رياض الصالحين | الحلقة (45) | باب الوصية بالنساء

0:00 Riyadh Al-Salehin

0:03 From the words of the Master of Messengers

0:06 May God bless him and grant him peace

0:09 Chapter on making a will regarding women

0:15 God Almighty said

0:19 And treat them kindly

0:22 And the Almighty said

0:24 You will not be able to treat women justly

0:28 Even if you care

0:30 Do not lean completely

0:32 So leave it like a hanging spoon

0:35 And if they are righteous and pious

0:37 For God is Forgiving and Merciful

0:41 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said

0:47 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

0:51 Treat women well

0:54 Woman was created from a rib

0:57 The crooked part of the rib is higher

1:00 If you go to straighten it, it will be broken

1:03 Even if you leave it, it will still be crooked

1:06 So treat women well

1:09 Agreed

1:11 And in a narration in the two Sahihs

1:14 A woman is like a rib

1:16 If you set it up, you break it

1:19 Even if you enjoy it

1:21 I enjoyed it and it was crooked

1:24 And in a narration by Muslim

1:27 Woman was created from a rib

1:30 It will not straighten your path

1:33 If you enjoy it

1:35 I enjoyed it and it was crooked

1:38 If you go to straighten it, you will break it

1:41 Her divorce broke her

1:44 Crookedness is a bend in what was standing and tilted

1:51 One of the benefits of talking

1:56 Women should be kind

1:58 Because of their weakness and lack of resourcefulness

2:01 Women do not settle in one state

2:04 It must be orbited

2:07 May life continue with her

2:09 Women are not worthy of men

2:13 Because it was created from a crooked rib

2:16 There is no denying its crookedness

2:19 If you want to straighten it out

2:21 I broke it because I couldn't do it

2:24 Discord and separation occur

2:27 Even if she is patient with her bad condition

2:30 The weakness of her mind and other crookedness

2:34 It lasted for ten days

2:37 The educator’s knowledge of the nature of the person he wants to correct and refine

2:42 Appoint him in his advocacy and educational mission

2:46 The commentators and commentators of the hadith agreed

2:51 That Eve was created from the left rib

2:54 To Adam, peace and blessings be upon him

2:57 This is the saying of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both

3:00 We do not know of any of the Companions who disagreed with him, may God be pleased with them

3:05 The scholars have provided evidence for this with this hadith

3:09 And according to what God Almighty says

3:11 O people, fear your Lord, who created you from a single soul

3:18 And her husband was created from her

3:21 On the authority of Abdullah Ibn Zamah, may God be pleased with him

3:27 He heard the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, giving a sermon

3:31 He mentioned the camel and the one who licked it

3:34 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

3:38 So he sent her brothers

3:41 If he sends her a dear, powerful and invincible man in his company

3:47 Then he mentioned women and preached to them

3:50 And he said

3:52 One of you baptizes and flogs his wife like a slave

3:56 Maybe he will have sex with her from the end of his day

4:00 Then he preached to them about their fart laughter

4:03 And he said

4:05 When one of you laughs at what he does

4:08 Agreed

4:10 And the evil one is the evil one who corrupts

4:14 And their saying “he resurrected” means he rose quickly

4:18 A dear man, i.e. a lowly man

4:23 Impervious, meaning strong and forbidding

4:27 Rahta means his people

4:30 That is, his people

4:32 Flogging a slave indicates severe, harmful beating

4:37 He has intercourse with her

4:42 One of the benefits of talking

4:44 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

4:47 People do not know except through revelation

4:50 Including telling stories of the past

4:53 The scholar should preach to the people

4:58 To remind them of God’s laws in the past

5:01 Because it contains good times and a reminder for those who remember

5:07 Explanation of the miracle of Saleh, peace and blessings be upon him

5:11 She is a camel

5:13 Human beings do not know what is right for them in this world and the hereafter

5:17 If they abandon the approach of their Prophet

5:20 And destruction is upon them

5:24 Who spreads corruption among people

5:26 And he diverts them from the path of God

5:29 They are people of luxury and wealth

5:31 The owners of the rahat and the prohibition

5:34 The common people follow the highest people

5:37 Most likely their eldest

5:41 If the public accepts the corruption of the private

5:44 Torment covered them all

5:47 It is permissible to beat a woman without causing harm

5:51 This is after preaching and abandoning the beds

5:56 Laughter is only about strange and strange things

6:00 It is the usual thing for every human being

6:03 Laughing at him is the opposite of being funny

6:06 This is the sanctity of a Muslim

6:10 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said

6:14 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

6:18 A male believer does not rub against a female believer

6:21 If he dislikes one of her traits, he is satisfied with another

6:25 Or someone else said

6:28 Narrated by Muslim

6:30 The word “rubs” means “to hate.”

