Part of حديث أم زرع (اكتملت السلسلة)
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أصناف الرجال في حديث أم زرع | الحلقة (12) | رويدك يا فلان، لا تكسر القوارير
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zurrah
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Take your time, so-and-so, don't break the bottle.
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, likened the woman to a glass bottle
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The nature of glass is that it breaks quickly
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He ordered the men to be considerate and gentle
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It was mentioned in the hadith of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, that he said:
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The Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, had a sharp tongue called Anjshah
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He had a good voice
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to him
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Be careful, Anjesha, don't break the bottle.
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Qatada said
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It means the weakness of women
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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Ibn Battal, may God have mercy on him, said
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Because when the camels move with their horseshoes
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And increase her walking with it
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They are afraid of falling
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This will cause them to break, which happens to bottles
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Rather, it is just the rapid movement of the camels and the frequent shaking while they are on top of it
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It makes her tired and hurts her body even without falling
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Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, may God have mercy on him, said
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It means the weakness of women
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He likened them to bottles
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Because they are quickly affected
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And because they don't flog
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There was a fear that some of them would fall due to the intensity and speed of the traffic
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Or they suffer from excessive movement and disturbance
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Which is about speed and urgency
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There is another meaning referred to by Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him
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And he said
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He likened them to her because of their weak resolve
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Bottles break quickly
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Angsha was chasing them
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He recites from the qarid and rajaz something that contains Shabib
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He was not sure that he would tempt them
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Or their hearts will fall
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So he ordered him to stop doing that
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A woman is as tender-hearted as a bottle
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The bitter word breaks it
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If a woman cannot tolerate a hurtful word because of the tenderness of her heart
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How can she tolerate someone hitting her body and face?
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He twists her arm
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As if in a wrestling ring
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And whoever wants to follow the example of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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In his treatment of his wife
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Consider this hadith
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
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What the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, struck
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Nothing in his hand
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No woman or servant
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Unless he strives for the sake of God
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He never did anything to him and he took revenge on its owner
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Unless something of God’s prohibitions is violated
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So he avenges God Almighty
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Narrated by Muslim
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Consider the honorable brother-in-law
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What is in this biography of the morals of prophecy?
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He never hit with his hand
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He did not avenge himself
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This is the prophetic wisdom in dealing
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A man's haste in dealing with his wife by beating him
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Glory be to the lack of wisdom and reason
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Even if you think about it a little
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He would have found that there were solutions before multiplication
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He dealt with the matter in a better and more effective way
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But it is haste combined with anger and self-defense
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Given the biography of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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In his advice to his friends
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In the way they deal with their wives
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We find that it guides them to kindness and good relations
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Shows that multiplication
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Although it is permitted in certain cases with controls
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It is neither the first nor the best solution
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Which the rational man begins with
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Here, my dear husband, are some hadiths
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On the authority of Muawiyah Al-Qushayri, may God be pleased with him, he said:
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I said, O Messenger of God
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Our wives are what we take from them and what we leave behind
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He said: Bring your tillage if you grow up
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And feed her if she is fed
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Pussy her if she is clothed
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Do not make an ugly face or hit
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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He forbade him from hitting and from speaking
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May God make your face ugly
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It is worth contemplating this prohibition
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The man approaches the woman
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After looking at her face and admiring it
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How can we find an ugly face that we choose by ourselves and desire?
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He spent money in order to marry him
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The prohibition of ugliness indicates the prohibition of insult and humiliation
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And that generous one
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It may be more severe than beating
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Because it penetrates the heart and its effects remain
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This is the perfection of his guidance, may God bless him and grant him peace
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In the house calendar
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On the basis of dignity and good relations
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No to insult and contempt
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In the long hadith of Laqit bin Sabra, he said:
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I said, O Messenger of God
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There is a woman and there is something on her tongue
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It means obscenity
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He then divorced her
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He said: I said, O Messenger of God
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She has a companion, and she has a son
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He said, "Give her a pass."
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He says preach to her
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If good is enough for her, she will do it
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And do not hit your weak one the way you hit your illiterate one
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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Al-Khattabi, may God have mercy on him, said
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And say
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Do not hit your weak woman the way you hit your illiterate one
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The weak woman is the woman
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She was named Daeina
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Because they give birth with the husband
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And it is transmitted by his transmission
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There is nothing in this that prevents them from being beaten
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Or it is forbidden to husbands when they need it
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God Almighty has permitted this in His saying
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So admonish them, leave them in their beds, and beat them
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Rather, it is forbidden to excuse beating
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He also attacks the Mamluks
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In the customs of those who are permitted to be beaten
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He uses bad qualities in them
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He was represented by beating the Mamluks
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It is not permissible to beat them
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Rather, this was mentioned in the form of censure for their actions
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And he forbade him from imitating it
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On the authority of Iyas bin Abdullah bin Abi Dhubab, may God be pleased with him, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Do not hit God's servants
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Then Omar came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and said
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The women raged against their husbands
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So he took the liberty of hitting them
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So many women went around the family of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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They complain about their husbands
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Many women visited the family of Muhammad
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They complain about their husbands
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These are not your choices
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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Al-Khattabi, may God have mercy on him, said
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He said: They are afraid
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It means bad behavior and daring towards husbands
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Its meaning is this
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They were seduced by their husbands
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They underestimated their rights
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And in the hadith of jurisprudence
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Beating women to prevent marriage rights is permissible
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However, the beating was not severe
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It explains that it is necessary to be patient with their bad morals
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Avoiding what is best among them
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Al-Tibi, may God have mercy on him, said
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He denied them charity
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They were not patient and could not bear to hurt her
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Do you want my dear husband brother?
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To be deprived of charity
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Because of your lack of patience with a woman of your choice
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I lived with her for years
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She gave birth to sons and daughters
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On the authority of Suleiman bin Omar bin Al-Ahwas
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He said: My father told me that he witnessed the Farewell Pilgrimage
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With the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He thanked and praised God
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He mentioned and bit
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He mentioned a story in the hadith
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He said, “Be careful with women.”
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They are your helpers
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You have nothing else from them
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Unless they commit a clear indecency
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If they do so, leave them alone in their beds
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And beat them not badly
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If they obey you, do not seek a way against them
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Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
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Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, may God have mercy on him, said
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They are your helpers
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Plural of Aaniyah while she is a captive
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And the captive sufferer
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This is because she is imprisoned for her husband’s right
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A woman is like a captive to her husband
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You cannot leave without his command
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She cannot marry because she is under his obligation
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It is his private property that he does not share with anyone else
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The great prophetic commandment is:
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Beware of women
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Are you the honorable brother-in-law?
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One who treats his wife well
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I ask God that it be so
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I seek refuge in God that it does not happen
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Of whom she said the seventh
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Every alternative has a disease
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Shajak or Falak
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Or collect all yours
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds