Part of مفاهيم أهل السنة (اكتملت السلسلة)
· Lesson 771 of 1189
خلاصة مفاهيم أهل السنة | المفهوم (831) | أمن البيت والأسرة
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Summary of Sunni concepts
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Home and family security
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Islam aims to spread peace in the home
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At the same time, he turns to the individual conscience
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And to the human community
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They are all interconnected links
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There is interconnection and communication between them
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And to spread this peace
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Islam guarantees several things
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He urged its availability in the Muslim home
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It is so
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Firstly
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It is necessary for the couple to bond
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It must be based on mutual consent
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Neither of them should be forced to do so
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Especially women
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Do not have sex with a virgin until she asks for permission
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Nor clothing until you ask for advice
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It was said, O Messenger of God
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So how?
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He said
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If you keep quiet
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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And so that satisfaction is real
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They must see each other before marriage
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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By Al-Mughirah bin Shu'bah
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When he wanted to get married
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Look at her
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It is better for it to last between you
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Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi, Al-Nasa’i and Ahmad
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It was authenticated by Al-Albani
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Secondly
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There must also be publicity and testimony in marriage
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It is not done in secret as if it were a crime
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It also occurs in temporary marriage
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There must be an explicit offer and acceptance
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Witnesses bear witness to them
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So that there is no doubt about the reality of this connection
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Third
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Likewise, in marriage, there must be an intention to perpetuate the marriage
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So that it is not a fun marriage
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Its purpose is not to create a Muslim family and a Muslim home
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Fourth
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Islam emphasizes the concept of accommodation, affection and mercy between spouses
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Fifth
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The man was assigned the right of guardianship so that he could manage this partnership
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VI
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Make the woman's main job to take care of her husband's house
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Seventh
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Islam forbids adornment and mingling
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So that no strife occurs between women and men
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These include married women or married men
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If they meet with so-called co-workers
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Of the opposite sex for both of them
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The man finds his so-called female co-worker elegant, adorned and adorned
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He does not see her as she really is in her home as he sees his wife
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God Almighty said to women
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And do not display yourselves like the display of pre-Islamic times
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He ordered them to wear the hijab
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Both men and women were ordered to turn a blind eye
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To prevent strife between them
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And in return
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A woman should adorn herself in her home for her husband
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She does not neglect herself
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To protect her husband
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In order not to be alienated from it and look at others
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Outside the family project for him
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Eighth
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Sharia law makes homes inviolable
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Permission must be sought before entering
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God Almighty said
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O you who have believed, do not enter houses other than your own
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Until you feel comfortable and greet its people
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That is better for you, so that you may remember
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Ninth
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He forbade spying on homes
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And to see what is inside her
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God Almighty said
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And do not spy
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Whoever looks into people's homes without their permission
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So they gouged out his eye
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His eye wasted
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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It was authenticated by Al-Albani
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Tenth
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He ordered the preservation of private parts
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Even between members of the same family
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Even if they were children
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And he was no exception to that
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Except the spouses between each other
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God Almighty said
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O you who believe
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Let those whom your right hands possess permit you
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And those of you who have not reached the dream three times
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Before dawn prayer
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And when you put on your clothes at noon
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And after the evening prayer
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Three private parts for you
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There is no blame on you or them after them
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You are all over each other
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Thus God makes clear to you the signs
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And God is All-Knowing, All-Wise
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And if your children reach the dream
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Let them ask permission as those before them asked permission
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Thus God makes His signs clear to you
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And God is All-Knowing, All-Wise
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Eleventh
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He commanded justice between wives
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So that the wife can live safe from injustice
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Justice between children also applies to gifts and other things
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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So fear God and be fair among your children
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Agreed
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twelfth
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Even a divorce that appears to be a sign of peace in the family
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In reality, it is security and peace
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When it is impossible to live together between spouses
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The children were negatively affected by this crisis
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However, this divorce is required in order for it to be safe and sound
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In conducting it, it must adhere to the Sharia rulings
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It should be the last remedy after attempts at reconciliation between the two parties
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And send an arbitrator from each party to try to reconcile them
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If he doesn't find it at last
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Then there is a need for divorce
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Taking into account what is known between the two parties and their families
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thirteenth
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It is more important than all of the above to achieve the security and safety of the Muslim home
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Maintaining the security of faith and good morals for family members
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He commanded them to obey God and protect themselves from the causes of punishment in this world and the hereafter
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God Almighty said
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O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a fire whose fuel is people and stones