Part of حديث أم زرع (اكتملت السلسلة)
· Lesson 14 of 25
أصناف الرجال في حديث أم زرع | الحلقة (14) | زوجي المسُّ مسُّ أرنب
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’
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Husband Touch Miss Rabbit
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After the eighth woman listened to the women before her describing their husbands in praise and disparagement
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She was proud of them by describing her husband in few eloquent words
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And she said
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My husband touched a rabbit
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And the wind is the smell of grapes
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She didn't talk long
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But I exaggerated the description
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The women were left to marvel at the beautiful meanings that these few phrases carried
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This is an eloquent description
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The rabbit and the wind have many things in common
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Including the softness that tickles whoever touches them
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This is one of the beautiful logics of this woman
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It brought general praise without detail
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I think it would have been separated
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I would have mentioned good qualities
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She was summed up with this eloquent description
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This is because the detail in praise is among women
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The heart of a woman who is deprived of the beautiful qualities in her husband may be sad
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So you fall into envy
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Or regret missing such a man
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Or covet it
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Especially if you are not married
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Or she ignores her husband's virtues
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Looking at the merits of others
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So the blessing that is in her is blasphemous
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Perfection among men is dear
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So how about women?
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Advice for a sane woman
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Do not talk a lot between women
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About the beautiful details that she lives with her husband
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But we are afflicted in this time
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So-called means of communication
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And it's a blessing
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Misused
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By those whose minds are satiated
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I love fame and pride among people
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They photograph every moment of their lives
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And they publish it in these means
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Which indicates the mental level
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Which some people have reached in their interests
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And the extent to which the culture of triviality controls people
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This is a sensible woman
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She praised her husband in two short sentences
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If we ask women today
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To praise their men in two sentences
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We could not do this except through the mercy of God
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So how is this description that you excelled at?
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The eighth woman said
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My husband touched a rabbit
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And the wind is the smell of grapes
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It contains many characteristics
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This woman included it in this description
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Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said
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She describes him as having good manners and good looks
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Touch a rabbit if you put your hand on its back
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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This describes her husband Brian's side of the family
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And good manners and treatment with them
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The rabbit touched the softness of its tentacle
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And its flexibility and righteousness
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Ibn Diezel, may God have mercy on him, said
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And about her saying, “Touch a rabbit.”
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She says he is soft-spoken
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Because touching the rabbit is easy and gentle
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The woman described her husband in two ways
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The first is that it is easy to use
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This is a praiseworthy characteristic in Islam
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It came in praise of those who possess it
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Several hadiths, including:
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On the authority of Ibn Masoud, may God be pleased with him, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Shall I not tell you who will be forbidden to Hell?
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Or someone for whom Hell is forbidden
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Anyway, easy, soft, easy, close to easy
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Narrated by Ibn Abi Shaybah
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And the easy-going and gentle person
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He combines many qualities, all of them beautiful
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Including smile and grace
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And the kind word
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And love making people happy
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As for the smile
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She has a fluent face when meeting people
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The most deserving of people is a fluent face
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A woman chosen by this gentle, gentle person
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To be his companion in life
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He paid the money for her satisfaction
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He made himself miserable by working hard
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For her happiness
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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And your smile in your brother’s face is sincere
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari in Al-Adab Al-Mufrad
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And your wife is the one who looks at your face the most
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More than smiling at her
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Your good deeds will increase while you are at home
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It makes her happy and makes her happy
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I am fascinated by it because of the most beloved deeds to God
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As stated in the hadith of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both
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That a man came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He said, O Messenger of God
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Which people are most beloved to God?
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Which deeds are most beloved to God?
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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The most beloved people to God Almighty
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The most beneficial to people
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The most beloved deeds to God Almighty
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The pleasure of interfering with a Muslim
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Narrated by Al-Tabarani in Al-Kabir
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Your wife is the first person to bring happiness to her
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As for tolerance
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It is not possible to imagine an easy-going, gentle man
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To be thick silver
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He is expected to be tolerant in his dealings with those around him
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He treated them tolerantly
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His household
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It is a sign of his faith
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As stated in the hadith of Jabir bin Abdullah, may God be pleased with them both, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was asked about faith
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He said
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Patience and tolerance
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Narrated by Abu Ya'la
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And tolerance in dealing with people in general
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And the man’s household in particular
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A reason to enter Paradise and obtain God’s forgiveness
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As stated in the hadith of Abdullah bin Omar, may God be pleased with them both, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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A man entered Paradise by his grace as a judge and judge
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Narrated by Ahmed
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And those who are wise and generous
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The kind word
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It is what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said about it
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A kind word is charity
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Narrated by Ahmed
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All of these qualities are included in her statement
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Touch the rabbit
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The second description I praised him with
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He smells good
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Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said
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And say it
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The wind is the wind of grapes
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It has two meanings
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It may be that you want to smell his body
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It is to want good praise from people
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And it spreads among them like the smell of grapefruit
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It is a well-known type of perfume
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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As for her likening it to the smell of grapes
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There are interpretations
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One of them
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By doing so, she wanted him to be praised and spread among the people
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And the second
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She wanted the goodness of his body and the perfume of his gardens
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And the third
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She wanted him to be gentle and have good manners
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It means the first chapter
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As for the first meaning
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And people praise him
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Which is expressed in his fragrant walk among the people
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This is consistent with it being easy and supple
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People testify to the man about what he was known for
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On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, he said:
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They went through a funeral
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They praised her well
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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I got it
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Then they passed another
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They praised her evilly
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And he said
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I got it
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Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him, said
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I didn't have to
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He said
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This you praised well
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So Paradise granted him
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And you praised this evilly
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So the fire struck him
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You are God's martyrs on earth
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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As for the second meaning
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He has a good body
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This is what people generally like
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And the wife especially
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It must have a pleasant smell
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Because of the abundance of perfume he uses
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He takes great care of his personal hygiene
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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A lover of goodness
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As stated in the hadith of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Beloved to me from this world
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Women and perfume
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And he made the apple of my eye in prayer
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Narrated by Ahmed
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Are you the brother of the honorable wife?
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This type is easy, gentle and tolerant
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The one with the kind words and the sweet smell
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I hope you are one of them
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Congratulations to the one whose husband is of this type
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We will continue in the next meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds