Part of حديث أم زرع (اكتملت السلسلة)
· Lesson 23 of 25
أصناف الرجال في حديث أم زرع | الحلقة (23) | كنت لك كأبي زرع لأم زرع
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’
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I was to you like a sow's father to a sow's mother
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After Aisha, may God be pleased with her, finished telling the women’s story
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Don't we meet and talk about his wives?
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, listened carefully to her
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Comment on her long speech with short words
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Expressing the kindness of his family and his treatment of her
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He said, “I am to you like my father, Zar’a, or mother Zar’a.”
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And in a narration, O Aisha, I was to you like my father Zar’a and my mother Zar’a
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However, Abu Zara divorced and I will not divorce him
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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And what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to Aisha
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I was to you like a sow's father to a sow's mother
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Pampering herself and exaggerating her good relations
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When Umm Zar’a mentioned his good company with her
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She thanked him for his intercourse with her
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Then he made an exception for that matter which he disliked
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By saying that he divorced her
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And I will not divorce you
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As an accessory to perfume herself
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And to complete the reassurance of her heart
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And to raise the illusion due to the generality of the comparison to the general conditions of Abu Zara’
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There was nothing reprehensible about it except his divorce from her
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Yes, he was the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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A role model in dealing with the wife
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The details of this model cannot be known
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Except by reading his biography with his wives
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These pages are too narrow to mention this fragrant biography
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But I will give some examples from his beautiful life with Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, was playing with her
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They both wash themselves from impurity
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and I used to wash from one vessel
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He initiates me and I initiate him
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So he says let me
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I say leave me
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to accept it while he was fasting
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to kiss and have intercourse while fasting
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And your hope was for him
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Narrated by Muslim
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to kiss her while he was going out to pray
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On the authority of Urwa, on the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, kissed one of his wives
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Then he went out to pray and did not perform ablution
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Urwa said: Who is she but you?
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I laughed
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to eat from the place where he ate
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And he drinks from where he drank it
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On the authority of Shuraih, on the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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I asked her: Does a woman eat with her husband while she is menstruating?
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Yes
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The Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, would invite me to eat with him while I was naked
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He used to take the sweat and swear on it
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So I sweat it and then put it on
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So he takes it and frees himself from it
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He puts his mouth where I put my mouth of sweat
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He calls for a drink and swears on it before he drinks from it
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He takes it and drinks from it, then I put it down
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He takes it and drinks from it
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And he puts his mouth where I put my mouth of the mug
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Narrated by Muslim
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, was holding her hand as he walked among the people
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
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I loved to enter the house and pray there
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So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, took my hand
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So he put me in quarantine
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He said, “Pray in quarantine if you want to enter the house.”
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It is a piece of the house
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Your people were limited when they built the Kaaba
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So they took him out of the house
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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May God bless him and grant him peace, he used to help her with the housework
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About the lions he said
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Aisha, may God be pleased with her, asked
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What the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to do in his house
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She said
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He was in his family's profession
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It means serving his family
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If you attend prayer
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He went out to pray
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, was considerate of her feelings and psychological state
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
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We went out to see nothing but Hajj
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When we were very busy, he came
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Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to me while I was crying
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He said
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What's wrong with you?
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I said yes
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He said
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This is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam
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So fulfill what the pilgrim fulfills
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However, do not circumambulate the Kaaba
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She said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sacrificed cows on behalf of his wives
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, pampered her
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was sitting
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We heard murmurs and the voices of boys
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Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, stood up
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An Ethiopian was buried and the boys were around her
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And he said
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O Aisha, come and see
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So I came
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So Hayya was placed on the shoulder of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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So I looked at her from shoulder to head
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He said to me
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As for my satiety, as for my satiety
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She said
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So I started saying no
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To see my status with him
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
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I said, O Messenger of God
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What do you think if you went down to a valley and there was a tree from which he had eaten?
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I found a tree that had not been eaten
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Where did you feed your camels?
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He said
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In the one who was not terrified by it
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It means that the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not marry another virgin
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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His knowledge, may God bless him and grant him peace, of various conditions
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, told me
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I don't know if you are satisfied with me
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And if you are angry with me
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She said
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So I said
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How do you know that?
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And he said
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But if you are satisfied with me
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You say, “No, by the Lord of Muhammad.”
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And if you are angry with me
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I said, “No, by the Lord of Abraham.”
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She said
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I said
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Yes, by God, O Messenger of God
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I only leave your name behind
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to talk to her at dawn
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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When the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, prayed
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If you are awake, tell me
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Otherwise, return to prayer until the call to prayer is given
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to have intercourse with her while she was menstruating
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and I were taking a bath
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From one vessel
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We are both side by side
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He used to order me to wear my belt
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He had intercourse with me while I was menstruating
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He used to take his head out while he was in seclusion
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So I wash it while I am menstruating
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to recline on her lap and read the Qur’an
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was reclining on my lap while I was menstruating
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Then he reads the Qur’an
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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May God’s prayers and peace be upon him, he took into account her need for entertainment and permissible play
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
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I was playing with the girls with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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I had friends who played with me
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When the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered, they would suppress him
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He sends them to me and they play with me
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to race and play with her
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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She was with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, on a journey
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She said
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So I raced to him, and I overtook him on my feet
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When I carried the meat
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I preceded him and he preceded me
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And he said
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This is a precedent
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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These are examples of the life of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, with Aisha
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How are you, honorable man, with your wife?
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds