Part of رياض الصالحين (اكتملت السلسلة)
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رياض الصالحين | الحلقة (109) | باب الاستئذان وآدابه
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Riyad Al-Saleh from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Chapter on seeking permission and its etiquette
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God Almighty said
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O you who have believed, do not enter houses other than your own until you have socialized yourself and greeted its people
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And the Almighty said
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And when your children reach puberty, let them ask for permission just as those before them asked for permission
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On the authority of Abu Musa Al-Ashari, may God be pleased with him, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Ask for permission three times: If he gives you permission, otherwise return
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Agreed
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One of the benefits of talking
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It is Sunnah to ask permission three times until the man has no excuse for not standing in front of the house
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If the owner of the house hears the call for permission, he may give permission whether he says the salutation once, twice, or three times
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It is not permissible for a man to enter the house except with the permission of its owner
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Returning from the door is not a disgrace to the owner of the house, nor is it a disgrace to the one who returns
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Rather, it is an application of the Book of God and the Sunnah of His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
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On the authority of Sahl bin Saad, may God be pleased with him, he said:
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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He only requested permission for the sake of sight
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Agreed
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One of the benefits of talking
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Explaining the reason why it is permissible to ask for permission, which is for consideration
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Asking for permission prevents someone from seeing what he hates inside his house
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It indicates the legitimacy of measurement and reasons
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His saying, may God bless him and grant him peace, is about sight
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It indicates that prohibition and analysis relate to things
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Whenever it is found in something, it must be judged
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Murr does not need permission to enter his house
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To lose the reason for which permission was prescribed
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If it is possible that what he needs will be renewed with him, it is permissible for him
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It is prescribed for everyone to ask for permission, even mahrams
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Because her private parts are not exposed
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On the authority of Rab’i bin Harash, he said:
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A man from Bani Amir told us that he asked permission to come to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He is in a house
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And he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to his servant
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Go out to this and teach him to ask for permission
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So tell him
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Say peace be upon you
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Enter
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So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, gave him permission
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So he entered
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Narrated by Abu Dawood
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One of the benefits of talking
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Evidence that permission to enter is not delivered
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Mere surrender is not permission to enter
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Teaching people how to ask permission and greet people
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Aspects
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How to ask permission and greet people
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It is permissible to take knowledge from someone you know has the truth
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It is permissible to communicate knowledge through intermediary
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If it can be delivered as is
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Without distortion or alteration
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On the authority of Kalada bin Al-Hanbal, may God be pleased with him, he said
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I came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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So I entered upon him and did not greet him
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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Come back and say peace be upon you
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Enter
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Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi
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One of the benefits of talking
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Internal delivery is required
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Peace be upon you before speaking
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Whoever enters before he greets
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He does not speak until he greets
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Permissibility of return inside
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To learn how to ask permission
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If it does not result
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Greater harm than that
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Kurdah and the like
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Chapter on explaining that the Sunnah
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If the person seeking permission is asked, “Who are you?”
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That so-and-so says
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He calls himself what he is known for
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From a name or nickname
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It is disliked to say “I” and the like
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On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him
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In his famous hadith about the Night Journey
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He said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Then Gabriel brought me up
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To the lowest heaven and ask for it to be opened
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It was said about this
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Gabriel said
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It was said: Who is with you?
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Muhammad said
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Then he ascended to the second heaven
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The third and fourth
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And all the others
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It is said in the chapter on every sky
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Who is this?
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Gabriel says:
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Agreed
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One of the benefits of talking
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Evidence of the ascension of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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From Jerusalem in the land of Palestine
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To the sky
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The first heaven is called the lowest heaven
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This is due to its proximity to the people
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For others
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Evidence of permission
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And this also exists for the people of heaven
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And he does not enter heaven
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Except for whom God permits
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By entering it
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Evidence that the authorized person shows his name
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So that the family can recognize him
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On the authority of Abu Dharr, may God be pleased with him, he said
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I went out one night
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So, the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He walks alone
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So I started walking in the shadow of the moon
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He turned and saw me
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He said who is this?
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I said: Abu Dharr
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Agreed
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One of the benefits of talking
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Permissibility to walk alone at night
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If a man fears for my brother
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He may monitor him
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And to be close to him
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Maybe he needs it
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It is desirable to introduce the questioner by name
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On the authority of Umm Hani, may God be pleased with her, she said:
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I came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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He is taking a shower
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And Fatima covers it
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He said who is this?
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So I said, “I am Umm Hani.”
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Agreed
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On the authority of Jabir, may God be pleased with him, he said:
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I came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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So I checked the door
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He said who is that?
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So I said, “I am.”
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He said, “I am.”
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As if he hated her
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Agreed
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One of the benefits of talking
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The first request for permission was to knock and knock on the door
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It is permissible to show boredom
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Whose name is not known
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When you knock on the door and ask for permission
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Chapter on the desirability of sneezing
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If God Almighty is praised
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It is disliked to insult him if he does not praise God Almighty
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Explaining the etiquette of gloating, sneezing, and yawning
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On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him
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That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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God loves sneezing
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He hates yawning
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If one of you sneezes
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And praise be to God Almighty
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It was true for every Muslim who heard it
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To tell him
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May God have mercy on you
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As for yawning
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It is from Satan
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If one of you yawns
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Let him return it as much as he can
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If one of you yawns
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Satan laughed at him
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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One of the benefits of talking
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God Almighty loves sneezing and hates yawning
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It is desirable for the sneezer to take the initiative to gloat
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A sneezer does not gloat
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Unless he praises God Almighty
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Giving praise is only permissible for the one who hears the sneezer and hears his praise
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If he heard someone gloating at someone else
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Neither his sneezing nor his praise was heard
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Don't gloat over it
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Everyone who heard him had to gloat over him
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Satan controls human beings through yawning
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This is so that they may be inactive in their worship and not active
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Every yawn of the devil
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It is necessary for those who solve it
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To suppress it as much as possible
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Explaining that Satan laughs at those who possess him
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On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him
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On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said
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If one of you sneezes, let him say, “Praise be to God.”
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Let his brother or friend tell him
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May God have mercy on you
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If he says to him, may God have mercy on you
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Let him say, “May God guide you and set your mind at ease.”
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Narrated by Al-Bukhari
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One of the benefits of talking
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Teaching the nation how to worship during Al-Attas
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And how to respond when adhering to the guidance of prophecy
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Evidence of the great blessing of God Almighty upon the sneezer
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This is taken from the good that has been brought about by him
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An indication of the great favor of God Almighty upon His servant
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The harm was removed from him by the grace of sneezing
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An explanation of the grace of God Almighty upon the servant
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As He prescribed for Him the praise that will be rewarded
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Praying for goodness for those who started you with a good prayer
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On the authority of Abu Musa, may God be pleased with him, he said:
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I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, say
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If one of you sneezes, thank God and smell him
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If he does not praise God, do not gloat over him
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Narrated by Muslim
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On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said:
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Two men sneezed in front of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
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One of them gloated, but the other did not
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He said that he did not smell it
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So-and-so sneezed and I gloated at him
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I sneezed and she did not smell me
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He said: This is praise be to God
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And you did not thank God
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Agreed
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One of the benefits of talking
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It is permissible to ask an inquiry about the reason for a matter
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His truth is hidden from the questioner
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On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
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Whenever the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sneezed
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He put his hand or his garment on his mouth
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And he lowered or lowered his voice
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complained a narrator
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Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi
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One of the benefits of talking
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Explaining etiquette in sneezing
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This is so that he does not harm those around him
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With what comes out of his mouth, such as saliva, spit, and the like
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Protecting Muslims from harm
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It is obligatory as much as possible
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Disturbing Muslims with a loud Bedouin
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When sneezing, it is not permissible
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The volume should be reduced as much as possible
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And what he is not able to do, he does not have to do it
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On the authority of Abu Musa, may God be pleased with him, he said:
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The Jews were socializing with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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They hope he tells them
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May God have mercy on you
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And he says
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May God guide you and set your mind at ease
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Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi
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One of the benefits of talking
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The Jews were rushing to receive supplication from the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
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Because they knew deep down that he was a prophet
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Jews are by nature deceitful and lying
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It is not permissible to go along with their deception and lies
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Rather, he responds to them in a way that suits the situation
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It is not said to the People of the Book when sneezing
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What is reserved for people of faith
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This is because what they need most is guidance
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It is the greatest mercy from God to them
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On the authority of Abu Saeed Al-Khudri, may God be pleased with him, he said
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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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If one of you yawns, let him hold his hand over his mouth
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Satan enters
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Narrated by Muslim
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One of the benefits of talking
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It indicates that yawning is from the devil
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To push the yawner to laziness
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Satan watches the negligence of the son of Adam
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To make fun of him
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He gets into it and laughs at him
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There is nothing more beautiful than this moment for him
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Guidance to repel Satan's machinations
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This is done by placing the hand over the mouth when yawning
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This has significance for a Muslim
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To fight Satan by every means
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God has made this clear to His servants
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To protect them from the evils of Satan
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He suppresses his arrogance
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