Part of حديث أم زرع (اكتملت السلسلة)
· Lesson 21 of 25
أصناف الرجال في حديث أم زرع | الحلقة (21) | هل طلبت أم زرع الطلاق من زوجها؟
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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Men's types
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In the hadith of Umm Zara’
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Did Zara's mother ask for a divorce from her husband?
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Umm Zar’a’s summary of her divorce story
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It made some people search for the real reason for divorce
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Why was he not convinced by contemplating the hadith?
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The reason for the divorce is only what Umm Zaraa briefly said
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He married her and divorced her for several reasons
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Among them is that the Arabs were known for polygamy
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It is not surprising that Abu Zara married more than his wife
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Among them is that a man does not lack money or the potential for marriage
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What makes him resort to divorce directly?
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Among them is that we know that it is the nature of women
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To hide some facts when she wants to defend herself
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By changing some facts or at least concealing them
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We saw examples of this in a previous episode
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What is the real reason for her divorce?
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Firstly, the mother of Zara is no different from the women of the worlds
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She hates her husband marrying her
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This hatred is innate in women
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The woman loves to be alone with her husband
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The fire of jealousy boils in her heart
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When she knew that he married her
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This natural, innate hatred
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It differs from hatred of God’s rule in that polygamy is permissible
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She does not sin
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Unlike those who hate God's rule
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This may be said
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Until her work is thwarted and she enters the fire
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God Almighty said
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That is because they hated what God revealed
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So he thwarted their actions
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Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
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That is, they do not want him or love him
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So he thwarted their actions
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It is no wonder that you hate Umm Zara
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That her husband should marry her
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Secondly, what is expected of women
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If her husband marries her
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To have a reaction to his marriage
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This reaction
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It varies from one woman to another
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According to the woman's faith and attachment
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And the intensity of her love for her husband
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This reaction
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It has several pictures
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Including complete rejection of the topic
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This might drag her down
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Either to claim
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Divorce this wife
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Or by divorcing her
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Including extreme sadness
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The husband does not accept it
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He described it as treason
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Including sadness and pain
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With satisfaction with God’s will and destiny
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Then try to calm yourself down
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To the satisfaction of God
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And other behaviour
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The first picture is contrary to Sharia law
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He forbids it
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On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him
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On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He said it is not permissible for a woman
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She asks about her sister's divorce
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To throw up her newspaper
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For she has what is destined for her
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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Ibn Battal, may God have mercy on him, said
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It is forbidden for women
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And wrapping it up
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Doesn't she ask about her sister's divorce?
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And be satisfied with what God has divided for her
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Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
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Saying it is not permissible
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It is apparent that this is prohibited
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It is not permissible for her
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To make a condition of her husband
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To divorce his second wife
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If he wants you to return to him
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Or stay with him
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The prohibition was also stated
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About filing for divorce
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Without a legitimate reason
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On the authority of Thawban, may God be pleased with him
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He said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Any woman
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She asked her husband for a divorce
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Nothing wrong with that
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It is forbidden for her
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The smell of heaven
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
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And in it that
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The news contained is intimidating
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Women requesting divorce
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Her husband carried
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On if not
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He accepted that for a hadith
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Thouban
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A man's marriage to his wife
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She is not permitted to ask for a divorce
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And it doesn't count
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Permissible legal reasons
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For divorce
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Ibn Uthaymeen, may God have mercy on him, said
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Even if the first one revolted against him
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He does not have to divorce her
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Because the original
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That the first wife does not have
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He prevented him from marrying
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Don't force him to do that
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She has no right either
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To ask for divorce if he is not divorced
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The new wife
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Abdul Aziz Al-Rajhi said
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And it is not right
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A woman may ask for a divorce from
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Her husband if he marries her
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As for the second picture
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It is not acceptable
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The husband described him as a traitor
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This is a different description
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True, the man
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He didn't even commit a crime
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It is said that he betrayed the trust
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But I do something
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God allowed it for him
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But these phrases
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We took it from the secular West
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And we promoted it
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In films and series
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Until I drank it some
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Sick hearts
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What reaction do we expect?
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From the mother planted and led to
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Her divorce
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As for the second and third pictures
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For reaction
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We don't expect it
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Even there is a divorce
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The first picture remains
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For reaction
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Did you ask for it or did you plant it?
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From my father, he wanted to divorce her
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He divorced her after her insistence
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He came in
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Dictionary of Sheikh Ibn al-Arabi
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And the dictionary of Sheikh bin Asakir
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A narration of the hadith
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Brief in it
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The reason for her divorce
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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She said: The Messenger of God said
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May God bless him and grant him peace
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Would you like me to be?
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You are like a father sowing a mother
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Transplant she said
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He was a man with a nickname
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Abu Zara and his wife
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Or he planted it and it improved
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To her and she says
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Be good to me, Abu
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Plant and clothe Abu
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He planted and fed me Abu
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He planted and my father honored me
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Planting and such
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Of speech is a movie
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He said it or planted
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Until he divorced her
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So Umm Zar’ married
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A man, so he honored her too
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And she was saying
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He honored me and gave me
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And similar words
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She says at the end of that
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Even if he collects that
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Everything is filled
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The smallest bowl is for my father
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Plant this novel
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Even if it has weakness
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In its chain of transmission
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He can enjoy it
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In finding out the reason for my father's divorce
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Plant her
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He urged her to divorce him
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And this is what
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The soul tends toward it
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And God knows best
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Thank God
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Lord of the worlds