رياض الصالحين | الحلقة (50) | باب بر الوالدين وصلة الأرحام (2)

0:00 Riyadh al-Salehin from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace

0:09 Chapter on honoring one’s parents and maintaining family ties

0:18 On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both

0:22 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said

0:26 The connector is not equivalent

0:29 But the one who connects them, if his ties of kinship are severed, he connects them

0:34 Narrated by Al-Bukhari

0:38 The one who is connected to his family and relatives

0:43 The rewarder who rewards them for their connection and kindness

0:49 One of the benefits of talking

0:53 A Muslim must begin maintaining ties with his relatives and continue doing so

0:58 Even if he did not return his deed with kindness

1:02 The necessity of deeds being sincere to God

1:05 Even if no immediate good comes from it in this world

1:09 It is a permanent good in the afterlife

1:12 Insulting a Muslim does not make him cut off good deeds from the offended person

1:18 A kinship relationship considered by Islamic law

1:22 It is to reach out to those who cut you off and forgive those who wronged you

1:27 And you give to those who deprive you

1:29 There is no connection between the interview and the metaphor

1:32 If this happened to relatives without intention or anticipation

1:37 That is the grace of God, which He gives to whomever He wishes

1:41 God is of great bounty

1:44 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said

1:49 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

1:53 The womb is hanging on the throne, she says

1:57 Whoever reaches me, may God reach him

2:00 And whoever cuts me off, God will cut him off

2:03 Agreed

2:05 On the authority of the Mother of the Believers, Maymunah bint Al-Harith, may God be pleased with her

2:12 She freed a child

2:14 She did not ask permission from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

2:19 When it was her day that came to her

2:23 She said: “I feel, O Messenger of God.”

2:27 I freed my daughter

2:30 He said or did you do?

2:33 She said yes

2:35 He said: If you had given her your maternal uncles, your reward would have been greater

2:42 Agreed

2:44 I was notified, i.e. informed

2:49 The offspring of his mother

2:52 One of the benefits of talking

2:55 It is permissible for the wife to dispose of her money

3:00 The man visits his family during their day

3:03 He hears what concerns them in what has been allocated to them

3:07 One of the means of strengthening marital bonds

3:11 For a woman to tell her husband what she did

3:14 Or whatever you want to do

3:17 Charity to relatives is better and greater

3:22 Because it is charity and connection

3:24 A Muslim should be guided by the opinions of scholars and scholars

3:30 To put things in their place

3:33 Or achieve more good

3:36 On the authority of Asmaa bint Abu Bakr Al-Siddiq, may God be pleased with them, she said

3:43 My mother came to me and she is a polytheist

3:46 During the era of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

3:50 So I asked the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

3:55 I said my mother came to me and she was willing

3:59 Should I pray for my mother? He said: Yes, pray for your mother. Agreed upon

4:07 And she said, “Raghiba” means someone who is greedy of me and asks me something

4:13 It was said that her mother was from lineage, and it was said from breastfeeding, and the first is correct

4:22 During the era of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

4:27 That is, his treaty with the polytheists of Quraish in Hudaybiyyah

4:32 One of the benefits of talking

4:36 It is permissible to honor polytheist parents

4:39 As long as they are not combatants

4:42 It is necessary to ask the people of remembrance

4:44 If the questioner is not knowledgeable

4:47 Therefore, Asmaa investigated her religion

4:51 It indicates that knowledge comes before words and actions

4:58 It is permissible to bid farewell to the people of war

5:00 And their treatment during the truce

5:04 And about Zainab cultural

5:08 The wife of Abdullah bin Masoud, may God be pleased with him and her

5:12 She said: The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

5:17 Believe me, O women

5:20 Even if you are beautiful

5:23 She said, “So I went back to Abdullah bin Masoud and told him.”

5:28 You are a light-handed man

5:31 And the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

5:35 We have been commanded to give charity

5:37 So go to him and ask him

5:39 If that is enough for me

5:42 Otherwise, I will spend it on others

5:45 Abdullah said

5:47 Rather, bring it yourself

5:49 So I set off

5:51 Then a woman from the Ansar was at the door of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

5:57 My need is her need

5:59 He was the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

6:03 Awe was cast upon him

6:06 So Bilal came out to us

6:08 So we told him

6:10 Come to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

6:14 So tell him that two women are at the door asking you

6:18 Is it sufficient to give charity on their behalf to their spouses?

6:22 And orphans in their laps

6:25 Don't tell him who we are

6:28 So Bilal entered upon the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

6:33 So he asked him

6:35 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to him

6:39 Of them

6:41 He said

6:42 An Ansar woman and Zainab

6:45 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

6:49 What a beauty he has

6:51 He said

6:53 Abdullah's woman

6:55 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

6:59 They have two wages

7:01 The reward of kinship and the reward of charity

7:04 Agreed

7:07 Light hand

7:10 That is, little money

7:12 Prestige

7:15 That is, prestige and reverence

7:18 In their laps

7:20 That is, in their jurisdiction

7:23 One of the benefits of talking

7:25 Permissibility of giving charity

7:28 Even if it was the obligatory zakat

7:31 To the husband and children

7:33 Those whose expenses are not obligatory for the zakat payer

7:37 Like a wife

7:38 It is permissible for a woman to leave her home for her needs

7:42 And asking about her religion

7:45 Seeking knowledge is obligatory for Muslims, male and female

7:50 It is necessary to ask people of knowledge and dhikr

7:53 If the questioner is not knowledgeable

7:56 It is permissible for a woman to take wealth rather than a man

8:01 Even if he was poor and needy

8:04 Charity to relatives has two rewards

8:08 Charity and connection

8:10 It is permissible to ask the mufti

8:13 The questioner asking about his name

8:16 And get to know his person

8:19 Who is ashamed when asked

8:21 He can tell someone else what he wants

8:25 To bring it to the world

8:27 Then he takes the answer from him

8:30 On the authority of Abu Sufyan

8:34 Sakhr bin Harb, may God be pleased with him

8:37 In his long speech in his story Raql

8:40 Raqla said to Abu Sufyan

8:44 What does he command you to do?

8:46 It means the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

8:49 He said, I said, he says

8:52 Worship God alone

8:54 And do not associate anything with Him

8:57 And abandon what your fathers say

9:00 He commands us to pray and be honest

9:03 Chastity and connection

9:06 Agreed

9:08 On the authority of Abu Dharr, may God be pleased with him, he said

9:11 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

9:15 You will conquer a land in which the Qirat will be mentioned

9:20 And in a novel

9:22 You will conquer Egypt

9:24 It is a land in which it is called karat

9:28 So treat its people well

9:31 For they have protection and mercy

9:34 And in a novel

9:36 If you conquer it, do good to its people

9:40 For they have protection and mercy

9:44 Or he said

9:46 Dhimma and son-in-law

9:48 Narrated by Muslim

9:50 Scientists said

9:52 The womb that is theirs

9:54 The fact that Hagar, the mother of Ishmael, may God bless him and grant him peace, was one of them

9:59 And the son-in-law

10:01 That Maria was the mother of Ibrahim, son of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was one of them

10:07 Carat

10:10 He's half-dang

10:12 The Danaq is one-sixth of the dirham

10:15 Dhimma means right and sanctity

10:18 In-laws

10:20 That is, the woman's household

10:22 One of the benefits of talking

10:26 The miracle of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

10:29 By telling him that his nation will conquer Egypt

10:33 The imam should advise the army to fear God

10:38 And no corruption on earth

10:41 This is how the Rightly Guided Caliphs were after the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

10:48 Islam came to the worlds as a mercy

10:51 To worship God alone

10:53 He is the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

10:57 The Muslim army wishes the people of Egypt good deeds

11:01 It is desirable to be kind to those close to one another, relatives, and in-laws

11:07 Even if they were polytheists

11:09 Unless he fights God and His Messenger

11:12 The concept of kinship is broader than close kinship

11:17 What is meant by the womb

11:19 Hagar, mother of Ismail, peace and blessings be upon him

11:23 The entry of kinship on the mother’s side into the concept of the womb

11:28 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said

11:33 When this verse was revealed

11:36 And warn your closest clan

11:40 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, called the Quraysh

11:45 So they gathered, and he spoke in general and in private

11:48 And he said

11:49 O sons of Abd Shams

11:51 O Banu Kaab bin Luay

11:54 Save yourselves from the fire

11:57 O son of Murrah bin Ka'b

12:00 Save yourselves from the fire

12:04 O sons of Abd Manaf

12:06 Save yourselves from the fire

12:10 Oh Bani Hashem

12:12 Save yourselves from the fire

12:15 O sons of Abdul Muttalib

12:18 Save yourselves from the fire

12:21 Oh Fatima

12:23 Save yourself from fire

12:26 For I do not possess anything for you from God

12:30 However, you have a uterus that I will wet with its wetness

12:35 Narrated by Muslim

12:37 His saying, may God bless him and grant him peace

12:40 With her wetness

12:42 Bilal is water

12:44 And the meaning of the hadith

12:46 I will get it

12:48 He likened its cutting to heat that is extinguished by water

12:52 This is cooled by connection

12:56 One of the benefits of talking

12:58 Reward in the afterlife will be for faith and good deeds

13:03 Kinship and lineage are of no use

13:06 The necessity of maintaining family ties and taking care of them

13:10 And try to reform them and direct them to goodness

13:15 Breaking family ties is a fire that fuels envy, hatred, and hatred in this world

13:21 And a painful torment in the afterlife

13:24 It should be wet

13:27 He is her connection

13:29 That extinguishes longing and removes adversity

13:33 The first thing that is required of the caller to God

13:37 Warning his family and then his clan

13:40 Because they are more deserving of goodness than others

13:43 Then those who follow them

13:45 So that goodness may spread to all people

13:49 A statement that the man’s clan are the people of his country and his people

