Part of حديث أم زرع (اكتملت السلسلة)
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أصناف الرجال في حديث أم زرع | الحلقة (3) | هل تصدق المرأة عندما تتحدث عن زوجها؟
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’
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Do you believe a woman when she talks about her husband?
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The answer to this question may be shocking to men
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But it is known to women in general
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Even if we hide it from men
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It is the nature of women
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Hiding some of her characteristics from men
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Even if this trait is innate to her
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And hope, honorable man
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Saying Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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In the hadith of Anas bin Malik
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When he said
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Umm Salim came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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She said to him
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And Aisha is with him
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O Messenger of God
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A woman sees what a man sees in a dream
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She sees from herself what a man sees from himself
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Aisha said
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O mother of Salim
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Women exposed your right hand
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He said to Aisha
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Rather, you raised your right hand
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Yes
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Take a bath for Umm Salim
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If she saw that
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Narrated by Muslim
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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Aisha’s statement to Umm Salim
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Women were exposed
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That is, some of their secrets were revealed
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And what he hides from his need for men
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And seeing a wet dream
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Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
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This indicates that it is their habit to conceal such things
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Mother of believers
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I hate for men to know that women desire men
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And it happens to a man in sleep
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Because this is something women are usually ashamed of
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Therefore, it is not appropriate for a man to demand from his wife
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Declaring her desire for it
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As he declares his desire for her
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Because this request is against a woman’s nature and modesty
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Insinuation and temptation are enough for her
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And quick response to her husband
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The question again
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Do you believe a woman when she talks about her husband?
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Before answering this question
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We need to know the nature of a woman’s view of her husband
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Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said
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Women greatly admire men's heroism
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Because her ability is less than what men are capable of
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Because it sees the heroism of the husband and kinship
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What reassures her mind about the evil of attacks and raids
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This is what a woman loves in her husband in the past
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Has there been any change in this nature over time?
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Yes, this instinct has changed for some women
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Due to the change in the culture of society and the culture of women
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And her view of men changed
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That is, whether this man was a son or a brother
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Or a husband or guardian
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What ideas are instilled in women today?
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Like she must be financially independent from the man
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And to work in any job to collect money
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And the concept of freedom requires that it be rejected
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The man controls her in any way
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She has complete freedom in all her actions
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Without referring to the man
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And she must rebel against the guardianship of men
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To become a guardian herself
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All of this and other ideas are spread among women
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It changed women's perception of men
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I wonder after this culture
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What does a woman like in a man?
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And what you will be proud of among women
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It gave us birth to Internet culture
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And social media
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A new style that women love in a husband
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It is a style of fame
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And the celebrities who appear in these media
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Ideally
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Contrary to truth and reality
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It is worn on women
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If a woman marries such celebrities
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I discovered the bitter truth
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Here the question will come again
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Do you believe a woman when she talks about her husband?
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Evidence of hadith or sowing
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But women don't believe us
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When we talk about their husbands
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Therefore, we pledged and contracted
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That they should not conceal anything from their husbands
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For their complete knowledge
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A woman does not believe in talking about her husband
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And you try to show it
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In his best image in front of women
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To be proud of them
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Although she may live with him in extreme injustice and cruelty
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But it is in front of women
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Show otherwise
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Especially if the woman has a co-wife
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She may become satisfied with her husband
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To spite her
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On the authority of Asmaa, may God be pleased with her
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A woman said, O Messenger of God
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I have a wife
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Is it wrong for me if I get satisfied with my husband?
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Other than the one who gives me
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Satisfied with what is not given
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My clothes are false
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The satiated is the one who shows satiety
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And not full
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What it means here is that it appears
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He got her virtue
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And it doesn't happen
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, counted doing it
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Of forbidden false speech
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But he hates that for women
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Because it comes between the other woman
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Like magic that separates a person
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And his wife
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But even this is true
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The culture of society influenced it
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Women today are not praised
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With the strength and courage of a man
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And his strength in wars
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Rather, she brags about the extent of her control
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On men and other things
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May God have mercy on the righteous women
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There are other influences
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In a woman's description of her husband
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Like the environment you are in
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If it is a good environment
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She showed her husband to be a righteous ascetic
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Even if it was in a luxurious environment
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She showed her husband that he was generous
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Who does not respond to her request
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Its women tend to control its men
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She showed how strong she was
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In control of it
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The same applies to contentment and anger
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If she was satisfied, she would raise him to heaven
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Even if she was angry, she made him
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At the bottom of two bastards
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And do not escape this scourge
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Except the righteous and faithful woman
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And I made her worse at that
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Mother of the Believers Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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She said: The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, told me
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I know
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If you are satisfied with me
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And if you are angry with me
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She said so I said how do you know that?
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He said, “If you are.”
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If you are satisfied with me
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You say, “No, by the Lord of Muhammad.”
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And if you are angry with me
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I said, “No, by the Lord of Abraham.”
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She said I said
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Yes, by God, O Messenger of God
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I only leave your name behind
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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The woman of faith
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It comes in the hadith of Alsi bin Malik
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On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, that
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He said three fatalities
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Scarcity is obedient
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And his passion is followed
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And one's admiration for oneself is good
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And three salvations
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Justice in contentment and anger
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The intention is in wealth and poverty
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Narrated by Al-Tabarani in Al-Awsat
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She is committed to justice
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Speaking of her husband
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And don't underestimate it, really
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Nor does it elevate him above his status
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And do not claim that he has any honor
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What he doesn't have
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And do not make any defects in it
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In case of discontent, what is not in it
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What do you like about your husband?
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And what do you like about it?
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We will continue in the next meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds