Part of حديث أم زرع (اكتملت السلسلة)
· Lesson 25 of 25
أصناف الرجال في حديث أم زرع | الحلقة (25) والأخيرة | حتى تكون من خير الرجال
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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Men's items
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In the hadith of Umm Zara’
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So that you can be one of the best men
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My dear husband brother
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This is the conclusion of the Ramadan series
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In explaining and contemplating the hadith of Umm Zara’
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In explaining the types of men
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I made them quick commandments for you and me
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May God make me and you
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One of the best men to their women
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First, God commanded us to be patient
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His Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He said, “It was yours with the Messenger of God.”
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A good example
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It is remorseful
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Discipline is the way he deals with his wives
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The Prophet’s punishment, may God bless him and grant him peace, is not fulfilled
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Except through our knowledge of his biography with his wives
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This means that we read more hadiths
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Related to the biography of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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With his wives
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Who wrote the hadith
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Among the books that collected these hadiths in particular
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Like the book “Hasan Al-Aswa”.
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What has been proven from God and His Messenger regarding women
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To Siddiq Hassan Khan
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And a book
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Encyclopedia of Women's Hadiths in the Six Books
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To Adel Al-Hamd
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Secondly
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Description of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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His life with his wives in general terms
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And he said
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The best of you is the best to his family
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I am the best of you to my family
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Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
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Ibn Uthaymeen, may God have mercy on him, said
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If there is good in you
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So keep it with the people closest to you
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Let him be the first to benefit from this goodness
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This is the opposite of what some people do today
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You find that he has a bad attitude towards his family
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Good manners with others
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This is a big mistake
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Your family is more deserving of good behavior
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Have good manners with them
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Because they are the ones with you
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Day and night
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Secretly and publicly
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If something happens to you, they hurt you
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If you please, they will walk with you
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If you are sad, they will be sad with you
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So be your dealings with them
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Better than your treatment of foreigners
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The best of people are the best to their families
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Thaartha, dear brother-in-law
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So that you achieve goodness in dealing with your family
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You must do these things
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Firstly
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Strive to have good morals
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By contemplating the hadith of Umm Zara’
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We find that everyone who was praised by his wife
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She praised him for his good behavior
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And everyone who is blamed by his wife
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I blame him for bad behavior
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This means that the most important issue is taken care of
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After taking care of your religion
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It's your morals
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That is why he, peace and blessings be upon him, said
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If someone whose religion and character please you proposes to you
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So they married him
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Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
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Morality is part of religion
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But the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Emphasize it because there are people who worship God well
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But he has a bad attitude with people
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This is one of the bankrupt people who will lose on the Day of Resurrection
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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The bankrupt among my nation will come on the Day of Resurrection with prayer, fasting, and zakat
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He came to have insulted this person and slandered this person
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He ate this person's money, shed this person's blood, and beat that person
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This is given as part of his good deeds, and this is from his good deeds
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If his good deeds are exhausted before his debts are paid off
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He took from their sins and they were cast upon him
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Then he was thrown into the fire
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Do not be one of them, the honorable brother-in-law
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Secondly, apply all the hadiths about dealing with people to your wife
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Some believe that hadiths encourage good dealings with people
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Such as facial fluency and smiling
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Bringing happiness to the Muslim
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And assistance to people in all its forms
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And strive on Al-Aramar and Musakim
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Some people think that this applies to all people
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Except for the wife and family
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This is a grave mistake
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Which if the honorable brother-in-law falls into it
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You missed out on many good deeds
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And you missed out on happiness in your home and with your wife
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Consider the good deeds that come to you from these pictures
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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You will leave your heirs wealthy
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It is better than leaving them poor, begging people
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You will not spend anything seeking the face of God
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Unless you will be rewarded with it, even what you put in your wife
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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And in a few of you, he believed it
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They said, O Messenger of God
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Can one of us fulfill his desire and have a reward for it?
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He said: What do you think if he puts it in something forbidden?
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Was there a burden on him?
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Likewise, if he puts it in what is lawful, he will be rewarded
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Narrated by Muslim
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These hadiths are the honorable brother of the husband
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It tells you about the amount of good deeds that will come to you
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Because of your nice treatment of your wife
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Imagine the amount of happiness that would fill her heart with this transaction
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It is one of the pleasures it brings to her
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Third
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Consider your wife an ongoing charity for you
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It is one of the doors of goodness whose reward never ceases
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And even achieve this point
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Apply this hadith to your wife
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I will put the word “your wife” in small print
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To make the meaning clear to you
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On the authority of Omar, a man came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He said, O Messenger of God
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Which people are dearest to God?
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Which deeds are most beloved to God?
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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I love people to God
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The most useful of them to people is his wife
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The most beloved deeds to God
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The pleasure of interfering with a Muslim
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On your wife
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Or reveal it as a burden
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Or about her
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Or pay off a debt on his behalf
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Or about her
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Or drive away his hunger
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Or about her
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And because I walk with my brother, I have a need
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Or with my wife
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I love to seclude myself in this mosque for a month
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It means the city mosque
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He who refrains from becoming angry with his wife
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May God cover his nakedness
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He who bites a twig from his wife
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If he wanted to spend it, he would spend it
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God filled his heart with hope on the Day of Resurrection
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And whoever walked with my brother and his wife
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He needs to prove it to him
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May God make His feet firm on the day when feet will disappear
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Narrated by Al-Tabarani in Al-Kabir
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Fourth
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I pray for her in the back of the unseen
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Especially in your prostration
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Praying for people
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It only comes from a loving heart
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I think you are my honorable brother-in-law
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You love your wife
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Did you pray for her in the back of the unseen?
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Or in your prayers
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
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she said
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What I saw from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Good breath
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I said, O Messenger of God
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I pray to God for me
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And he said
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May God forgive Aisha
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Her previous sin
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And what was late?
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What was concealed and what was announced
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Aisha laughed
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Until her head fell into her lap
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From laughter
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her
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Aysarak my propaganda
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And she said
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Why am I not pleased with your supplication?
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And he said
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By God, it is my supplication for my nation
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In every prayer
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Narrated by Ibn Hibban
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Fifth
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Stay away from spoilers
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Married life
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Spoilers of married life
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Many
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But I warn you, dear brother-in-law
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Of two things
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The first
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Start looking at women's faces
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This consideration
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It will not end except with fear of God
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And fear of his punishment
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Otherwise the faces
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Kindness never ends
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Whenever you look at a woman
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Others came out better
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She doesn't have it
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Especially since Satan is adorning
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Forbidden to you
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He hates what is halal for you
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Looking is forbidden
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This is one of the sins that may divide
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Between you and your wife
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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We didn't talk to each other
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So he separated them
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Except for sin
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One of them tells him
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Narrated by Ahmed
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The second
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Compare while you see
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Or you hear between your wife
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This is one of the most dangerous things
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On your heart and soul
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Because you will not be convinced
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What do you have?
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This is the beginning of problems with the wife
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It may be a reason
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Divorce or transplant?
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This is what Abu Zara fell into
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From launching his gaze between women
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And comparison between
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What he sees between his wife
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It is a different sin
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Between them
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In conclusion
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I ask God to make you happy, dear brother-in-law
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With your honorable wife
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And fill your heart with her love
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And to be you
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People loved her
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We will meet you
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My brothers and sisters in series
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Ramadan is coming
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God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
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May God bless and grant peace
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On our Prophet Muhammad
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And on his family
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And all his companions