13:55 Whoever wanted to warn their uncle's people

13:58 Then he singled them out by their names

14:01 Mentioning the name resonates with the soul

14:04 The one who calls to God should

14:07 To show people the intensity of his love for them and his concern for them

14:12 And his fear for their fate

14:15 On the authority of Abu Abdullah Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both, he said

14:22 I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying publicly, not secretly

14:29 The family of Banu So-and-so are not my friends

14:33 He is the guardian of God and the righteous of the believers

14:37 But they have a womb that is wet with its wetness

14:42 Agreed

14:44 The pronunciation is by Bukhari

14:46 My guardian, that is, my supporter, whom I take charge of in all matters

14:54 One of the benefits of talking

14:58 There is no guardianship between a Muslim and an infidel

15:01 Even if it is permissible to have a polytheist kinship other than a warrior

15:06 The brotherhood of religion and the bond of Islam are greater than ties of blood, lineage, and interest

15:14 Muslims are friends of each other

15:18 The womb that one is commanded to maintain and one that is threatened to be cut off

15:24 She is the one for whom God has decreed this

15:27 As for those whom God commanded to cut it off for the sake of religion

15:31 So you are excluded from that

15:33 It does not apply to the one who breaks the threat

15:37 On the authority of Abu Ayyub

15:40 Khaled bin Zaidin Al-Ansari, may God be pleased with him

15:44 A man said, O Messenger of God

15:47 Tell me something that will take me into Paradise and keep me away from Hell

15:53 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

15:56 Worship God and do not associate anything with Him

16:00 And perform prayer

16:02 And you pay zakat

16:04 And reach the womb

16:06 Agreed

16:08 One of the benefits of talking

16:12 Monotheism, establishing prayer, and paying zakat

16:16 Link of the womb

16:18 One of the reasons for entering Paradise and staying away from Hell

16:23 Knowledge of goodness is achieved by learning

16:28 Knowledge can only be obtained by seeking it

16:32 The first question

16:34 On the authority of Salman bin Amer, may God be pleased with him

16:40 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said

16:44 If one of you breaks his fast

16:46 Let him break his fast with dates

16:48 It is a blessing

16:50 If he does not find dates

16:52 Water

16:54 It is purification

16:56 And he said

16:57 Charity given to the poor is charity

17:00 And two of the relatives

17:03 Charity and connection

17:05 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi

17:07 One of the benefits of talking

17:10 It is desirable to break the fast with dates

17:14 Whoever does not find it must water

17:17 This was confirmed by his actions, may God bless him and grant him peace

17:21 Charity and kindness to relatives are doubled

17:26 Because there is charity and connection in it

17:29 On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both, he said:

17:34 She was under a woman

17:36 And I loved her

17:38 Omar hated her

17:40 He said to me

17:42 He divorced her

17:44 So I refused

17:45 Then Omar, may God be pleased with him, came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

17:50 So mention that to him

17:52 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

17:56 He divorced her

17:58 Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi

18:02 One of the benefits of talking

18:04 The obligation to obey the father in matters imposed on him by Islam

18:11 It is permissible to hate a Muslim man or woman

18:14 Because there are some bad qualities in it

18:17 Provided that this hatred does not exceed this characteristic

18:21 The obligation to obey the father

18:25 If he orders something, the religion approves of it

18:28 Ibn Omar loved his wife with an innate love

18:32 Omar hated her

18:35 Religious hatred

18:37 So he ordered him to divorce her

18:40 The Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, approved of that

18:44 He ordered Ibn Omar to obey his father in divorcing her

18:48 Even if Omar was unjust to her

18:51 When the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, agreed with him on that

18:56 On the authority of Abu Darda, may God be pleased with him

19:01 A man came to him and said:

19:04 I have a wife and my mother is ordering me to divorce her

19:09 And he said

19:10 I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, say

19:15 The father is the middle of the gates of Paradise

19:18 If you want, delete that section or memorize it

19:23 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi

19:26 The middle gates of heaven

19:29 That is, the best of its doors

19:32 One of the benefits of talking

19:34 Honoring parents is a reason for entering Paradise and opening its doors

19:40 Pleasing the parents takes precedence over pleasing the wife

19:45 Someone who loves something

19:48 His parents, or one of them, asked him to leave it

19:52 So he felt sad for him

19:54 The first thing he does

19:56 Consulting knowledgeable people

19:59 On the authority of Al-Baraa bin Azib, may God be pleased with them both

20:04 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said

20:08 An aunt is like a mother

20:11 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi

20:13 One of the benefits of talking

20:17 An aunt is like a mother

20:19 In sympathy with her sister's children

20:22 She is also in their custody

20:25 It is obligatory to be kind to the aunt and be kind to her

20:29 Just as a servant treats his mother kindly

20:32 The aunt in the nursery takes precedence over the paternal aunt

20:37 This conversation is specific to nursery

20:40 There is no evidence for it for those who claim that the maternal aunt inherits

20:44 Because the nation inherits

20:47 Riyadh Al-Salehin

رياض الصالحين | الحلقة (50) | باب بر الوالدين وصلة الأرحام (2)

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