Part of حياة السلف (اكتملت السلسلة)
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مختصر حياة السلف بين القول والعمل | الحلقة (50) | عناية السلف بالأولاد - الجزء الثاني
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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The life of the predecessors between words and deeds
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The ancestor’s care for children
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Motivate them and do not despise them
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Omar, may God be pleased with him, said one day to the companions of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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As you see this verse was revealed
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Would any of you want to have Paradise?
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They said God knows best
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Omar got angry
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So he said, “Say we know or we don’t know.”
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Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with him, said
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There is something in me about it, O Commander of the Faithful
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Omar said, “My brother, speak up and do not despise yourself.”
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Ibn Abbas said: I gave an example of an action
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Omar said any work
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Ibn Abbas said to work
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Omar said to a rich man
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He works in obedience to God Almighty
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Then God sent Satan to him
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He committed sins until his deeds were drowned
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On the authority of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with him, what he said
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Omar, may God be pleased with him, used to bring me in with the sheikhs of Badr
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Some of them said
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Why did this boy interfere with us when we have children like him?
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He said: He is one of those you have learned
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He said, “So he called them one day and invited me with them.”
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He said, “And what I saw called me that day.”
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Except to show them from me
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He said, “What do you say about me?”
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If God's victory and conquest come
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I saw people entering the religion of God in droves
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Until the end of the surah
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Some of them said
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We are commanded to thank God and seek His forgiveness if we are granted victory and He grants victory to us
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Some of them said
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We don't know or some of them didn't say anything
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He said to me
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O Ibn Abbas, is that what you say?
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I said no
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He said: What do you say?
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I said it is the term of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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God taught him
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If Nasrallah and conquest come, Mecca will be conquered
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That is a sign of your death
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So praise your Lord and ask His forgiveness
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He was repentant
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Omar said
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I only know what she knows
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On the authority of Yusuf bin Al-Majshun, he said:
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Ibn Shihab, may God have mercy on him, told us
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Me, my nephew and my cousin
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We are young boys
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We ask him about the hadith
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Don't belittle yourself because of your new teeth
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Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God Almighty be pleased with him
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If a difficult matter befalls him
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Leave the young men and consult them
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Justice between them
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On the authority of Ibrahim, may God have mercy on him, he said:
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They preferred to treat their children equally
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Even in the kiss
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On the authority of Omar bin Abdul Aziz, may God have mercy on him
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He hugged Ben to him and loved him
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He said: O so-and-so
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I swear I wish I loved you
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I cannot give you any preference over your brother
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On the authority of Al-Hasan, may God have mercy on him, he said:
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If the teacher does not treat the boys equally
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Books from the dark
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Marriage of sons and daughters
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Asmaa bint Abi Bakr, may God be pleased with her, said
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Marriage is slavery
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Let one of you look at where his old woman lives
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Saeed bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with him, said
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If I teach my son the Qur’an
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And his argument and his wife
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You have fulfilled his rights
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My right remains on him
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A man said to Al-Hasan, may God have mercy on him
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I have a daughter and she is getting engaged
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Who will I marry her to?
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Her husband said: He is one of those who fear God
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If he loves her, he honors her
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And if he hates her, he does not wrong her
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Have compassion and love for them
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And caress them
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Al-Baraa bin Azib, may God be pleased with him, said
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I entered with Abu Bakr, may God be pleased with him
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The first thing that came to the city
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So, Aisha, his daughter, may God be pleased with her
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She was hurting and had a fever
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Abu Bakr came to her and said to her
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How are you, son?
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And he kissed her cheek
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On the authority of Uqba bin Al-Harith, he said:
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I went out with Abu Bakr, may God be pleased with him
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From the afternoon prayer
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After the death of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Belial and Ali, may God be pleased with him
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He walks beside him
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He plays with boys
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So he carried him on his neck while saying
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My father resembled the Prophet
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Not like Ali
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He said and Ali laughed
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He was Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with him
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If he finds his son safe, he kisses him and says
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An old man kisses an old man
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On the authority of Abu Wathilah
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She entered it finding his son Yazid
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So he slept all night
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When it became
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He was sent to Al-Ahn about Ibn Qays, may God have mercy on him
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So he came to him and when he entered upon him
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He said to him, O Abu Bahr
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How satisfied are you with your child?
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And what do you say about the boy?
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He said so I said to myself
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Commander of the Faithful about this
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Except for Mujda, she entered upon Yazid
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Then some words came to me
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If I had been there for a year
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I would have come
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So I said, O Commander of the Faithful!
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They are the fruits of our hearts
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And the pillar of our appearance
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We are a humiliated land for them
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O Commander of the Faithful, land them
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And if they ask you, give them
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They love you and love you
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And they work hard
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And do not be a burden on them
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Give them only a little
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They get bored with your life and hate being close to you
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He said: God bless you, Ahnaf
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By God, I have sent to you
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My heart was filled with malice
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Some of the predecessors, may God have mercy on him, said
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Honor your son
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It is more worthy of blessing
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And whoever wishes, he can disobey his child
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Delivery to the boys
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On the authority of Othman, on the authority of Ibrahim, he said:
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I saw Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with him
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He passes by us when we are boys
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Thabet Al-Banani passed
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May God have mercy on him with two boys
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He greeted them
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And it happened fixed that it was
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He walks with Anas, may God be pleased with him
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He passed by two boys and greeted them
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It happened to Anas that it was
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He walks with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He passed by two boys and greeted them
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Flirting with boys and allowing them to play freely
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On the authority of Al-Hasan, may God have mercy on him
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He entered his house
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Two boys playing on top of the house
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A man with him forbade them
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Al-Hassan said, Leave them
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Playing is their spring
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On the authority of Ibrahim Al-Nakha’i, may God have mercy on him, he said:
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They gave the boys permission to play all the time
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Except with dogs
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Caring for orphans and disciplining them
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On the authority of Abu Darda, may God be pleased with him, he said
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Beware of the orphan's tears
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And the call of the oppressed
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They walk at night while the people are asleep
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It was said to Ibn Sirin, may God have mercy on him
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I have an orphan
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He said, “Do to him what you would do to your son.”
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Hit him as you would hit your son
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On the authority of Farqad Al-Subkhi, may God have mercy on him, he said:
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He created a table
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The greatest honor of a table
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An orphan is fed on it
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Other benefits, Ibn Abbas said
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May God be pleased with them in the Almighty’s saying
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And those who believe
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Their descendants followed them with faith
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He said
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The believer's offspring will be raised for him
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Even if it is less than him at work
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So God Almighty recognizes him
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He also said, may God be pleased with him
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In the Almighty's saying
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And those who say, “Our Lord, we have made fools.”
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From our wives and offspring is Qurrah
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Eyes, but it wasn't
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The joy of their eyes when they see it as true
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But nice to see
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Obedient to God Almighty
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Al-Hasan Al-Basri, may God have mercy on him, said
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In the Almighty’s saying, “We are fooled.”
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From our wives and offspring is Qurrah
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Eyes in obedience to God
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Nothing is more pleasing to the eyes of the believer
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Than to see his beloved in obedience
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Malik bin Dinar, may God have mercy on him, saw this
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A man who prays badly
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He said, “How merciful I am to his family.”
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He was told that this was bad
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May his prayers and mercy be upon his family
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He said he was their eldest
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And from it they learn
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Ayoub Al-Sakhtiani, may God have mercy on him
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If he was congratulated on a baby, he said:
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May God bless you
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And upon the nation of Muhammad