Part of رياض الصالحين (اكتملت السلسلة)
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رياض الصالحين | الحلقة (172) | باب تحريم الخلوة بالأجنبية
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Riyadh al-Salehin from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Chapter on the prohibition of being alone with a foreign woman
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God Almighty said
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And if you ask them for anything, ask them from behind a screen
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On the authority of Uqba bin Amer, may God be pleased with him
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Beware of entering upon women
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A man from the Ansar said
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Have you seen the mother-in-law?
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He said
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The father-in-law is death
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Agreed
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The father-in-law is a relative of the husband
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Like his brother, his nephew, and his cousin
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Beware, that is, beware
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Access to women
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That is, entering upon foreign women for the purpose of being alone with them
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One of the benefits of talking
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Evidence that the husband’s relative remains a stranger to the wife
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There is a response to anyone who is lenient in sitting or being alone with a relative of the husband
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Explaining that temptation may come from a relative of the husband more than from others
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Because he sits with her, talks to her, and speaks well to her
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On the authority of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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None of you should be alone with a woman except a mahram
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Agreed
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One of the benefits of talking
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Explaining that with the presence of a mahram, seclusion is interrupted
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Explaining that it is not forbidden for women to stay with men out of necessity in the presence of a mahram
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Provided that it is concealed and not revealed
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Prohibiting a man from being alone with a foreign woman
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Because that is one of the reasons for corruption, sedition, and immorality
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On the authority of Buraydah, may God be pleased with him, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Mujahideen women are inviolable to those sitting
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Like the sanctity of their mothers
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There is no man among those who remain behind who succeeds a man among the Mujahideen in his family
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And he is strong in them
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Except that it will stand for him on the Day of Resurrection
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So he takes from his good deeds whatever he wants
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Until he is satisfied
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Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, turned to us
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And he said
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What do you think?
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Narrated by Muslim
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He succeeds a man from among the Mujahideen in his family
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To attend to their needs and take care of their affairs
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One of the benefits of talking
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Prohibiting the exposure of Mujahideen women with suspicion
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From looking, being alone, and talking is forbidden
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And so on
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Strengthening the prohibition of mujahideen cheating on their wives
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Urging Muslims to solidarity, cooperation, and striving for goodness
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Each of them took care of the safety of others
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The one who assaults the women of the Mujahideen will be stripped of his good deeds on the Day of Resurrection
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To be among the lost
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Comparing the sanctity of the women of the Mujahideen to those who are sitting
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Like the sanctity of their mothers
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It gives many meanings
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Among them is that exposure to a forbidden person with suspicion or adultery
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Double crime
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It is known that the punishment for incest is murder
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It is the habit of wise people
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They do not think of their mothers except with righteousness and benevolence
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This is what one should do regarding the women of the Mujahideen
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The crime of adultery varies according to the woman with whom he commits adultery
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Adultery with a neighbor’s partner is more severe than another
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Adultery with the women of the Mujahideen is more severe than adultery with anything else
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It even compares adultery to incest
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We seek refuge in God from temptations and bad deeds and morals
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Chapter on the prohibition of men imitating women
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Women resemble men in dress, movement, and so on
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On the authority of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both, he said
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And in a novel
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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Androgynous plural of androgynous
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He is the one who imitates the behavior of women in his movements, clothing, and words
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Dismounted plural of dismounted
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She is a woman who imitates men in their movements and clothing
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On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
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The woman wears men’s clothing. Narrated by Abu Dawud
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One of the benefits of talking
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It is permissible to curse men who imitate women and vice versa
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effeminate or effeminate
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He objects to the characteristic that God created him with
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It is possible to leave it, and this is forbidden
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It is forbidden for men to imitate women and vice versa
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On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Two types of people in Hell that I have not seen
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People with whips like cow tails
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They hit people with it
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And women who are clothed and naked
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Slanted slants
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Their heads are like the inclined humps of a camel
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They will not enter Paradise nor smell its fragrance
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Its scent can be smelled from such and such a distance
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Narrated by Muslim
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With us are cups of God’s grace
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Naked thanks to her
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And it was said with us
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She covers some of her body and exposes some
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To show her beauty and so on
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And it was said
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She wears a thin dress that describes the color of her body
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And we have italics
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It was said about obedience to God Almighty
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And what they need to memorize
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Mamilat
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That is, they teach others about their reprehensible actions
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And it was said
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Women walking strutting
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Slanting their shoulders
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And it was said
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Slanted combs
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She is a prostitutes comb
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And Mamilat
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Others comb that comb
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Their heads are like the humps of a camel
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That is, they enlarge it and magnify it
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By wrapping a turban, headband, or the like
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One of the benefits of talking
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This hadith is one of the evidences of his prophecy, may God bless him and grant him peace
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And he does not speak out of passion
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What the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, told about was fulfilled
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It was not in his time
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But we saw it with our own eyes
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Prohibition of tight and transparent clothing
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Which describes or embodies private parts
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Prohibiting the help of the oppressors against their oppression
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It is mentioned in these two categories
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Evidence of its coherence in reality
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The clothed and naked women
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Slanted slants
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Ropes of men with whips in their hands
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They beat people
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Warning that these two types are among the people of Hell
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God forbid
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Chapter: Prohibiting imitation of Satan and infidels
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On the authority of Jabir, may God be pleased with him, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Do not eat in the north
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Satan eats and drinks with his left hand
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Narrated by Muslim
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One of the benefits of talking
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Desirability of eating with the right hand
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And also drinking
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And their hatred in the north
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That Satan condemns
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And he eats and drinks
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The desirability of tiaming
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Contrary to Satan
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On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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None of you should eat with his left hand
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They do not drink it
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Satan eats with his left hand
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And drink it
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Narrated by Muslim
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On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Jews and Christians do not dye
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So they disagreed with them
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Agreed
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What is meant?
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The white hair of the beard and head is yellowish or reddish
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As for blackness, it is forbidden
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As we will mention in the next section, God willing
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One of the benefits of talking
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Encouragement to differ from the People of the Book in their customs and actions
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It is one of the purposes of the prophetic mission
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Desirability of hair pigment and dye
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Chapter on prohibiting men and women from dyeing their hair black
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On the authority of Jabir, may God be pleased with him, he said
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Bring Abu Qahafa
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Father of Abu Bakr Al-Siddiq, may God be pleased with them both
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The day of the conquest of Mecca
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His head and beard are as white as a thief
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Change this
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And avoid blackness
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Narrated by Muslim
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Al-Thaghama
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It grew white flowers and fruits
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Almost white grey
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One of the benefits of talking
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Hemoglobin is desirable, even for the elderly
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Prohibition of dyeing black
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It is permissible to wear black dye in war to terrorize the enemy
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Chapter on the prohibition of qaza’
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It is shaving part of the head but not part
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It is permissible for a man to shave his hair completely, but not for a woman
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On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, forbade qaza’
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Agreed
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One of the benefits of talking
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Prohibition of shaving part of the head
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Leave an oath
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On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both, he said:
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saw a boy
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He had shaved some of his head
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And he left some of it
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So he forbade them from that and said
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Shave it all off
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Or leave it all alone
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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On the authority of Abdullah Ibn Jaafar, may God be pleased with them both
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That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Or did the family of Jaafar, may God be pleased with him, three times?
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Then he came to them and said
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Don't cry for my brother after today
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Then he said
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Pray for me, my brother
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Then a baby came as if I was hatching
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And he said
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Call me the barber
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So he commanded him
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So he shaved our heads
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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chick plural chick
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He is a bird boy
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One of the benefits of talking
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Crying for the dead in the time of the Messenger
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May God bless him and grant him peace
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Without whining
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It is not permissible to cry excessively
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About three nights
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Head shaved
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Expresses the removal of sadness and optimism
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Urging to sponsor orphans
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And kindness to him
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On the authority of Ali, may God be pleased with him, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, forbade it
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For a woman to shave her head
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Narrated by Al-Nasa'i
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One of the benefits of talking
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Work according to scholars
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They do not see a woman wearing an earring
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They consider her to be negligent in Hajj and Umrah
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A woman shaves her head as a sign of mourning for the dead
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Another sin
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This has been prohibited
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