Part of حديث أم زرع (اكتملت السلسلة)
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أصناف الرجال في حديث أم زرع | الحلقة (20) | هل تسببت المرأة في طلاق أم زرع؟
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’
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Hadith or planting?
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Did the woman cause a divorce or an implantation?
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When a man marries his wife
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We hear from people or from the first wife
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The second wife ruined her life for the first
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Or she destroyed the first house
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Rather, it became this phrase
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I don't want to ruin the first house
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It is common on the lips of many women
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To whom a married man proposes to marry
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How true is this statement?
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Firstly, it cannot be polygamy
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A cause of homes being destroyed
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He does not say such things
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Except for those who do not truly believe in God
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He did not know his Lord well
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Polygamy is legalized
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Issued by God Almighty
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He is the All-Knowing, the Wise
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Any objection or challenge to the issue of polygamy
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It is an objection to God
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He challenged his law, which was based on his knowledge and wisdom
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Secondly
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God required justice between wives
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For those who want to marry more than one spouse
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Adding any condition that God Almighty did not stipulate
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It is an accusation that God's law is deficient
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This is a clear challenge to God’s law and judgment
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Third
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Wrong application of some men
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On the topic of polygamy
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And their breach of justice
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We are not allowed to challenge God's law
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Men fail in justice
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Such as the failure of many Muslims to adhere to the law of God Almighty in other matters
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A man marries a second woman
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He is not the reason for his house to become corrupt if it becomes corrupt
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What is the real reason for the corruption of homes in the case of polygamy?
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Who is responsible for this?
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Is it a man or a woman?
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What is the relationship of these questions to the story of Umm Zara’?
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Perhaps we can answer these questions
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By contemplating the story of a sow mother
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With this woman whom Abu Zara married
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Firstly
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How did Abu Zara know?
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The size and shape of a woman's breasts
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The mother of the transplant described the shape of the woman's breasts
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She likened them to pomegranates
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The woman was definitely not a nudist
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Until Abu Zar'a sees that from her
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How did Abu Zaraa know the size of her breasts?
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She must have been wearing a dress
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Her body separates
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Otherwise, he would not have known the size of her breasts
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This is what Islam forbids for women
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Because the detail of a woman’s body fascinates a man
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There have been hadiths that indicate
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On the prohibition of clothing that details the body
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Of which
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On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Two types of people in Hell that I have not seen
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People with whips like cow tails
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They hit people with it
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And women who are clothed and naked
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Slanted slants
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Their heads are like the inclined humps of a camel
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It will not take us into heaven
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And its scent does not find us
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Its scent can be smelled from such and such a distance
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Narrated by Muslim
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Ibn Abdul-Barr, may God have mercy on him, said
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It means “covered” by name
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Topless in fact
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Do not mortgage these clothes
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Al-Tibi, may God have mercy on him, said
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He proved to them the clothing and then denied it
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Because the reality of being covered is covering one’s private parts
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If the cover is not achieved
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It's like being covered
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Ibn Battal, may God have mercy on him, said
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He wants to be dressed in decent clothes
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Their bodies belong to anyone other than their husbands
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Those of them who are forbidden look at that
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They are actually naked
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Clothes that describe a woman's body and charms
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She makes her look naked
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The man knows every detail of her body
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From her clothes
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It is clear from the hadiths that prohibit women
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Who wears something that describes her body
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Hadith of Osama bin Zaid
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said:
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Dense Coptic
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When Dahiya Al-Kalbi gave it to her
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So my woman clothed her
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to me
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Why don't you wear Coptic?
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I said, O Messenger of God
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My woman covered it
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to me
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Marry it and put a gulag underneath it
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I am afraid to describe the size of her bones
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Narrated by Ahmed
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Al-Rafi’i, may God have mercy on him, said
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What is meant is that the Coptic lace is attached to the body
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It shows the size of the breasts and buttocks
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And the flesh of the upper arms and thighs is tight
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The one who looks at it knows
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Quantities of these organs
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So that it becomes apparent to us for a moment
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And can be touched
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May God bless him and grant him peace
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These places are like descriptions of what is behind them
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And the one who tells what is hidden with her
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This is one of the best expressions of this meaning
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For this purpose, Omar bin Al-Khattab was shot
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In his saying
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Beware of wearing a Qabat
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If it does not heal, it will be described
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Ahmed Al-Saati, may God have mercy on him, said
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The woman's dress must either be thick
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That is, thick and narrow
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Describes the features of a woman's body
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Or it may be subtle and describes the color of her skin
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Both are not permissible
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What is required is that the woman’s dress be visible
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In front of people, wide and dense
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It does not describe a body or complexion
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This woman was not actually naked
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Rather, she wore clothes that covered her skin
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But she did not hide her body size
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And her charms
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Therefore, when Abu Zara saw some of these charms
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He was fascinated by her and married her
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Will women accept this bitter truth?
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It is the corruption of homes
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Caused by women who are exposed
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Naked, slanting women
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It is not what God has legislated regarding the permissibility of polygamy
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Why are women silent?
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About adornment and do not denounce adornment
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And do not antagonize them
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She is also hostile to those who accept to be a second wife
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Is it possible for a woman to know her?
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This is the legal ruling
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It is forbidden to wear anything that separates her body
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Make this month blessed
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A start to change her clothes in obedience to God
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Did the woman realize that the man...
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He is mesmerized by her body just by its appearance
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Even if he didn't see him naked
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But more than that
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A man may be fascinated by imagining what a woman looks like
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If you describe it to him
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On the authority of Abdullah bin Masoud, may God be pleased with him, he said
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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A woman does not have intercourse with another woman
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So she described it to her husband as if he was looking at her
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
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The wisdom in this prohibition
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Fearing that the husband would like the aforementioned description
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This leads to divorce of the description
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Or two gestures as described
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If this is in the description
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What would a man be like if he saw with his own eyes?
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Secondly
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Did Abu Zara make a mistake in marrying this woman?
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Which he saw its advantages
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This story and incident occurred before Islam
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It is no wonder that this is the man's concern
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It is the shape, beauty, and beauty of a woman
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Although Aba planted
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He had reasons other than appearance
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Like having children
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Women's activity and carrying out the tasks assigned to them
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But the threshold is on the Muslim man
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Who only thinks about the woman's appearance
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And her goodness comes at the expense of her religion
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And her morals
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However, the man proposes marriage
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From a woman who fell in love with him
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Better than falling into adultery
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It didn't happen when he married this woman
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Rather, he did himself a favor by preventing it
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From falling into adultery
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The woman caused it indirectly
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In his marriage to her
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But was it the reason for a divorce or a transplant?
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The question is for Muslim women today
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Is a woman satisfied with her husband?
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To marry a woman who fell in love with him
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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds