Part of حديث أم زرع (اكتملت السلسلة)
· Lesson 18 of 25
أصناف الرجال في حديث أم زرع | الحلقة (18) | أم زرع وجمال البيئة العائلية
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’
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Mother of planting and beauty of the family environment
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Of the happiness that a woman achieves in her married life
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To have a cohesive, sane family
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They are surrounded by love, tolerance, and good morals
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Far from trouble
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Neither from the husband nor from his relatives
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Neither of the children nor of the servants
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Umm Zar’a experienced all of this
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She was the one who told me the details
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My father's mother planted, but my father's mother did not plant
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Her house is spacious and her house is spacious
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My father's son planted, but my father's son did not plant
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His bed is like a bevel
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And the arm of Jafr satisfies him
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The daughter of my father, Zar’, but not the daughter of my father, Zur’
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Her father willingly and her mother willingly
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And fill her clothes and please her neighbour
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My father’s maid Zar’a, but not my father’s maid Zar’a
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Don't broadcast our conversation
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And do not let our mirror be cleansed
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Do not fill our house with nests
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This is the environment that surrounds a sow mother
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But this is eloquent Arabic
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Which described the mother of the members of this environment
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It needs explanation
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To reveal the beauty of this environment to us
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And the extent of the bliss that Umm Zar’a lived
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Let's ask then
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How did you lose this bliss?
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Did she cause his loss through her bad behavior?
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Before answering this question
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We show the beauty of the family environment that Umm Zara lived in
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First, my father's mother planted
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Umm Zara said about her
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Her house is spacious and her house is spacious
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She praised her husband's mother for two things
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The first one praised her to herself
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That her mind is bad
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Akoum has two meanings
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The first meaning
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They are similar to lockers or bags
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Where luggage is stored
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She described it as heavy and full of luggage
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Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said
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Akoum
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Loads and bags containing containers
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Of all kinds of food and enjoyment
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One of them is yours
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And what she said was redundant
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She says
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They are bones with a lot of filling
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The second meaning
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It means a woman's buttocks
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It is called Kafla
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The meaning
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Her buttocks are great
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And from her bones
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It becomes swollen from too much grease
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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It is possible that it is the kenab of Al-Akum and its rada
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About its greatness and greatness
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As he said
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Raddah's slave girl
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That is, great Kafl
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He made the keel an akum, which is a plural of its bones
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It is as if every aspect of it is blind
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And everyone involved
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It tells me that my father's mother is a transplant
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She lived the life of the affluent rich
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Until she had a place for her belongings
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Because of its abundance and diversity
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She was infected with food
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Which left its mark on her body
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Of grease, bliss, and body glasses
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The second praised her home
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She described him as being abundant in his bounties and his mortality
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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He praised the spaciousness of the house and the spaciousness of the yard
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About his abundance of goodness
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Raghad is a living
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And righteousness descends
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They were also generous with what they said
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Hello
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And they said
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So-and-so welcomed the house
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They do not want the capacity of its drop
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Rather, the abundance of His goodness and the abundance of His righteousness
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But why did she praise her husband's mother?
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Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
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She described her mother-in-law
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Until her husband is very kind to his mother
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And he was not aged
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Because that is the majority
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Who has a mother described as such
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This is a compliment to her husband
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And to his mother as well
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If her husband’s mother is young
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There was no conversation between her and Umm Zar’
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Problems related to jealousy among women
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This is the bliss that Umm Zar’a used to experience
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From her competition
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On the heart of this honorable young man, my father has a seed
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Secondly
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Ibn Abi Zar'a
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Umm Zara said about him
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His bed is like a bevel
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And the arm of jealousy satisfies him
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She praised him for his slim body
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For whom a narrow space is sufficient
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Like stick mats
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A little food is enough for him
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He is not a foodie
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He makes her tired of asking for food
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Its abundance and diversity
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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I thought that his bed in which he sleeps is in distress
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One bevel cam
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If you bleed from the mat
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Her place remains empty among her sisters
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It is something that Arab men praise
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Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
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And so is what she said
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The arm of Jafra satisfies him
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He doesn't need what she has to eat
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As well as taking
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Even if it tastes like it
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It's easy to be convinced
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Which fills one's thirst for food and drink
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This is one of the bliss she lived with Ibn Abi Zara’
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Third
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Daughter of Abu Zara
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Umm Zara said about her
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Her father willingly and her mother willingly
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And its clothing and its neighbor's tip
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I praised her for three things
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The first
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Her obedience to her parents
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This is one of the things that makes a woman happy the most
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That her daughter be obedient to her
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Because it's usually a girl
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She competes with her mother for her father's heart
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Problems often happen
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Between the girl and her mother
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Because of stubbornness and jealousy between them
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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That is, she is righteous towards them
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Not out of their mind
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This indicates her chastity and intelligence
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The second
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She praised the beauty of her body
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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She described it as plump
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Lots of meat
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She expressed this by being fully dressed
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Because it is only filled to the bone of its body
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And the perfection of her person
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And its abundance of meat
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And the grace of her body
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This is what he praises women for
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He blames us for its opposite
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Third
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That her peers are jealous of her
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Because of her beauty and good morals
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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Then I emphasized her praise
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That she is the best of her women
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Any women of her time or her people
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And it is perfectly fine
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Her character and character are similar in perfection
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Tip her neighbor
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That is, its harm or neighbourhood
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But she sees this as making her angry and jealous of him
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And he is confused by it
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If we look closely at Umm Zara’s praise of her family
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We found that it focused on the aesthetic appearance of the body
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No wonder
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The women of pre-Islamic times
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Their greatest concern is taking care of the body
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As for the woman's mind and heart
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This is for those who adhere to the teachings of Islam
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Otherwise, even Muslim women today
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They were busy making the body according to the pre-Islamic European style and standards
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I ask God for guidance and success for them
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Fourth
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My father's maid planted
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I praised her with three beautiful qualities
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Every woman wishes her in her maid
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And she said
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Don't broadcast our conversation
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And do not let our mirror be cleansed
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Do not fill our house with nests
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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She described it as honesty over secrets and money
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And carry out their services and advise them
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And there are no recent outbreaks of them
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Do not waste food for them or betray it
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Do not pass it on to others
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Don't spoil it and waste it
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Let no grudges enter between them
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Do not neglect serving them and improving their home
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This is a maid with the highest ratings for housework
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This is part of the bliss in which Umm Zara lived
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Every woman dreams of it in her life
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How did you lose this bliss?
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Is this really the reason, as she mentioned at the end of her speech?
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He went out and looked and divorced
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Or are there other reasons she hid it?
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It was the real reason for the divorce
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds