Part of حياة السلف (اكتملت السلسلة)
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مختصر حياة السلف بين القول والعمل | الحلقة (49) | عناية السلف بالأولاد - الجزء الأول
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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
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The life of the predecessors between words and deeds
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The ancestor’s care for children
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Taking care of their upbringing and education
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And be patient with that
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Ali bin Abi Talib, may God be pleased with him, said about this verse
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Protect yourselves and your families from hellfire
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He said: Teach them and discipline them
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Omar bin Al-Asir, may God be pleased with him, stood over a circle of Quraysh
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And he said
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What is the matter with you that you have brought up these abominations?
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Don't
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And expand their presence in the council
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And let them talk
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And make them understand it
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They are small people
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Or doubt that they are great people
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You were young people
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Today you are great people
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On the authority of Ikrimah, he said:
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He was Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both
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He puts cables on my feet
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He teaches me the Qur’an and Sunnah
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Some wise men said
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Take the initiative to discipline the children
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Before the work piles up and the mind disperses
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Some poets said
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If you straighten the branches, they become straight
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It does not soften when straightened by wood
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Literature may benefit events in a leisurely manner
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And politeness is of no use to gray hair
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On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both, he said:
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He taught the boy to pray
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If he knows his right from his left
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He also said, may God be pleased with him, to a man
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Oh, this is the best manner of your son
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You are responsible for it
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He is responsible for your pools
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On the authority of Sufyan Al-Thawri, may God have mercy on him, he said:
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A man should force his son to learn
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He is responsible for it
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Ibrahim Al-Harbi, may God have mercy on him, said
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Keep your children away from bad companions
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Before you dye them in affliction
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He also dyes the garment
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Also, may God have mercy on him, the first corruption of boys
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each other
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Omar bin Abdul Aziz, may God have mercy on him, reached the age of
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To build for him, he bought a section for a thousand dirhams
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So you conclude with it
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So Omar wrote to him
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A determination from me to you when I sold the beans
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Which I bought for a thousand dirhams
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And I gave its price in charity
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And it was engraved
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May God have mercy on Maran who knew his destiny
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And peace
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He wrote, may God have mercy on him, to his son’s teacher
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Treat them with harshness, for it is more forbidden
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For their feet and abandonment in the morning
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Her habit leads to heedlessness
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And lack of laughter
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Too much of it kills the heart
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They think of your manners
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Hating amusement parks
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Which started from Satan
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Its punishment is the wrath of the Most Gracious
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For I have heard from trustworthy people who carry knowledge
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To attend concerts and listen to songs
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And meditate on them
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Hypocrisy grows in the heart
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Grass also grows with water
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Al-Shafi’i, may God have mercy on him, entered one day
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To some Harun al-Rashid stone
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He was given permission to do so
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The servant made him sit with Abu Abd al-Samad
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The teacher of the sons of Al-Rashid
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He said to him, O Abu Abdullah
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These are the children of the Commander of the Faithful
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This is their discipline
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If I were to recommend it, I would go to Abu Abd al-Samad
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He said to him, “Let it be the first thing you start with.”
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From reforming the children of the Commander of the Faithful
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Fix yourself
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Their eyes are fixed on your eyes
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What is good for them is what you approve of
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What is ugly to them is what you find ugly
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Teach them the Book of God
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And do not force them to do it, lest they get bored with it
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And do not leave them lest they abandon him
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Then increase their hair and groom it
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It is the most honorable hadith
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Do not push them away from one knowledge to another
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Until they master it
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The speech is crowded in the ear
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Misunderstanding
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Al-Maimoni, may God have mercy on him, said
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I asked Abu Abdullah
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Ahmed bin Hanbal, may God have mercy on him
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He said no to the Qur’an
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I said I know it all
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He said, “Unless it is difficult, learn it from him.”
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Then he told me
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If he reads first
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Read again and then commit to it
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Ibn Muflih, may God have mercy on him, said
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The followers of Imam Ahmed are based on this
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To our time
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On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
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A man's rank will be raised
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He says: Oh my Lord
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How do I get this?
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He is told to ask forgiveness from your son
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Ibrahim bin Adham, may God have mercy on him, said
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For a man who has children
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He said yes he said
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How wonderful your children are
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Patience over the loss of the child
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Muhammad bin Is Al-Zahid said
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May God have mercy on him for what he has reached
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Abdul Rahman bin Mahdi, may God have mercy on him
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His son died
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He was greatly alarmed
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This reached Muhammad bin Idris
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Shafi'i, may God have mercy on him
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So he wrote to him
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So what if it comes together?
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On gaining weight
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So I say, I am your comforter
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No, I'm not confident
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Of eternity but the year of religion
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A goat filled with Baq
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After his companion and for the comforter
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Even if they lived for a while
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He said, “They were fighting with him.”
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He preferred to spend on them
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On the authority of Abu Qilabah, on the authority of Abu Asma
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On the authority of Thawban, may God be pleased with him
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On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said
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The best dinar a man can spend
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A dinar that he spends on his family
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A dinar is spent by a man
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On his animal for the sake of God
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And a dinar that he spends on his friends
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For God's sake
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Abu Qalabah, may God have mercy on him, said
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He started with the children
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What man is the greatest worker?
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From a man who spends on young children
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Until God Almighty enriches them
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Abdullah Ibn Al-Mubarak said
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May God have mercy on him, the site is not located
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Earning money for one's children is one thing
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Nor jihad for the sake of God Almighty
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Al-Shaabi, may God have mercy on him, said
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Whatever slave leaves behind wealth, he is the greatest of his earners
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From the money he leaves to his son
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He keeps himself away from people
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On the authority of Al-Hasan, may God have mercy on him, he said:
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He who takes care of his family is a traitor
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On the authority of Muslim he said:
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I was told by Muawiyah Ibn Qurrah, may God have mercy on him
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And I came from pasture
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He said: What did you do?
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I said, “I disavow such-and-such and such-and-such for my family.”
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He said, “I got it from what is permissible.”
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He said I said yes
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He said because I am in the morning
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What I became every day
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I love to stay up all night
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And I fast during the day