Part of Concepts of Ahl as-Sunnah (series completed) · Lesson 740 of 1251

Summary of Sunni concepts | Concept (738) | Politeness, not flattery

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0:00 A summary of the concepts held by the Ahl al-Sunnah.
0:08 Distinguishing between *mudarat* (gentle diplomacy) and *mudahanah* (compromising one's principles).
0:11 *Mudarat* is a praiseworthy and permitted character trait.
0:16 In fact, it may at times be obligatory.
0:18 This is in contrast to the forbidden *mudahanah*.
0:21 The root of *mudarat* is derived from *dar’* (to repel).
0:25 Meaning, to repel harm with gentleness.
0:27 Allah the Almighty says:
0:28 ﴾And they repel evil with good.﴿
0:31 Thus, the one practicing *mudarat* treats his companion with gentleness until he extracts the truth from him.
0:36 Or turns him away from falsehood.
0:39 He may concede something of his worldly interests or his personal honor.
0:42 In order to preserve his religion, his worldly affairs, or both together.
0:47 As for *mudahanah*, it is derived from *dihan* (varnish or coating).
0:50 Which is that which appears on the surface of a thing while concealing what is underneath.
0:54 Meaning that the one practicing *mudahanah* shows the opposite of what he conceals.
0:59 Or *mudahanah* is derived from excessive softness and sycophancy.
1:03 The one practicing *mudahanah* caters to the one he is flattering.
1:06 He concedes something of his creed or conceals it to please him.
1:11 He treats him with gentleness while affirming him in his falsehood.
1:15 And leaves him to follow his whims.
1:17 He does this to preserve his worldly interests.
1:20 And his action is forbidden.
1:22 Just as Allah the Almighty says:
1:24 ﴾So do not obey the deniers.﴿
1:27 ﴾They wish that you would compromise so they might compromise.﴿
1:30 In summary:
1:32 Both *mudarat* and *mudahanah*
1:35 Are subject to the principle of blocking the means to evil (*sadd al-dhara'i'*).
1:38 Whatever serves as a means to protect the religion and its people
1:41 Is *mudarat*, which is permitted.
1:44 And it may even be obligatory.
1:47 And whatever serves as a means to undermine the religion and diminish it
1:51 Is *mudahanah*, which is forbidden and prohibited.
1:55 A summary of the concepts held by the Ahl al-Sunnah.