Part of حديث أم زرع (اكتملت السلسلة)
· Lesson 19 of 25
أصناف الرجال في حديث أم زرع | الحلقة (19) | لماذا طُلِّقَتْ أم زرع؟
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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Men's items
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In the hadith of Umm Zara’
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Why did the mother of Zara divorce?
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After all the beautiful description that Umm Zara mentioned
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About the bliss she lived with her husband, Abu Zara
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she said
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Abu Zara went out and the bricks were churning
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He found a woman with two sons who looked like two leopards
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They are playing with two pomegranates under her waist
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So he divorced me and married her
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That's how I put it in brief
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The evidence is how quickly he divorced her
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And marrying someone else
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Can you imagine that such a man?
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Who showed her all this kindness
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He gives it up so quickly to someone else
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For no apparent reason
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Perhaps we should consider the event from several angles
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The picture becomes clearer to us
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Firstly
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What do we benefit from mentioning it at the time of his departure?
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she said
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Abu Zara went out and the bricks were churning
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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It is possible that she wanted to leave her house early
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And they set him up for that
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Because it is the time for servants and slaves
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for their jobs and professions
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And it collapsed during that
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The abundance of the best of his home and the abundance of his bricks
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And they have something to drink pure and pure
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It is preferable to their needs
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Until they put him through the stakes
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It is extracted from butter and ghee
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And you probably want to
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He came out to welcome the time, its goodness and its spring
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At a time when people are travailing
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And his departure is either for travel or for something else
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It was at this time
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The benefit is in the first possibility
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Defining it by leaving her early in the day
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In the second possibility
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Informing her of the time of his departure from her in the seasons
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In the first possibility
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He goes out at the beginning of the day
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If we imagine it with what she said about herself
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And I lie down and it becomes morning
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That is, she sleeps first thing in the morning
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Do not wake up except in the morning
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We can tell
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By the time he left early, she was asleep
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The man whose nature is to be early in his deeds from the beginning of the day
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He likes his wife to be like him
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Or at least be awake with him
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If he leaves his house, she falls asleep
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As for the one whose habit is to sleep until noon
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It is not suitable for a husband who likes to go early in his life
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She does not serve him before he leaves
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He does not enjoy it when he faces his day
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It is no surprise that he came out after that
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He finds an active woman awake at dawn
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He is fascinated by her
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Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
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As if the reason for mentioning that
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A prelude to the motivation to see Abu Zara’
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For the woman in the state he saw her in
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That is, it is from churning milk
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She was tired, so she lay down to rest
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Abu Zar’ saw that
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The presence of servants in the home does not mean a woman is lazy
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She is the housewife and guide to the servants
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They work under her supervision
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Rather, they are a factor that helps women in some of their work
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Which is not related to the husband
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Not raising children
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The presence of a woman in the life of her husband and offspring
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It's very important
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For family stability and happiness
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Was this a mistake or an implant?
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Which you did not mention to us
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Secondly
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What is the beautiful thing that attracted Abu Zara?
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In this woman
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When she described the woman whom Abu Zar’ saw
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she said
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He found a woman with two sons who looked like two leopards
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They are playing with two pomegranates under her waist
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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It is more likely that what is meant by it is two breasts
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And his saying is
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They play from under her waist or chest
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That is, this is the place of the two boys
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No place for pomegranates
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And her two sons were in her arms
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Or barefoot beside her
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He likened the breasts to pomegranates
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It indicates their breasts and ankles
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This is because she is young and young
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And it is yet to be enacted
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And sag and sag
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Her breasts would break and hang down
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In that case, they are not like pomegranates
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This is what is expected from the description of a mother implanted in a woman
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Because we noticed that her description of her entire family
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Focused on physical beauty
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Here she also describes women as having a kind of physical beauty
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Which men love
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It is like the heels of the chest
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Indicative of a woman's young age
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It is one of the bliss of heaven
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God Almighty said
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And Ka'ab Ataraba
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Ibn al-Qayyim, may God have mercy on him, said
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Ka'ab is the plural of Ka'ab
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She is Al-Nahed
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This was said by Qatada, Mujahid, and the commentators
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Al-Kalbi said
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They are the arks
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Those whose breasts are heaving and falling apart
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The origin of the word is roundness
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And what is meant
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Their breasts are as bright as pomegranates
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Not hanging down
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They are called Nawahid and Ka'ab
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Here we have a question
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This is the aesthetic description that fascinated Abu Zara
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Is it present in or planted?
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Apparently it doesn't exist there
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Either creation
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Or because of her old age
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Or she neglected to take care of herself
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Although it is blessed and sufficient for work
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Her body is not exhausted
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And the truth
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Every woman has beauty characteristics
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Different from others
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This is from the greatness of the Creator
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Not all beautiful specifications will be available
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Combined with a woman
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Except in heaven
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If a man directs his gaze to women
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He will find someone more beautiful than his wife
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It is necessary
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Therefore, God Almighty forbade it
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Men should look at non-mahram women
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Whoever looses his sight gets tired
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And his heart was corrupted
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He was not satisfied with the blessing he had in his wife
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And he will enter into the scourge of comparison
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Between what he sees and his wife
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And then
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His married life will not be straight
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He will not get everything he sees
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Whoever lowers his gaze is included in Paradise
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On the authority of Ubadah bin Al-Samit, may God be pleased with him
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That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He said
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Guarantee me six of yourselves
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I guarantee you heaven
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Believe me if you tell me
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And fulfill your promise
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And perform if you are entrusted with it
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And protect your private parts
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And lower your gaze
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And hold your hands
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Narrated by Ahmed
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Then Aba planted
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One pavement
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Related to her body
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Other things were hidden from him
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It's about living with her and her morals
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It could ruin his life
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A man should not
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That his concern is the woman’s body
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Without looking at her character and religion
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Fourth
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Is there anything else?
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He liked this woman
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Dell or implant description of the scene
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That Abu Zara looked at something else
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He liked this woman
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He is the survivor of offspring
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Umm Zara said in the description
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He found a woman with two sons who looked like two leopards
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Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
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And the benefit of describing it to them
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Alert on the reasons for my father marrying her to her
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Because they wanted their children to be from women who gave birth
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That's why Abu Zar'a was keen on her when he saw her
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Was she a sow mother with few children?
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This is what is apparent
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She only mentioned two
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With the long period of her stay with her husband
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Childbirth is a gift from God
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God Almighty said about it
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He gives females to whomever He wishes, and He gives males to whomever He wishes
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Or he will marry them to two males and two females
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He makes whomever He wills sterile
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He is All-Knowing and All-Powerful
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The mother of Zara was provided with every comfort
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So why didn't she give birth to more than two?
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And the answer
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Either this is what is meant for her
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Or she is the type who hates having children
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She did not care about it
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This was a reason for her husband to marry her
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Can we say?
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Zara's mother caused her divorce
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Or to push her husband to look at others
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And marry her
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds