Part of حديث أم زرع (اكتملت السلسلة)
· Lesson 10 of 25
أصناف الرجال في حديث أم زرع | الحلقة (10) | زوجي كل داءٍ له داء
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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Men's items
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In the hadith of Umm Zara’
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My husband is every creditor to this
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The seventh woman to speak at the Women's Council
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She described her husband by saying:
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My husband is jealous or weak
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Apply
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Every creditor to this
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Shajak, Falak, or plural of both for you
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That can be said about it
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She's poor
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She collected all the descriptions of slander against her husband
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There is no good left for him that women can benefit from
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He is an ignorant fool
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Bad ten
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Incapable of intercourse
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He hits the woman severely and violently
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He even collected all people's faults in him
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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She called him stupid
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And the finitude of all shortcomings and defects
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Bad treatment with family
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And his inability to meet her needs
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He hit her and hurt her
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And if she spoke to him, he would curse her
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And if she jokes with him, he makes her angry
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And if he gets angry
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Either he stabbed her in the head
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Or break one of its members
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It means astronomy
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And it was said to the defeated
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Phil
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Or cut her skin or stab her
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It is the meaning of Shajak
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Or collect it all for her
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From beatings, wounds, and broken organs
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Or being broken down by quarrels and painful speech
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And he took her money
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This type of men
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You cannot live with him in peace
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It is not possible to imagine that these morals are bad deeds
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In this category
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I found it suddenly after marriage
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But what is expected is that she is in it before marriage
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The question arises
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Why did this woman accept him?
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And whoever makes the mistake of marrying her to him
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Firstly
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This incident occurred in pre-Islamic times
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But unfortunately it is repeated in Islam
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Where did the error come from?
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Secondly
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Given the teachings of Islam
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And his high morals
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We find that he established a precise system
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To prevent such a picture
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To fall into reality
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Why is it repeated?
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Which appears to me
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That's why such a picture is repeated in reality
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It stems from two things
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Their address is the same
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It is a lack of commitment to the teachings of Islam
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And his etiquette in marrying girls
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The first thing
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Parents abdicate responsibility for the girl’s marriage
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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It is forbidden for a woman to marry herself
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He ordered her guardians to marry her
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So that men bear the responsibility of marrying women
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Who is worthy of it
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Many hadiths have been mentioned about this
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From her
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On the authority of Abu Musa, may God be pleased with him
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That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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There is no marriage except with a poly
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Any woman who has had intercourse without the permission of her master
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Her marriage is invalid
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Three times
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If he enters it
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The dowry is hers for whatever happened to her
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If he quarrels
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The Sultan is the guardian of those who have no guardian
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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A woman does not marry another woman
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The woman does not marry herself
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The adulteress is the one who marries herself
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Narrated by Ibn Majah
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These are the hadiths
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Places the responsibility in marriage on the guardians
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Women are prohibited from marrying themselves
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This is a great ruling
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From her
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Men are better able to know the qualities and morals of a suitor
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And asking about it among men
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Unlike women
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She can't do that
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And from her
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That men rule the mind in matters
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Unlike women
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It governs emotion
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If her heart is attached to a man
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She turned a blind eye to all his bad qualities
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This is the danger of relationships that form between boys and girls before the marriage contract
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The girl is attached to him
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It is difficult for her to stay away from him
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Especially when it comes to young men in their relationships with girls
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They show their best qualities to win him over
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If the girl is attached
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I was blinded to the true vision
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Therefore, Islam forbids women
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To mingle with foreign men
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So that such relationships do not occur
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Between boys and girls
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Then life becomes ruined
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The second thing
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Losing the criterion for choosing men
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And the way people look today when choosing a husband
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It differed because of their distance
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About adhering to the commands of Sharia
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It became the criterion for choosing men
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Physical standard
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Connected to the world only
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This is completely the opposite
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According to the commandment of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Where he said
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If someone you please comes to you
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If he has good character and religion, then marry him
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Unless you do
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There will be strife on earth and widespread corruption
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Narrated by Ibn Majah
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Al-Mazhari, may God have mercy on him, said
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I mean, if someone asks you
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That you marry him to a woman from your children
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Or your relatives
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So look
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If he is a good Muslim
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Good manners
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So they married him
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Because if you didn't get married
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The women of your relatives
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Except for a well-known person with money and prestige
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And other qualities that he tends to
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Children of the world
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Most of your women remain without a husband
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Most men remain without a wife
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Then men tend towards women
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And women to men
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Adultery abounds
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The saints are disgraced
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The percentage of adultery with their wives
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Perhaps they feel jealousy over their relatives
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Because they heard that adultery was attributed to them
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And they kill them
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And they kill those who intend to commit immoral acts
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This is all widespread corruption
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And a great temptation
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But
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Why would a woman stay with such an idiot?
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When did you discover these morals?
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There is blame for women as well
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We also blamed the saints
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In her standard for approval of a man
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Applicant to marry her
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Whatever that standard is
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Except that it will not be religion and creation
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If its criteria were religion and morals
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When I found such pictures with us
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In our communities
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Because this is the foolish type of men
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His foolishness must be exposed
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With whom he lives
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If you ask a woman about his religion and morals
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She asked her guardians to confirm
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Who describes him as both
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I would have known his truth
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And if the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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A woman who stays up at night has been disparaged
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But she has a bad attitude towards her neighbors
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So what about someone who behaves like this with his family?
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On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
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A man said
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O Messenger of God
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So-and-so
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He is remembered for her frequent prayers, fasting, and charity
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However, she hurts her neighbors with her tongue
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He said
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She is on fire
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He said
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O Messenger of God
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So-and-so
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He mentions her lack of fasting, charity, and prayers
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And she believes in the revolutionaries of Al-Aqt
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She does not harm her neighbors with her tongue
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He said
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She is in heaven
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Narrated by Ahmed
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This hadith
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He is very frank in that he does not accept the separation of religion and morality in dealing with people
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How can a woman be willing to marry a man without good morals?
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Then let us consider what she said
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Every disease has a disease
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Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said
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That is, everything from people's medicines
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It is in it and one of its medicines
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Al-Khalil Al-Farahidi, may God have mercy on him, said
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She wanted every flaw in men to be in him
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This is a phrase that sums up all the evil in this type of men
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He is one of the worst people
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On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, stood over people sitting
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And he said
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Shall I not inform you of your goodness and your evil?
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He said
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So they remained silent
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He said that three times
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A man said
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Yes, O Messenger of God
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Tell us our good from our evil
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He said
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The best of you is the one who hopes for its good and is safe from its evil
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And your polytheism is one whose goodness is not hoped for and whose evil is not safe
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Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
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And if all people's faults are in this pair
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She never hopes for good
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And you are not safe from its evil
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds