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Learn about the companions, scholars, and notables | Who am I? | Episode No. (128)
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Get to know the Companions, the scholars, and the prominent figures.
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A new challenge: Who am I?
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I am a female Companion from the Banu Makhzum tribe of Makkah.
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I married my cousin, who was a righteous man.
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When we intended to migrate to Madinah,
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my husband prepared a camel for me.
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He helped me mount it,
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and carried my son in my lap.
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Then he set out with me, leading the camel.
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When the men of my tribe, the Banu Makhzum, saw him,
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they confronted him and said,
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"You have managed to overcome us regarding yourself,
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but do you think we will let you take our companion here
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and travel with her through the lands?"
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They snatched the camel’s halter from his hand,
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and took me from him against my will and his.
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So my husband departed for Madinah, migrating alone.
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When the tribe of my husband, the Banu 'Abd al-Asad, learned of this,
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they were enraged and said,
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"By Allah, we will not leave our son with her
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since you have taken her away from our companion."
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They went to them,
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and they pulled my son between them
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until they dislocated his arm.
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The Banu 'Abd al-Asad took him away,
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and the Banu Makhzum kept me detained with them.
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Thus, they separated me from my husband,
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and from my son.
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My heart was nearly breaking with grief,
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and I could no longer bear the patience.
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I would go out every morning,
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and sit at al-Abtah,
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weeping until evening fell.
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I remained in this state for a year, or nearly so,
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until a man from my cousins passed by me.
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He saw my condition and felt pity for me,
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so he said to the Banu Makhzum,
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"Will you not have mercy on this poor woman?
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You have separated her from her husband and her child.
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What is your business with her?"
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They softened toward me and said,
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"Join your husband if you wish."
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Then he spoke to the Banu 'Abd al-Asad as well,
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and they returned my son to me.
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I prepared my camel,
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took my son and placed him in my lap,
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and set out, seeking my husband in Madinah.
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I had no one from Allah’s creation with me,
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nor did I know the way.
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When I reached al-Tan'im,
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I met 'Uthman ibn Talha (may Allah be pleased with him),
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who was a polytheist at that time.
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He asked me, "Where are you going, O servant of Allah?"
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I replied, "I am seeking my husband in Madinah."
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He asked, "Is there no one with you?"
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I said, "No, by Allah,
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except Allah and this son of mine."
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He said, "By Allah, you cannot be left alone."
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He took the camel’s halter,
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and set out with me until he brought me to Madinah.
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He said, "Your husband is in this village,"
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and then he returned to Makkah.
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I entered Madinah,
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and Allah reunited me with my husband.
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During the Battle of Uhud,
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my husband was wounded,
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and I began to nurse him,
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but his time came and he passed away.
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I recited the prayer of patience (Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un),
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and said as the Prophet (peace be upon him) taught me:
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"O Allah, reward me in my affliction,
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and replace it for me with something better."
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Then I said to myself,
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"Where could I find a man better than my husband?"
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When my waiting period ('iddah) ended,
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the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) proposed to me.
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I said, "Welcome, O Messenger of Allah,
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and one like you cannot be refused.
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But I am a woman of intense jealousy,
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and I fear that you might see something in me
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for which Allah would punish me.
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Furthermore, I am a woman who has advanced in age,
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and I have children."
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He (peace be upon him) replied,
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"As for what you mentioned regarding jealousy,
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Allah will remove it from you.
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As for what you mentioned regarding age,
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I have been afflicted with the same as you.
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And as for what you mentioned regarding the children,
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your children are my children."
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So he (peace be upon him) married me,
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and Allah replaced my husband with one who was better than him:
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the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him).
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Thus, I became one of the Mothers of the Believers,
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and one of the wives of the Trustworthy Messenger.
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So, who am I?
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when the next episode is released, insha'Allah.