6:33 It is said that the woman rubbed her husband

6:37 Her husband hated her, meaning he hated her

6:41 And God knows best

6:45 One of the benefits of talking

6:47 A man is forbidden from hating his believing wife

6:50 Completely hateful

6:52 It makes him sad to part with her

6:54 Rather, he has to balance it while he hates it

6:58 And while he is satisfied with it

7:00 So he forgives her

7:02 It overlooks its shortcomings

7:04 He ignores what he hates with what he loves

7:07 This is what Islam teaches us

7:11 The intention of love and hate

7:13 That's why Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him, said

7:17 O Aslam, do not let your love be a burden

7:21 Nor will your hatred be destroyed

7:23 He said: How is that?

7:26 Omar said

7:28 If you like

7:29 Do not be burdened as a boy is burdened with something he loves

7:33 And if you want

7:35 Do not hate with hatred

7:37 You like your companion to be destroyed and destroyed

7:41 In general, women

7:42 They fluctuate between good and evil

7:45 They do not remain in one condition

7:49 A man should

7:51 Control his emotions and emotions

7:54 With the wisdom of his mind

7:55 In any dispute that breaks out with his wife

7:59 On the authority of Omar bin Al-Ahwas Al-Jashmi, may God be pleased with him

8:05 He heard the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

8:09 In his farewell pilgrimage he says:

8:11 After thanking God Almighty

8:14 He praised him, mentioned and preached

8:17 Then he said

8:18 Beware of women

8:22 They are your helpers

8:25 You have nothing else from them

8:29 Unless they commit a clear indecency

8:33 If they do

8:35 They abandoned them in their beds

8:37 And beat them not badly

8:41 If they obey you, do not seek a way against them

8:45 Indeed, you have a right over your women

8:49 And your women have a right over you

8:52 So you have the right over them

8:54 Don't those you hate put on your beds?

8:58 He does not allow anyone you hate into your homes

9:02 Indeed, their right is upon you

9:05 Be good to them

9:07 In their clothing and food

9:10 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi

9:12 His saying, may God bless him and grant him peace

9:15 Awan

9:16 That is, female captives

9:18 Aniya plural

9:20 She is a captive

9:22 And the suffering

9:23 The prisoner

9:24 He resembled the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

9:27 The woman comes under the rule of the husband

9:31 With the prisoner

9:34 And severe beatings

9:36 It is very hard

9:38 And his saying, may God bless him and grant him peace

9:41 Do not seek a way against them

9:44 That is, do not ask for a way

9:46 You invoke it against them

9:48 And you harm them with it

9:50 And God knows best

9:52 You have nothing else from them

9:57 That is, not having fun

9:59 The husband protected herself, his money, and his child

10:03 And carry out his affairs and service

10:06 With clear obscenity

10:08 Any major matter of bad behavior is apparent and clear

10:13 Beds

10:15 That is, bedding

10:17 One of the benefits of talking

10:21 From the Sunnah in the sermon

10:23 To begin by praising and praising God for what He deserves

10:28 If the woman shows disobedience

10:32 The man should discipline her within the following stages

10:36 Firstly

10:38 Punishment, reminders, intimidation, and enticement

10:42 Secondly

10:44 Abandonment in bed

10:46 Third

10:48 Unexplained beating

10:50 Men have rights

10:52 A wife has rights

10:54 A woman should not allow anyone

10:58 By entering her husband's house

11:00 Except with His permission

11:02 Women are not allowed to act

11:04 In a man's money and property

11:06 Except with His permission

11:09 A man should spend on his wife

11:12 And honor her as much as possible

11:15 On the authority of Muawiyah bin Haidah, may God be pleased with him, he said

11:22 I said, O Messenger of God

11:24 What right does one of our wife have over him?

