رياض الصالحين | الحلقة (49) | باب بر الوالدين وصلة الأرحام (1)

0:00 Riyadh al-Salehin from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace

0:09 Chapter on honoring one’s parents and maintaining family ties

0:18 God Almighty said

0:20 And worship God and do not associate anything with Him

0:24 And be kind to parents, and to relatives, orphans, and the needy

0:30 And the neighbor who is near, and the neighbor who is on the side, and the companion by side, and the wayfarer, and what your right hands possess

0:39 And the Almighty said

0:41 And fear God, by whom you ask, and the wombs

0:46 And the Almighty said

0:48 Those who pray what God has commanded to convey the sign

0:54 And the Almighty said

0:56 And We have enjoined upon man to be good to his parents

1:00 And the Almighty said

1:02 Your Lord has decreed that you should not worship anyone but Him and that you be kind to your parents

1:09 Either one or both of them will reach adulthood by you

1:15 Do not say sorry to them or rebuke them

1:20 And speak to them kindly

1:23 And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy

1:27 And say, “My Lord, have mercy on them as they raised me when I was little.”

1:32 And the Almighty said

1:34 And We have enjoined upon man to be responsible for his parents. His mother bore him in weakness upon weakness

1:41 And weaned him off in two years

1:44 To thank me and your parents

1:47 On the authority of Abu Abdul Rahman Abdullah bin Masoud, may God be pleased with him, he said

1:55 I asked the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

1:59 That is, the work most beloved to God Almighty

2:03 He said praying on time

2:07 I said then any

2:09 He said honoring parents

2:12 I said then any

2:14 He said: Jihad for the sake of God

2:18 Agreed

2:20 One of the benefits of talking

2:24 The best rights of God Almighty that are obligatory after monotheism

2:28 Prayer

2:31 Hastening to pray at the beginning of its time is better than being lazy

2:36 Because it is a condition for it to be the most beloved deeds to God

2:41 To be of its time

2:43 That's the first

2:45 The best rights of servants

2:48 Parental right

2:50 It follows the truth of God, as mentioned in the verses now, so remember

2:55 Jihad for the sake of God is the best kind of sacrifice

3:00 Acts of righteousness prefer one another

3:05 And it's just not ranked

3:09 It is permissible to ask about various issues at the same time

3:14 Kindness to the world

3:16 And stop overdoing it

3:18 Fear of boredom

3:22 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said

3:26 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

3:30 A child is not sufficient for his father

3:32 However, he finds him possessed

3:35 So he buys him and frees him

3:38 Narrated by Muslim

3:41 Any reward is rewarded

3:45 One of the benefits of talking

3:47 The right of parents is great in Islam

3:50 It is not permissible for a child to enslave one or both of his parents

3:56 If that happens

3:58 It is one of the signs of the Hour and signs of changing times

4:03 As mentioned in the hadith of Gabriel

4:06 The father is emancipated once the child buys him

4:11 Purchase is a reason for emancipation

4:14 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him

4:19 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

4:23 Whoever believes in God and the Last Day

4:27 Let him honor his guest

4:29 And whoever believes in God and the Last Day

4:33 May he have mercy

4:35 And whoever believes in God and the Last Day

4:39 Let him say good things or keep silent

4:42 Agreed

4:44 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said

4:48 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

4:52 God Almighty created creation

4:55 Until he finished with them, the womb stood up and said

5:00 This is the place of one who seeks refuge in You from the flock

5:04 He said yes

5:07 Would you not like me to follow the one you received?

5:10 And I will cut off your pieces

5:12 She said yes

5:14 He said that's yours

5:17 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

5:22 Read if you want

5:24 Would it be possible for you, if you were to take charge, to spread corruption on earth and sever your ties of kinship?

