Part of حديث أم زرع (اكتملت السلسلة)
· Lesson 22 of 25
أصناف الرجال في حديث أم زرع | الحلقة (22) | هل كانت أم زرع شاكرة لزوجها؟
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’
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Was Zara’s mother grateful to her husband?
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One of the most dangerous bad behaviors for a woman in her married life
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Ingratitude and lack of gratitude
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And disapproval of their living conditions
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, warned against this morality
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And what our Lord pleases is for the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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God Almighty said
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O Prophet, tell your wives if you desire the life of this world and its adornments
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Come, I will entertain you and give you a pleasant release
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Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
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This is a command from God to His Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him
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To give his wives the choice between separating from them
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So they go to someone else who gives them the life of this world and its adornments
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He showed patience in his difficult situation
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They will have a great reward from God for that
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So they chose, may God be pleased with them and please them
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God, His Messenger, and the Hereafter
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Then God combined for them the good of this world and the happiness of the afterlife
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The Lord of God Almighty is the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Thankful for the blessing they are in
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And prevent them from complaining about the hardship of living
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Let him be a role model for the women of the world
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Ibrahim Al-Khalil, peace and blessings be upon him, was not satisfied
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That his son Ismail’s wife is not grateful for the blessing she has
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So he ordered his son to divorce her
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It was mentioned in Bukhari’s long hadith about the story of Abraham and Ishmael
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On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said
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After Ibrahim married Ismail, he came to look at his estate
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He did not find Ismail
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So ask his wife about him
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And she said
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He came out looking for us
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Then he asked her about their livelihood and appearance
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And she said
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We are humans
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We are in distress and distress
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So I complained to him
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He said
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If your husband comes
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So he, peace be upon him, read
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And tell him
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He changes his doorstep
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When Ismail came
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As if he had forgotten something
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And he said
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It came to you from someone
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She said yes
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Such-and-such sheikh came to us
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So ask us about you
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So I told him
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He asked me how we lived
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I told him that we were in great difficulty
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He said
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Did he advise you to do anything?
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She said yes
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He ordered me to read peace be upon you
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And he says
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Change your doorstep
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He said
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That's my father
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He ordered me to separate from you
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Follow your family
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So he divorced her
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He married another of them
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So Abraham remained with them
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God willing
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Then he came to them afterward
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He did not find it
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So he entered on behalf of his wife
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So he asked her about him
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And she said
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He came out looking for us
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He said
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How are you?
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He asked her about their livelihood
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And their form
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And she said
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We are fine
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She praised God
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And he said
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What's your food?
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she said
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Meat
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He said
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What do you drink?
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she said
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Water
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He said
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May God bless them
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In meat and water
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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They had no love at that time
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Even if it was theirs
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He called them in
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He said
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They are not without them
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Someone other than Mecca
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Except they didn't agree with him
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He said
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If your husband comes
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So he, peace be upon him, read
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And his Lord is steadfast
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A lintel
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When Ismail came
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He said
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Did it come to you from anyone?
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she said
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Yes
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A good-looking sheikh came to us
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She praised him
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He asked me about you
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So I told him
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He asked me how we lived
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I told him we were fine
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He said
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So he advised you to do something
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she said
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Yes
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He reads peace be upon you
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He orders you to fix your doorstep
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He said
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That's my father
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And you are the threshold
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He ordered me to hold you
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Ismail's first wife was not grateful
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So Ibrahim ordered him to divorce her
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And not being grateful for the husband’s blessing
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One of the reasons why women enter Hell
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On the authority of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both
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He said
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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I showed the fire
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So most of its people are women
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They disbelieve
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It was said
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Do they disbelieve in God?
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He said
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They deny the partner
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And they deny charity
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If you were good to one of them forever
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Then she saw something from you
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she said
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I have never seen anything good from you
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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Ibn Baltal, may God have mercy on him, said
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Disbelief here
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It is blasphemy
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And the infidelity of the partner’s blessing
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He is the husband
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And he gets upset
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God commanded His Messenger to be thankful for blessings
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It came in the hadith
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He who does not thank people does not thank God
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He thanked the husband for his blessing
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It is out of gratitude for God's grace
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Because every blessing the tithe gives to his family
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It is from God's grace
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I did it on my hand
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On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar, may God be pleased with him
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On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He said
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God Almighty does not look
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To a woman who does not thank her husband
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She cannot do without him
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Narrated by Al-Bazzar
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This is a quality in married life
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The man hates her very much
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A man's love for his wife may change
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Because she didn't thank him
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Or remove it from his living situation
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Was it a transplant?
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A little thanks to her husband
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Considering what Umm Zaraa said
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About her second husband
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We can figure it out
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Is she grateful to her husband or not?
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Umm Zara said
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Then she married a secret man
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Shreya rode
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And he took it in writing
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He bestowed upon me abundant blessings
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And he gave me a pair of every scent
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And he said
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Whole or transplant
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And see your family
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she said
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If I collect everything, he will give me
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What amounted to the smallest pot of my father’s plants
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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
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She wanted to say this
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He gave her a lot of everything he went to her house
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Of camels, cows and sheep
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And slaves and animals
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And he gave her various types of that
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This was not limited to the individual
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Even his weakness and weakness
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Be kind to her and honor her
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He is a fishing and hunting owner
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It goes two by two
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He adds it to what has gained our time
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Then he said, may God have mercy on him
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She described this man she married
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As bad as it is in itself
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And I sought in his hand
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And he is the owner of war and riding
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As if he had a war and a ride
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And with kindness to her
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And be kind to her family
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Then I told him that with all this
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Abu Zara’s location was not located there
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And a lot of it, not a little, is planted
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How much?
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And the condition of this other person is flawed
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If you add it to the condition of my father, he planted it
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With my father's abuse he finally planted her
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But her love for him
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People hated her after him
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A woman's love for her husband
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Doesn't mean she's thankful for him
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The woman becomes attached to the man
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It has many reasons
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And with her attachment to him
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You don't have to be good-natured with him
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Especially in the issue of ingratitude
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And good morals in humans
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It appears in everyone's dealings
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Also bad manners
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It appears in everyone's dealings
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Umm Zar’ did not thank her second husband
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With the good things he gave her
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Rather, she insisted
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Can we imagine it?
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She was thankful for her first husband
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Blessings only last with gratitude
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She was not grateful for the blessing of the first husband
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So it went away from her
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If she had been grateful, it would have lasted for her
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God Almighty said
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And when your Lord permits
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If you are grateful, I will give you more
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And if you disbelieve, my punishment is severe
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And God Almighty said
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What will God do with your torment?
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If you are grateful and believe
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And God was thankful, All-Knowing
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And the wise man
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If he has the same characteristics as Abu Zar’ah
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Pictures of him manipulating divorce
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Especially with a woman he lived with
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And he gave birth to her
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If a sane man divorces
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Like my father planted
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It is expected that he was divorced for a major matter
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In himself, he did not reveal it
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This is the nature of men
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Lack of complaints about wives’ problems
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Unlike women
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She quickly complains to her husband
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With the first disagreement
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds