Part of الشمائل المحمدية (اكتملت السلسلة)
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الشمائل المحمدية | الحلقة (23) | باب ما جاء في كلام رسول الله ﷺ في السَّمر
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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With the pens of longing and the ink of love
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We write hearts more precious than gold
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In describing the Master of Creation, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Shamail Muhammad
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Chapter on what was mentioned in the words of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, regarding Samar
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Samar means talking at night
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The origin of brown is the color of moonlight
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Because they were talking about it
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
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11 women sat
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So we pledged and contracted
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Do they not conceal anything from their husbands?
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She said the first
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My husband had sloppy camel meat
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On top of a rugged mountain
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It is not easy to rise
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Not fat, so it moves
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She said the second
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My husband, I don't care about news
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I am afraid that I will not leave
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If I remember him, I remember his reward and reward
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She said the third
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My adoring husband
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If I speak, I will release
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If I remain silent, I will comment
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She said the fourth
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My husband is Kalil Tihama
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There is neither heat nor comfort
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No fear or boredom
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She said the fifth
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If my husband enters, he will be a leopard
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And if a lion comes out
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He is not asked about what he promised
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She said six
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My husband ate wraps
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If he drinks, he will be relieved
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And if he lies down, he will recover
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And the palm does not enter
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To teach broadcasting
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She said the seventh
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My husband is afraid of me
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Or gaya
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Apply
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Every disease has a disease
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Shajak or Falak
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Or collect all yours
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She said eight
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My husband touched a rabbit
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And the wind is the smell of grapes
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She said nine
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My husband is a high-ranking man
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Long Najad
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Great ash
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The house is close to the club
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She said ten o'clock
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My husband is Malik
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And what's wrong with you?
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What's better than that?
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He has many blessed camels
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Few theatres
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If we hear Al-Mizhar's voice
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I am sure that they are your threat
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She said eleven
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My husband is a father of sow
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And he is not the father of Zaraa
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People of my ear jewelry
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And it was filled with fat from my genitals
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And he made me smile
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So I shouted to myself
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He found me among the people of Ghanimah Bashaq
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You make me among the people of neighing, humming, trampling, and purring
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Then I say, “Don’t be ugly.”
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And I lie down and it becomes morning
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And I drink and I get sick
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My father's mother planted
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My father's mother did not plant anything
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Akumha Raddah
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And her house is spacious
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Ibn Abi Zar'a
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Ibn Abi did not plant anything
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Mtjaaa Kamsl Shatba
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And the arm of Jafrah satisfies him
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Daughter of Abu Zara
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My father’s daughter did not plant anything
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Her father volunteered
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And her mother volunteered
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And he filled her cover
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And her neighbour's anger
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My father's slave girl
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What is my father’s slave girl?
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Don't broadcast our conversation
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And do not let our mirror be cleansed
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Do not fill our house with nests
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She said
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Abu Zara went out and the bricks were churning
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He found a woman with two sons who looked like two leopards
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They are playing with two pomegranates under her waist
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So he divorced me and married her
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Then she married a secret man
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Shreya rode
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And he took it in writing
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He bestowed upon me abundant blessings
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And he gave me a pair of every scent
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And he said
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Eat or plant and see your family
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If I collect everything, he will give me
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What amounted to the smallest pot of my father’s plants
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Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to me
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I was to you like a sow's father to a sow's mother
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This hadith is from what was mentioned in Samar of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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With some of his wives
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Sociable and kind
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This is part of good treatment and a kind soul
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And the devil's prank
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The talk of the sailor, the party, and the stories
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What souls find comfort in
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And it goes away from the hearts
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He spoke with sociability
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All of this is a legitimate objective
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This is the long story that Aisha, may God be pleased with her, mentioned to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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About these women in the news of each of them and her husband
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The Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, listened to her as a companion and a good companion
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In it, eleven women gathered in one meeting
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We pledged not to conceal anything from their husbands
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Whether it is praise or insult
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Some of them mentioned her husband with praise
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Some of them mentioned him with a mug
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The first woman said, describing her husband
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My husband had sloppy camel meat
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That is, it is like very lean camel meat
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On top of a mountain
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This mountain is not easy to climb
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Because it has a lot of rocks
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And the meat is fat, so it is transferred
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That is, he endures the hardships for his sake to transfer it
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It is tomorrow
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That is, he endures the hardships for his sake to transfer it
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She is not satisfied with her husband
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Because of his bad character and harsh nature
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She likens it to camel meat
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Which the soul recovers
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He compared his bad character to a rugged mountain
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I wish he, with his abundance, was available and easy to ascend
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Rather, it is on top of a difficult mountain to reach
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And at the same time
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He does not deserve to endure the hardships for his sake
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To reach it
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The second woman said
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My husband, I don't share any news
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That is, I do not divulge or broadcast his news and description
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I am afraid that I will not leave
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That is, I fear if I start mentioning his description and experience
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I will not leave any of his experience behind
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Because of its length and abundance
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It means its many faults and disadvantages
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I cannot fulfill his mention
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If I remember him, I remember his reward and reward
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The origin of jaundice is bulging of the veins in the neck
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And the swelling of the navel
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It is as if she told him he has visible and hidden faults
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I was aware of the defects that appear due to impotence
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Which is the swelling of the veins
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He has hidden flaws that only women know about
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And I was jealous of her
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Which is the bulge of the navel
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The third woman said
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The lover's husband
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And it's long
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And meaning
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There is nothing more than useless length
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If I speak, I will release
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If I remain silent, I will comment
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That is, if she uttered and said something and it reached him
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He will release it
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Even if you keep silent about its shortcomings
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To him, it is like a hanging spoon
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Neither married nor divorced
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The fourth woman said
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My husband is Kalil Tihama
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You want it to be unharmed
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Rather, it is comfort and pleasure to live like the night of Tihama
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Mild delicious
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There is neither excessive heat nor excessive cold
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And Tihama
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It is the coastal plain of the Red Sea from the Asian side
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No fear or boredom
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That is, I am not afraid of him because of his generous morals
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He does not tire of me or become curious about me and become bored with my company
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And he is not bad-mannered
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I am tired of being with him
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The fifth woman said
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If my husband enters, he will be a leopard
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And if a lion comes out
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That is, if he enters the house
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He slept a lot like a leopard
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You want him to sleep
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He ignores the defects in the house that I need to fix
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Or he neglects to take care of the lost belongings and money in his house and what remains
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He does not hold her accountable for little or much
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And if he is outside the house
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He was like a lion in his courage, strength and anger
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She wants him to be nice to her
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Outside the home, he will be brave, strong, and angry
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He is not asked about what he promised
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That is, he does not ask her about the money or the like he left at home to complete his generosity
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The sixth woman said
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My husband ate wraps
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That is, he eats her skin
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He does not leave any food behind
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Rolling is in food
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A lot of it, while mixing its types
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Until there is nothing left of it
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Likewise, if Sharib became sick
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He is the one who does not leave anything in the vessel
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Transparency is taken from the word transparency
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It is the remaining drink in the vessel
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And if he sleeps, he turns around
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That is, he wrapped himself in his clothes alone in one part of the house and grabbed them
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She is depressed about it
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He does not insert the cuff to know the broadcast
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That is, he does not put his palm inside my dress
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To know the sadness that I have
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This is due to his lack of interest and closeness to her
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He does not touch her, caress her, or consort with her
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He does not satisfy her need
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She does not complain of her distress and sadness to him
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In her criticism of him, she combined meanness and miserliness
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And bad relations with his family
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And his lack of desire to marry
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With his excessive desire for food and drink
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This is extremely reprehensible among the Arabs
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The seventh woman said
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My husband is jealous
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That is, he is covered by his ignorance
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From the cancellation that is disappointment
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Or she said Aiyaa
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From blindness, which is incapacity
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It was said that he is stubborn
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Who is tired of having intercourse with women?
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It is completely impossible to do
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What a stupid idiot
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It was said that he is unable to speak
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Then his lips closed
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Every disease has a disease
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That is, every disease that differentiates between people
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I mean, it's flawed
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They gathered in it
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Shajak or villak
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Or collect both for you
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It means that if she joked with him
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Shog her in the head
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And if you get angry
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He broke one of her organs
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Or split her skin
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Or add it all together
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From beating and wounding
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The limb is broken and speech is painful
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The eighth woman said
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My husband touched a rabbit
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And the wind is the smell of grapes
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She described it as having smooth skin
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As soft as rabbit hair
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It was said that what was meant by her saying was “to touch a rabbit.”
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That is, gentleness and generosity of character
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And he is a good race
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For its cleanliness and good use
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And the grapes are good
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Or a pleasant-smelling tree
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The ninth woman said
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My husband is a high-ranking man
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It is the pillar that supports the house
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It means the house he lives in
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High-ranking
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For guests and those with needs to see it
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It was said that I meant the high pillar
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He described it as an honor and a blessing
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That is, his house is counted
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Tall Najad, i.e. tall
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Great ash
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Because his fire is not extinguished
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To guide the guests to her
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There will be a lot of ashes
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This shows his generosity
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The house is close to the club
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The club is the People's Council
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That is, if his people consulted about a matter
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They relied on his opinion
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And it was said
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She described him as generous and kind
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He does not live close to the club
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Except for this characteristic
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Because the two guests go to the club
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And because the club owners
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They take what they need
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In their council from a house close to the club
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The mean people stay away from the club
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The tenth woman said
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My husband is Malik
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And what's wrong with you?
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What's better than that?
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This is veneration for her husband
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His name was Malik
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And it is better than what you will remember from its description
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He has many blessed camels
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That is, he owns many blessed camels
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It is the place of her brook
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Few theatres
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That is, it is not directed to pastures much of it
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For his preparation for the two guests
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So that he can slaughter some of it for them if they come to him
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This shows his generosity
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And if we hear the voice of Al-Mizhar
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That is, they are your threat
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That is, if the camels heard Al-Mizhar’s voice
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He was happy with the arrival of the two guests
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The camels knew they would perish
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And you will slaughter to feed them
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And the flower
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It is a musical instrument, by God
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She wanted her husband to return his camel if the two guests came with him
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He brought them musical instruments
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And slaughter some of those camels for them
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The eleventh woman said
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She is the mother of plants
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Atika bint or Kimil bin Saida of Yemen
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My husband is a father of sow
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That is, his nickname is Abu Zara
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What is the father of Zara?
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You mean glorification
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People of my ear jewelry
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That is, he filled my ears with jewels
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And it was filled with fat from my genitals
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The humerus is between the elbow and the shoulder
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The meaning is that he made me fat and filled my body with fat and flesh from eating
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She did not want the organist's specialty
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But if they get fat, others get fat
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She said
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He made me proud, and I made myself proud
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Any bone to myself
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So it became great to me
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He found me among the people of Ghanimah Bashaq
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That is, its people were sheep owners
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They do not own camels or horses
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They were not rich
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The Arabs do not respect the owners of the sheep
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Rather, they attack the people of horses and camels
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They lived in a place called Shaq
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Or what is meant is to split a mountain
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Because of their scarcity and the scarcity of their sheep
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The mountain split towards him
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It was said that what was meant was that he found me with a lot of livelihood, effort and hardship
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She said
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So he made me among the people of Sahil and Hoot
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The neighing sound of a horse
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The atat is the sound of camels
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The meaning is to make her one of the owners of horses and camels
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And say it
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Trampled and refined
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That is, trampling the plant to bring love out of the ear
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The food melts
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It removes any peel or the like mixed with it
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And the meaning
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He moved it from the intensity of living and his effort
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To the vast wealth of horses, camels and crops
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And say it
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Then I say, “Don’t be ugly.”
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That is, my words are not objectionable or rejected
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And I lie down and it becomes morning
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That is, I sleep until the morning
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Because she had servants who did the housework for her
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And I drink and soothe myself
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That is, I drink until I pretend to drink from the intensity of drinking
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Nothing interrupts my drinking
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Then the woman praised her husband’s mother, Abu Zar’
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And she said
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My father's mother planted
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My father's mother did not plant anything
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Akumha Raddah
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Akoum are the containers in which luggage is collected
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And it is large
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And she said, “Her house is spacious.”
