Part of حديث أم زرع (اكتملت السلسلة)
· Lesson 16 of 25
أصناف الرجال في حديث أم زرع | الحلقة (16) | زوجي مالكٌ وما مالك
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’
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Malik's husband and Malik
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The tenth woman heard others praise their husbands for their generosity and generosity
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Especially the ninth woman
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She wanted to be proud of her husband's generosity
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You elevate and glorify him
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She said proudly
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My husband is your owner and what is yours
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What's better than that?
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He has many blessed camels
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Few theatres
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And if we hear the voice of Al-Mizhar
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I am sure that they are your threat
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Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, may God have mercy on him, said
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And say ten o'clock
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My husband is your owner and what is yours
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This is veneration for her husband
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It is as God Almighty says
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And the companions of the right are what are the companions of the right
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And he said
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Attach it
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What's next?
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And say it
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What's better than that?
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That is, it is better than I can describe it
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Because of the fame of his virtue and abundance of goodness
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Ibn al-Mulqin, may God have mercy on him, said
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It has the meaning of glorification and exaggeration
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And its truth
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So what is yours and what is it?
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That is, anything is
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How great, great, and honorable He is
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Malik's saying is better than that
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Increase in exaltation
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And an explanation of some vagueness
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And it is better than what I am referring to
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Of praise and kind remembrance
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Or more than I think about it
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I will be happy and proud
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When you meditate, honorable man
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This is a compliment from a woman
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She realizes that she loves him very much
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And proud of it among women
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She glorifies him and praises him
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You may be wondering
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What made her love him?
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This great love
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Although she is praising him here
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She didn't mention anything
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It concerns his relationship with her
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Yes, that's flattering
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He hides his good behavior behind him
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From her husband to her
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This deal is very large
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She even hid it from them
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She simply praised him
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In his relationship with people
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To realize my brother, the honorable man
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The depth of this woman's intelligence
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Who made a covenant with the women with her
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They should not conceal anything from their husbands
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So I mentioned one aspect to them
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In an exaggeratedly flattering way
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To distract them from mentioning details
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Which you don't want to show
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From his relationship with her
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I turned their attention
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To one side of his life
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It is hospitality
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And I explained it
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And she was so creative
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This is for you to learn, my dear brother-in-law
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That women have the power
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To change the truth
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Or ignore it
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In a way he doesn't have it
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The cleverness of men
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Without falling into a lie
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And if you want to realize this meaning
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Consider this verse with me
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And the story I will tell next
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As for the verse
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It is in the story of Joseph, peace be upon him
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With my dear woman
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God Almighty said
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And stay ahead of the door
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I took his shirt from behind
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And a thousand, sir, at the door
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She said: What is the recompense for those who wish harm upon your family?
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Except that he will be imprisoned or painfully tormented
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She did not explicitly accuse Joseph, peace be upon him
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But she misled her husband
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That Joseph, peace be upon him
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He wanted it bad
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But God failed her and exposed her
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So her master realized
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She manipulates words
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To change the truth
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God Almighty said
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When he saw that his shirt was torn from his back
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He said it was your plot
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Your plot is great
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And do not think, dear husband
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That women manipulate words
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With men only
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Even with women
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And consider the words of God Almighty
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In the exact same way as the story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz
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Women in the city said
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The dear woman is haunted
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Her boy about himself
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She was passionate about love
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We see it in clear error
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When I heard about their deception
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sent to them
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The question here
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Does deception hear?
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You only hear the sayings and the news
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But God called their words deception
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Because they wanted something other than what he said
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They wanted to look at this
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Who had her passion for love
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When she heard their article
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I realized they were deceiving her
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As for the story
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It is an incident that happened before the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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The woman spoke
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True words about her husband
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In her complaint against him
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On the authority of Abu Saeed, may God be pleased with him, he said
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A woman came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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And we are with him
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And she said
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O Messenger of God
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My husband is Safwan bin Al-Mu'tal
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He hits me if I pray
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It breaks my fast if I fast
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He does not pray the dawn prayer
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Until the sun rises
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He said
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Describe him
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He said
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So ask him what she said
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And he said
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O Messenger of God
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As for her saying, “It hits me when I pray.”
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She recites two surahs and I have finished it
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He said
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And he said
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If it were one Surah, it would be enough for the people
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As for what she said, it breaks my fast
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She knocks and fasts
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I am a young man, so I cannot be patient
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said that day
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A woman should not fast without her husband’s permission
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As for what she said
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I don't pray until the sun rises
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We are the people of a household that has been known to us
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We hardly wake up until the sun rises
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He said
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If you wake up, pray
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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She didn't lie to him
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But she hid the truth
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In important terms
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That it was the husband's fault
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The tenth woman praised her husband for his generosity
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He described the way he honored the guest
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And prepare for it before it comes
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And she said
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He has many blessed camels
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Few theatres
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And if we hear the voice of Al-Mizhar
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I am sure that they are your threat
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Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said
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She says
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He only directs them to go out during the day
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But they are blessed with its annihilation
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If a guest stays there
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Camels were not absent from him
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But she was in his presence
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He reads it from its milk and meat
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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She described her husband as generous and hospitable
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And prepare for the guests
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And exaggeration in their righteousness and honor
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The Arabs were competing to honor the guest
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Because they see it as a virtue
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For which the man is praised
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If you think about the honorable brother-in-law
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If you find that more than one woman
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Who sat on this council?
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She described her husband as generous
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But the way to honor guests
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And prepare for them
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It varies from one man to another
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was praised
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Generosity, he said
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God is generous and loves generosity
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Jawad loves generosity
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His Excellency loves morals
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And he hates her foolishness
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Narrated by Al-Kharaiti in ethics
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Abu Hatem spoke
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In Al-Basti, may God have mercy on him, for generosity
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In his book Rawdat al-Uqlaa
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And the outing of the virtuous
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In long words
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These are some excerpts from it
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Gather people of experience for eternity
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And people of virtue in religion
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And those who desire the beautiful
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It is the best man's possession
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For himself in this world
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And what is saved for her in Al-Aqaba
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It is necessary to be generous
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Because generosity improves memory
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Fate is honored
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Generous people should not be spiteful
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Nor envious
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Nor gloating
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Nor a transgressor
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And I don't forget
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Nor Lahia
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Nor immoral people
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Nor proud
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Nor a liar
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And I'm not bored
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And he does not cut his sword
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He does not harm his brothers
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Preservation is not lost
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And it does not dry up in Wydad
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He gives to those who do not expect
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He who does not fear believes
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And he pardons his fate
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He arrives on behalf of his flock
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The generous Mahmoud influenced the world
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Work sick in Aqaba
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He is loved by both the relative and the storyteller
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It is familiar to the dissatisfied and the satisfied
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Enemies and meanness leave him
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He is accompanied by wise and honorable people
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If these are the characteristics of the generous
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With people in general
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How will she be with his wife?
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Which he chose to be
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Your companion in life
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Helped to honor the guest
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Exaggerating in her praise of her husband's generosity
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Dear brother-in-law
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How do you find yourself being generous with your wife?
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And how satisfied she is
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About your spending on it
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Do you consider yourself generous?
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting
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God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds