A summary of the life of the Salaf between words and deeds | Episode (68) | The state of the predecessors with blessings, and thanking the benefactor

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0:00 In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
0:04 The lives of the salaf between words and deeds.
0:09 Wisdom, good conduct, and gentleness of speech.
0:18 Mu'awiyah, may Allah be pleased with him, said:
0:21 "I do not use my sword where my whip suffices me,
0:25 nor do I use my whip where my tongue suffices me.
0:30 Even if there were only a single hair between me and the people, it would never snap."
0:35 He was asked, "How so?"
0:38 He replied, "If they pulled it, I would let it go slack;
0:43 and if they let it go slack, I would pull it."
0:46 An old woman stood before Qays ibn Sa'd, may Allah be pleased with him, and said:
0:52 "I complain to you of the scarcity of mice in my home."
0:55 He said, "How wonderful this metonymy is!"
0:59 Then he commanded, "Fill her house with bread, meat, clarified butter, and dates!"
1:04 Urwah ibn al-Zubayr, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
1:09 "The noble man is not he who, when he falls into a predicament, manages to escape it;
1:14 rather, the noble man is he who guards against matters so that he does not fall into them in the first place."
1:19 Umar ibn Abd al-Aziz, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
1:23 "I intend to introduce a matter of justice for the Muslims,
1:29 but I fear that their hearts will not bear it,
1:33 so I introduce along with it a bit of worldly attraction.
1:37 Thus, if their hearts recoil from the former, they settle upon the latter."
1:42 Abd al-Malik ibn Umar ibn Abd al-Aziz said to his father, Umar, may Allah have mercy on both of them:
1:48 "What prevents you from executing your judgment in this matter?
1:52 By Allah, I would not care if cauldrons boiled with you and me if it meant carrying out this command!"
1:59 Umar replied, "I am training the people as one trains an unbroken horse.
2:04 If Allah grants me life, I shall proceed with my plan;
2:08 and if death comes upon me swiftly, Allah already knows my intention.
2:13 Indeed, I fear that if I confront the people suddenly with what you say,
2:19 they will compel me to resort to the sword;
2:22 and there is no good in a good that comes only by the sword."
2:27 Al-Sha'bi reported:
2:29 "I attended the court of Shurayh, may Allah have mercy on him,
2:32 when a woman came disputing with a man.
2:35 She began to shed tears and weep profusely,
2:38 so I said, 'O Abu Umayyah,
2:41 I do not think this poor woman is anything but wronged!'
2:47 He replied, 'O Sha'bi,
2:50 the brothers of Joseph came to their father in the evening weeping.'"
2:55 Ibrahim ibn Tahman, may Allah have mercy on him, had
2:59 a generous stipend from the public treasury—
3:02 that is, a significant sum of money.
3:05 One day, he was asked a question in the council of the Caliph,
3:09 and he answered, "I do not know."
3:12 They said to him:
3:15 "You receive such-and-such an amount every month,
3:18 yet you cannot answer a single question?"
3:20 He replied:
3:22 "I only receive it for what I know well.
3:25 If I were paid for what I do not know well,
3:28 the public treasury would be exhausted, while my ignorance would never be exhausted."
3:33 The Commander of the Faithful was delighted with his answer,
3:36 ordered a lavish reward for him,
3:39 and increased his monthly stipend.
3:43 Al-Mansur said one day to Shabib ibn Shaybah, may Allah have mercy on him:
3:48 "Admonish me, and be concise."
3:50 He said:
3:52 "O Commander of the Faithful,
3:54 indeed Allah was not pleased with Himself
3:57 to place anyone among His creation above you,
4:00 so do not be pleased with yourself for Him
4:02 that any of His servants should be more grateful to Him than you."
4:05 Al-Mansur replied:
4:07 "By Allah, you have indeed been concise!"
4:10 A man visited a governor
4:12 who was a friend of his,
4:14 but the governor acted preoccupied and ignored him.
4:16 One day, the man made himself seen,
4:18 and the governor said:
4:20 "Pardon me, for I am busy."
4:22 The man replied:
4:24 "Were it not for your preoccupation, I would not have come to you!"
4:26 Abu Simak, may Allah have mercy on him, said to a man:
4:31 "I did not preserve my dignity from asking of you,
4:34 so preserve your dignity from turning me away;
4:37 and place me through your generosity where I have placed myself
4:41 through my hope in you."
4:43 Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
4:46 "Food is eaten for three reasons:
4:49 with brothers, out of joy;
4:52 with the poor, out of selflessness;
4:55 and with worldly people, out of chivalry and dignity."
4:58 The state of the salaf regarding blessings and giving thanks to the Bestower of blessings.
5:06 The state of the salaf regarding the blessings of Allah
5:09 and what has been said concerning that.
5:12 Abu al-Darda', may Allah be pleased with him, said:
5:15 "Whoever does not see Allah's blessing upon him
5:18 except in eating and drinking,
5:20 his understanding is meager and his punishment is present."
5:23 He also said, may Allah be pleased with him:
5:26 "How many a blessing from Allah Almighty
5:29 lies in a tranquil vein!"
5:33 Abd al-Rahman ibn Hatib ibn Abi
5:36 Balta'ah, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
5:39 "We went out with Umar, may Allah be pleased with him,
5:42 on a Hajj or Umrah pilgrimage.
5:44 When we reached the mountain pass of Dajnan,
5:47 Umar turned around and said:
5:50 'I remember myself in these mountain passes,
5:53 tending camels for al-Khattab,
5:56 who was harsh and severe.
5:59 I would gather firewood for him at times,
6:02 and beat down leaves for livestock at other times.
6:05 Yet today, I have reached a state where people walk by my side,
6:08 and there is no one above me except Allah!'
6:11 And in all of that, nothing was seen except his cheerful disposition as he recited:
6:14 'The Creator alone remains, while wealth and children perish.'"
6:17 Abu al-Aliyah,
6:20 may Allah have mercy on him, said:
6:23 "Indeed, I hope that no servant perishes between two blessings:
6:26 a blessing for which he praises Allah,
6:29 and a sin for which he seeks Allah's forgiveness."
6:32 Abd al-Malik ibn Abjar,
6:36 may Allah have mercy on him, said:
6:39 "There is no human being except that he is tested with wellbeing,
6:42 to see how his gratitude will be,
6:45 or tested with affliction, to see how his patience will be."
6:48 Sufyan ibn Uyaynah,
6:51 may Allah have mercy on him, said: "Part of gratitude to Allah
6:54 for a blessing is that you praise Him for it
6:57 and use it to aid yourself in obeying Him.
7:00 He has not shown gratitude to Allah who uses
7:03 His blessing to commit disobedience against Him."
7:06 Al-Hasan, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
7:09 "Indeed, Allah grants enjoyment through a blessing for as long as He wills,
7:12 but if He is not thanked,
7:15 He turns it into a punishment upon them."
7:18 He also said, may Allah have mercy on him:
7:21 "Mention this blessing frequently,
7:24 for remembering it is itself a form of gratitude."
7:28 Some of the salaf said:
7:31 "Remembering blessings instills love for Allah, the Mighty and Majestic."
7:34 A man asked one of the salaf:
7:37 "How have you awoken this morning?"
7:40 He replied, "I have awoken between two blessings,
7:43 and I do not know which of them is greater:
7:46 sins that Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, has concealed,
7:49 so that no one can shame me for them;
7:52 and an affection that Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, has cast
7:55 into the hearts of His servants,
7:58 which my own deeds could never have earned."
8:02 It used to be said:
8:05 "Whoever recognizes Allah's blessing, the Mighty and Majestic, in his heart
8:08 and praises Him with his tongue,
8:11 will not finish doing so before he sees an increase,
8:14 because of the saying of Allah, the Mighty and Majestic:
8:17 'If you are grateful, I will surely increase you.'"
8:20 And he said:
8:23 "It used to be said that part of gratitude for a blessing
8:26 is to speak of it."
8:31 Regarding the verse of Allah Almighty:
8:34 "We shall gradually draw them on from where they do not know,"
8:37 Sufyan said, "We lavish upon them
8:40 blessings while withholding from them the ability to give thanks."
8:43 Someone other than Sufyan said:
8:46 "Every time they commit a sin, We grant them a new
8:49 blessing." Ibn Shawdhab,
8:52 may Allah have mercy on him, reported that a group of people gathered
8:55 and discussed which blessing is the greatest.
8:58 A man said, "That which Allah has concealed of our faults
9:01 from one another."
9:04 He added, "And they considered that statement to be the most correct."
9:07 Some of the salaf said:
9:11 "Every blessing from Allah upon you in your religion
9:14 requires more gratitude from you than the blessing of Allah upon you
9:17 in your worldly life."
9:20 Mutarrif ibn Abd Allah, may Allah have mercy on him,
9:23 used to say: "Indeed, among the most beloved servants of Allah
9:26 is the patient and deeply grateful one,
9:29 who, when tested, remains patient,
9:32 and when granted a gift, gives thanks."
9:35 He also said, may Allah have mercy on him: "That I am granted wellbeing and give thanks
9:38 is more beloved to me than to be tested
9:41 and remain patient."
9:45 Al-Junayd ibn Muhammad, may Allah have mercy on him, was asked
9:48 about the true reality of gratitude,
9:51 and he replied: "It is that one does not use any of His blessings to disobey Him."
9:55 Bishr ibn al-Harith, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
9:58 "I thought about Bishr the Christian,
10:01 Bishr the Jew,
10:04 and Bishr the Zoroastrian,
10:07 while I myself am named Bishr.
10:10 So I said to myself, 'What preceded from you to Him
10:13 that He should single you out?'
10:16 Then I reflected on His grace toward me
10:19 in making me among His chosen servants."
10:22 Ibn Aqil, may Allah have mercy on him, wrote
10:26 in *Al-Funun*: "Blessings are guests,
10:29 and their hospitality is gratitude;
10:32 tribulations are guests, and their hospitality is patience.
10:35 So strive that these guests depart
10:38 grateful for your good hospitality,
10:41 bearing witness to what they heard and saw."
10:47 The state of the salaf toward those among creation who did good to them.
10:50 Sufyan, may Allah have mercy on him, said: "Even if Pharaoh said to me,
10:54 'May Allah bless you,'
10:57 I would reply, 'And you as well.'"
11:00 One of the salaf said: "Indeed, a man
11:03 Some of the salaf said, "Indeed, a man
11:06 may meet me with such good companionship
11:09 that I feel I will die before I can ever repay him."
11:12 And one of the wise said:
11:15 "The most thankful of people to Allah, the Mighty and Sublime,
11:18 are those who are most thankful to His servants."
11:21 And he said, "He who does not express gratitude for a lot
11:24 has failed, for repaying kindness with kindness is an obligation,
11:27 whereas bestowing unrequited favor is a voluntary act of virtue."