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That is, her house is large and spacious
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Then she praised Ibn Abi Zur’
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And she said
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His bed is like an amusement to write off
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Any sleeping place looks like a crossed-out leaf
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You want its texture to resemble a sword in terms of agility and lightness
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And she says
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And the arm of unbelief satisfies him
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Al-Jafra is a female goat that has reached four months
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And what she wants
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He eats little
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The Arabs praise this
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Then the woman praised the daughter of Abu Zur’
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And she said
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Her father willingly and her mother willingly
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That is, obedient to her father and mother
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Do not disobey them
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And fill its covering
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That is, she fills her dress due to her obesity
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And her neighbour's anger
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That is, it makes her hurt
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For her beauty, politeness and chastity
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Then she praised Abu Zur’a’s slave girl
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And she said
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Don't broadcast her talk indiscriminately
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That is, do not broadcast and spread their conversations and secrets
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And do not let our mirror be cleansed
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That is, do not spoil their food
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Do not separate it or go with it
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What is meant to be described as honesty
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Do not fill our house with nests
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That is, do not leave garbage dispersed in the house, such as bird nests
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Rather, it is for the benefit of the home
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Take care of cleaning it
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Then Umm Zara’ mentioned the change that had occurred in her life with Abu Zara’
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When he saw another woman
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So he married her and divorced Umm Zar’
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She said
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Abu Zara went out and the bricks were churning
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The pots are milk containers
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Stir to extract the butter
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She wanted the time he got out
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It was a time of fertility and good spring
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She said
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He found a woman with two sons who looked like two leopards
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The reason for her description is the goodness of her children
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Alert about the reason for my father marrying her to her
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Because the Arabs wanted boys
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One of the noble women in character and morals
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And say it
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They are playing with two pomegranates under her waist
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That is, two moves under its middle
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They play with the woman's small breasts
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They are like pomegranates in their beauty
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She said
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So he divorced me and married her
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Then you say
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Then she married a secret man
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That is, I married an honorable man after my father planted
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Shreya rode
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That is, he continues his walk diligently without interruption
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And he took it in writing
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The line is the spear
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It is attributed to a place in Yemen
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Bring spears from him
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He bestowed upon me abundant blessings
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That is, he brought her a lot of camels
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The rich person has a lot of money and other things
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Among them is wealth in money, which is its abundance
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And say it
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And he gave me a pair of every scent
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That is, he was giving her everything
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He goes from camels, cows, sheep, and slaves in pairs
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That is, two by two
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It is possible that she wanted a husband
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Any type
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And he said
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Eat or plant and see your family
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That is, pray for your family, treat them well, and provide them with plenty of food
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She said
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If I collected everything he would give me
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What amounted to the smallest pot of my father’s plants
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That is, everything he honored me with
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It is not worth any of the honor of Abu Zar’
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She described this second husband
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With pride in himself, wealth and courage
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And grace and generosity
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Because he allowed her to eat whatever she wanted from his money
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She gives whatever she wants to her family, exaggerating her honor
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However, Abu Zar'a's location was not located there
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And a lot of it, not a little, is planted
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With her father's abuse, he finally divorced her
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But her love for him made her husband hate her
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As it was said
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Love is only for the first lover
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After the Mother of the Believers, Aisha, may God be pleased with her, told the story
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This story is from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He told her
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I was to you like a sow's father to a sow's mother
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He added in a narration
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However, I will not divorce you
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That is, my life with you was in honor and love
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As was the biography of Abu Zar’a and Umm Zar’a
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This is from his humility, may God bless him and grant him peace
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And his good manners
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Otherwise, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He does not imitate anyone else
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Rather, he imitates him and his good qualities and morals
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He benefits from talking
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It is permissible to mention the virtues of women to men
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If they are anonymous
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Other than aids
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It is permissible to inform men
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With his love for his wife
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And in it is the virtue of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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And the capacity of its memorization and memory
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With her young age
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And if the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, prayed for her
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For her sake
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And this hadith
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It has several benefits
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It takes a long time to mention it
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Perhaps we will devote a special series to it, God willing
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The rest of the talk, God willing
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And God knows best
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May God’s blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad
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And upon all his family and companions