
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The best of sinners are those who repent
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And if you want to blame your brother
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So use the kind word
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And kind words are acceptable
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A kind word is charity
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Blaming is an art that few people are good at
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Therefore, we find many friends and lovers
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They lose each other because of their ignorance of the art of reproach
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So establish a system of reproach between you and your brother
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A reason to strengthen the relationship with him
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Do not make it a reason for quarreling
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If you were blaming
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Because of the wonderful ways of Tabis, righteousness and goodness
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So be like the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
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In reproach
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Leaf balm
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And education and compassion
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Honesty, forgiveness, appreciation and reverence
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How beautiful is admonition between lovers
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These are some of the rules of reproach
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You have to do it if you are blaming