Part of حياة السلف (اكتملت السلسلة)
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مختصر حياة السلف بين القول والعمل | الحلقة (48) | حال السلف في التعامل مع زوجاتهم
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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The life of the predecessors between words and deeds
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The condition of the predecessors in dealing with their wives
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He advised and guided the husband and wife
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Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him, said to a man who was about to divorce his wife
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Didn't divorce her
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He said I don't like her
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He said, “All homes are built on love, where is the care and blame?”
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And he, may God be pleased with him, said: Women are private parts
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So they covered them with homes and treated their weakness with silence
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He said, may God be pleased with him, that a believing servant is not given anything after believing in God
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Better than a woman who is friendly, friendly, and well-mannered
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Nothing happens to a servant after disbelief in God
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It is worse for him than a woman who boiled him
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She has an iron tongue and bad manners
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He, may God be pleased with him, said: No man spends so much on himself and his family
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Except for him his reward
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Let the man start with those he supports, then the closest, then the closest
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If he prefers, let him start with it
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Ali, may God be pleased with him, had two women
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If it was this day, he would buy meat for half a dirham
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If it was this day, he would buy meat for half a dirham
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On the authority of Hudhayfah, may God be pleased with him, he said:
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I acknowledge that I am an eye when people in need complain to me
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Moaz bin Jabal, may God be pleased with him, had two women
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If he was with one of them, he would not perform ablution from the other’s house
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A woman came to him and said:
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You are truly the messenger of the Messenger of God
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What is the wife's right over her husband?
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He said it was her right
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He should not hit her face or make her look ugly
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And her right is on him
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To feed her from what she eats
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And he covers her with whatever he wears
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And her right is on him
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Not to leave her in her home
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She died from a plague that struck them in one day
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He brought them to the pit
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Then I knock between them
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Whichever one enters the hole before the other
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Al-Zabarqan bin Badr, may God be pleased with him, was
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If he marries his daughter, he approaches her room
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He said, "Are you listening?"
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Be his slave and he will appoint you as a slave
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Sufyan Al-Thawri, may God have mercy on him, said
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If you want to get married, give gifts to your mother
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Abu Al-Aswad Al-Dawali, may God have mercy on him, said to his daughter
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Beware of jealousy, for it is the key to divorce
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And you have to decorate
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I adorn the adornments with kohl
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And you have to be kind
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The best good thing is to enlighten the topic
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And be like you told your mother sometimes
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Take my pardon, you will always receive my affection
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And do not say my surah when they get angry
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I found love in the chest and hurt
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If they meet, love will soon go away
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Abu Sinan said
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Dirar Ibn Murrah, may God have mercy on him
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You have given water to the people of today and fodder for the Shah
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And he was saying
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The best of you is the one who benefits his family
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Imam Ahmed, may God have mercy on him, was asked about women fasting
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Her husband prevents her
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She thinks she should fast
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He said: Do not fast
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She does not think of herself as praying or fasting
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Unless he gives her permission
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Except what is obligatory
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Otherwise, do not fast except with His permission
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She obeys him in everything he commands her to do
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It belonged to Abu Bakr bin Al-Labbad, may God have mercy on him
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bastard
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She hurts him with her tongue
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His companions told him
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He divorced her
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We do her justice
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And he said
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I fear that if I divorce her, a Muslim will be afflicted with her
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Perhaps God has protected me from a great calamity due to its severity
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And he was saying
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Every believer has a trial
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It is my ordeal
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A life of peace
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Between words and action