11:27 He said

11:29 To feed her if she is fed

11:31 And you cover it when it is covered

11:34 Do not hit the face or be obscene

11:37 Do not migrate except at home

11:40 Narrated by Abu Dawood

11:43 And he said

11:44 With us, don't be ugly

11:46 That is, do not say that God is ugly to you

11:49 One of the benefits of talking

11:52 It is forbidden to hit the face for the sake of dignity

11:55 It is not permissible to shame the wife

11:59 In the blood of creation

12:01 Because all of God's creation is good

12:03 A man should know his wife's rights

12:07 To lead him to her

12:09 Abandonment while staying overnight

12:11 A way to lead women

12:13 The abandonment of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, has been proven

12:17 For his wives in Mashraba

12:19 outside the house

12:21 The wife's right to be fed and clothed

12:25 And spending on it

12:27 It is forbidden to prevent her from doing anything

12:30 Or he gives it to the girl he despises

12:34 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said

12:39 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

12:43 Complete the believers in faith

12:46 The best of them

12:48 Your choice is your choice for their wives

12:52 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi

12:54 One of the benefits of talking

12:58 Sunnis are the followers of the righteous predecessors based on their belief in faith

13:04 And it is word and deed

13:06 It increases with obedience and decreases with disobedience

13:10 The hadith indicates that faith has origin and perfection

13:15 Who has no good for his family

13:19 There is no good in it for people

13:22 It indicates that the closest relatives are more deserving of good deeds

13:27 Encouragement to treat one's wife with courtesy and refrain from harming her

13:33 Be kind to her and be patient with her

13:37 Good character is one of the characteristics of perfect believers

13:42 And the righteous are sincere

13:45 On the authority of Iyas bin Abdullah bin Abi Dhubab, may God be pleased with him, he said

13:51 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

13:55 Do not hit God's servants

13:58 Then Omar, may God be pleased with him, came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

14:04 And he said

14:05 We slandered women against their husbands

14:09 So he took the liberty of hitting him

14:11 So many women went around the family of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

14:17 They complain about their wives

14:19 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

14:23 Many women traveled around the family of Muhammad

14:28 They complain about their wives

14:30 These are not your choice

14:33 Narrated by Abu Dawood

14:36 His saying is a warning

14:38 That is, dare

14:40 He said, “Attaf.”

14:42 That is, surrounded

14:43 One of the benefits of talking

14:48 Beating is a means of disciplining a disobedient woman

14:52 It is permissible in general

14:54 But it is required

14:56 To be unobtrusive

14:58 And to avoid the face

15:00 And he does not look ugly

15:02 And it should be after being bitten and abandoned

15:05 It should be discipline, not harm

15:08 The man is a shepherd in his house

15:12 He should walk with his family happily

15:16 He disciplines them and raises them

15:18 With wisdom and good advice

15:22 It is permissible to review a scholar in a fatwa

15:25 To know its consequences and outcome

15:29 It is permissible to complain to the prince or scholar

15:32 If the complainant is harmed by someone else

15:35 Because of a fatwa

15:37 Or injustice was committed against him by others

15:40 There is one of the secrets in the hadith

15:42 He had many wives, may God bless him and grant him peace

15:46 It is the legislative aspect

15:48 Where his wives were mediators between him

15:51 And among Muslim women

15:53 In the question and answer

15:55 On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both

16:02 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

16:06 The world is a pleasure

16:09 The best enjoyment for her is a righteous woman

16:12 Narrated by Muslim

16:15 Enjoyment

16:17 Anything he enjoys from time to time

16:21 Then it goes away

16:23 One of the benefits of talking

16:26 It is permissible to enjoy the good things of this world that God has made lawful for His servants

16:32 Without extravagance or imagination

16:34 Encouragement to choose a good woman

16:39 Because it is one of the pillars of happiness

16:42 It helps the husband to obey his Lord

16:46 The greatest pleasure in the world is obedience to God

16:50 Or help her

16:52 Because every enjoyment is fleeting

16:55 Except what was in obedience

16:57 It is for survival and permanence

17:00 When a crime is not lost, a good deed is done

17:05 Riyadh Al-Salehin

رياض الصالحين | الحلقة (45) | باب الوصية بالنساء

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