5:32 Those whom God has cursed, deafened them and blinded their sight

5:39 Agreed

5:42 And in a narration by Al-Bukhari

5:44 And God Almighty said

5:47 Whoever connects with you, you will connect with him, and whoever separates you, you will cut him off

5:53 He finished them, meaning He completed their creation

5:57 The one who seeks refuge in you and seeks help from you

6:04 One of the benefits of talking

6:06 Everything other than God Almighty is created

6:10 An object having not been

6:14 Emphasizing the prohibition of severing family ties and turning away from them

6:20 We seek refuge in God alone, without any partner

6:25 Family ties are a reason for God’s mercy to His servants

6:29 It is a reason for the emergence of goodness among people

6:34 The severing of the uterus is a reason for abandoning the male

6:39 It causes corruption and corruption

6:43 The best way to explain the Qur’an

6:46 The words of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

6:50 The best thing to cite to explain the meaning of the hadith

6:54 The word of God Almighty

6:58 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said

7:02 A man came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and said

7:07 O Messenger of God, who is the most deserving of my good companions?

7:13 Your mother said

7:15 Then who said?

7:18 Your mother said

7:20 Then who said?

7:22 Your mother said

7:23 Then who said?

7:25 Your father said

7:27 Agreed

7:29 And in a novel

7:31 O Messenger of God, who is more deserving of good company?

7:36 Your mother said

7:37 Then your mother

7:39 Then your mother

7:40 Then your father

7:42 Then below you below you

7:45 Companions mean companionship

7:48 And he said, “Then your father.”

7:50 Thus, it is in the accusative case

7:53 That is, then honor your father

7:56 And in a novel

7:57 Then your father

7:59 This is clear

8:02 Below you below

8:04 That is, the closest, the closest

8:08 One of the benefits of talking

8:10 A will given to the mother due to her weakness and need

8:15 Remembering those who are close to each other is not of the same degree

8:20 Arranging rights and putting them in their proper places

8:23 It is origin and justice

8:26 If the man is obligated to support the mother and father

8:30 He only found money for one of them

8:33 Mother provided

8:37 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, on the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

8:41 He said

8:43 Despite the nose

8:44 Then despite the nose

8:46 Then despite the nose

8:47 Who realizes his parents when he grows up

8:50 Either or both

8:53 He did not enter heaven

8:56 Narrated by Muslim

8:59 Despite

9:00 That is, sticking to the dirt is our humiliation

9:05 One of the benefits of talking

9:07 Honoring parents and being kind to them

9:10 Obligatory in all cases

9:12 In their youth and adults

9:16 Parents when they grow old

9:18 They need more righteousness

9:22 Because of their weakness and physical deficiency

9:26 A Muslim should be considerate of the weak and the elderly

9:31 He is kind to them and has mercy on them

9:34 Disobedience to parents leads to hellfire and expulsion from God’s mercy

9:39 And their righteousness is a paved path to heaven

9:45 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him

9:48 A man said, O Messenger of God

9:51 I have a relative, and they cut me off

9:55 I do good to them and they do evil to me

9:59 I dream about them and they ignore me

10:02 And he said

10:04 Because you are as you said

10:06 It is as if boredom has made them miserable

10:10 And you will still have a supporter from God over them as long as you continue to do so

10:16 Narrated by Muslim

10:18 And you will understand the boredom

10:20 That is, as if you were feeding them hot ashes

10:24 It is an analogy to the sin that befalls them

10:27 The pain that inflicts on the eater of hot ashes

10:32 There is nothing wrong with this benefactor

10:35 But a great sin befalls them by their negligence in his duty

10:40 And they caused harm to him

10:42 And God knows best

10:45 One of the benefits of talking

10:48 The origin of dealings between relatives

10:51 Charity and communication

10:53 Be patient and ask for excuses

10:56 It is not an interview

10:59 But the harm must be endured in order to reach it

11:04 Matching abuse with kindness

11:07 The expectation that the offender will return to the truth

11:10 As God Almighty said

11:13 Pay with what is best

11:16 So, the one between you and whom there is enmity is as if he were a close friend

11:23 What you punished those who disobeyed God regarding you

11:26 Such as obeying God in it

11:29 Complying with God’s command is the reason for God’s help to the believing servant

11:35 Breaking ties of kinship is pain and torment in this world

11:39 And sin and severity of reckoning in the afterlife

11:44 A Muslim should be rewarded for his good deeds

11:48 People's harm does not stop him from his good habits

11:53 We remember in this regard

11:56 The Lord of the Worlds reproaches Abu Bakr, may God be pleased with him

12:00 When he decided to cut off Mustaq Ibn Uthatha

12:04 Who harmed him in his honor in the Al-Ifk incident

12:08 And God Almighty said

12:11 And let not the first of your bounty and abundance be neglected

12:14 To give to relatives, the needy, and those who migrate for the sake of God

12:20 Let them pardon and pardon

12:23 Wouldn't you like God to forgive you?

12:27 God is Forgiving and Merciful

12:32 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him

12:34 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

12:39 Whoever loves to have his livelihood simplified

12:42 And he will follow him in his tracks

12:45 May his soul rest in peace

12:47 Agreed

12:50 And a meaning that comes into its own

12:53 To delay his term and his life

12:57 One of the benefits of talking

13:00 Connecting relatives is a reason for the expansion and breadth of livelihood

13:04 And blessings in life

13:07 What is meant by extending sustenance in the hadith

13:10 It is an increase in the amount of his written livelihood

13:14 Or to increase the blessing in it

13:17 The same applies to increasing lifespan

13:20 Either the real increase

13:23 Or attaining blessing at this age

13:28 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said:

13:32 Abu Talha was the most wealthy of the Ansar in Medina in terms of palm trees

13:37 The most beloved of his wealth was Barah

13:41 She was the recipient of the mosque

13:44 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to enter it

13:49 He drinks water that contains good things

13:52 When this verse was revealed

13:55 You will not attain righteousness until you spend from what you love

14:01 Abu Talha went to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

14:06 And he said

14:07 O Messenger of God

14:09 God Almighty says:

14:13 You will not attain righteousness until you spend from what you love

14:18 And if he loves my money, he will go

14:22 It is a charity for God Almighty

14:26 I hope that she will be righteous and treasured by God Almighty

14:30 So, O Messenger of God, place it where God shows you

14:35 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

14:39 That's profitable money

14:43 And I heard what you said

14:45 I think you should make it among the closest ones

14:49 Abu Talha said

14:51 I will do so, O Messenger of God

14:54 So Abu Talha divided it among his relatives and cousins

14:59 Agreed

15:01 On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both, he said

15:06 A man came to the Prophet of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

15:11 He said, “I pledge allegiance to you on immigration and jihad.”

15:16 I seek reward from God Almighty

15:19 He said: Do you have any of your parents alive?

15:24 He said yes, but both

15:28 He said, "So you seek reward from God Almighty."

15:33 He said yes

15:35 He said, “Go back to your parents and keep them company.”

15:39 Agreed

15:41 This is a Muslim word

15:43 And in their narration

15:45 A man came and asked him for permission to engage in jihad

15:49 He said: May your parents live

15:53 He said yes

15:55 He said: In both of them, he struggled

15:59 One of the benefits of talking

16:01 A Muslim seeks what comes and leaves

16:07 The reward is from God

16:09 Honoring parents is one of the most obligatory duties

16:13 If a Muslim can maintain his religion and piety while honoring his parents

16:20 This is good

16:22 And whoever cannot do anything except by fleeing with his religion

16:26 He presented his religion

16:28 As the first predecessors were made of immigrants

16:32 Providing honor to one’s parents over the obligations of sufficiency and volunteering

16:38 He said: In both of them, he struggled

16:42 What is intended is to convey the shared amount of the cost of jihad

16:47 It is exhausting the body and spending money on them

16:51 Everything that is difficult for the soul is called jihad

16:55 The advisor is appointed

16:57 He should give careful advice

17:02 The taxpayer may choose the best energy work

17:09 To work with it

17:11 Riyadh Al-Salehin

رياض الصالحين | الحلقة (49) | باب بر الوالدين وصلة الأرحام (1)

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