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Learn about the companions, scholars, and notables | Who am I? | Episode No. (128)

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0:01 Pause.
0:04 Get to know the Companions, the scholars, and the prominent figures.
0:12 A new challenge: Who am I?
0:16 I am a female Companion from the Banu Makhzum tribe of Makkah.
0:23 I married my cousin, who was a righteous man.
0:28 When we intended to migrate to Madinah,
0:31 my husband prepared a camel for me.
0:34 He helped me mount it,
0:36 and carried my son in my lap.
0:39 Then he set out with me, leading the camel.
0:42 When the men of my tribe, the Banu Makhzum, saw him,
0:47 they confronted him and said,
0:49 "You have managed to overcome us regarding yourself,
0:52 but do you think we will let you take our companion here
0:55 and travel with her through the lands?"
0:59 They snatched the camel’s halter from his hand,
1:02 and took me from him against my will and his.
1:06 So my husband departed for Madinah, migrating alone.
1:11 When the tribe of my husband, the Banu 'Abd al-Asad, learned of this,
1:15 they were enraged and said,
1:17 "By Allah, we will not leave our son with her
1:21 since you have taken her away from our companion."
1:24 They went to them,
1:26 and they pulled my son between them
1:28 until they dislocated his arm.
1:30 The Banu 'Abd al-Asad took him away,
1:33 and the Banu Makhzum kept me detained with them.
1:36 Thus, they separated me from my husband,
1:39 and from my son.
1:42 My heart was nearly breaking with grief,
1:45 and I could no longer bear the patience.
1:48 I would go out every morning,
1:51 and sit at al-Abtah,
1:53 weeping until evening fell.
1:57 I remained in this state for a year, or nearly so,
2:02 until a man from my cousins passed by me.
2:06 He saw my condition and felt pity for me,
2:09 so he said to the Banu Makhzum,
2:11 "Will you not have mercy on this poor woman?
2:14 You have separated her from her husband and her child.
2:19 What is your business with her?"
2:21 They softened toward me and said,
2:24 "Join your husband if you wish."
2:27 Then he spoke to the Banu 'Abd al-Asad as well,
2:30 and they returned my son to me.
2:34 I prepared my camel,
2:36 took my son and placed him in my lap,
2:40 and set out, seeking my husband in Madinah.
2:43 I had no one from Allah’s creation with me,
2:46 nor did I know the way.
2:49 When I reached al-Tan'im,
2:52 I met 'Uthman ibn Talha (may Allah be pleased with him),
2:55 who was a polytheist at that time.
2:58 He asked me, "Where are you going, O servant of Allah?"
3:02 I replied, "I am seeking my husband in Madinah."
3:06 He asked, "Is there no one with you?"
3:09 I said, "No, by Allah,
3:12 except Allah and this son of mine."
3:15 He said, "By Allah, you cannot be left alone."
3:19 He took the camel’s halter,
3:21 and set out with me until he brought me to Madinah.
3:25 He said, "Your husband is in this village,"
3:29 and then he returned to Makkah.
3:32 I entered Madinah,
3:34 and Allah reunited me with my husband.
3:37 During the Battle of Uhud,
3:40 my husband was wounded,
3:42 and I began to nurse him,
3:44 but his time came and he passed away.
3:47 I recited the prayer of patience (Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un),
3:49 and said as the Prophet (peace be upon him) taught me:
3:54 "O Allah, reward me in my affliction,
3:57 and replace it for me with something better."
4:00 Then I said to myself,
4:04 "Where could I find a man better than my husband?"
4:08 When my waiting period ('iddah) ended,
4:10 the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) proposed to me.
4:14 I said, "Welcome, O Messenger of Allah,
4:18 and one like you cannot be refused.
4:21 But I am a woman of intense jealousy,
4:24 and I fear that you might see something in me
4:27 for which Allah would punish me.
4:30 Furthermore, I am a woman who has advanced in age,
4:33 and I have children."
4:36 He (peace be upon him) replied,
4:39 "As for what you mentioned regarding jealousy,
4:41 Allah will remove it from you.
4:44 As for what you mentioned regarding age,
4:47 I have been afflicted with the same as you.
4:50 And as for what you mentioned regarding the children,
4:53 your children are my children."
4:56 So he (peace be upon him) married me,
5:00 and Allah replaced my husband with one who was better than him:
5:04 the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him).
5:08 Thus, I became one of the Mothers of the Believers,
5:11 and one of the wives of the Trustworthy Messenger.
5:15 So, who am I?
5:23 Share your answers with us in the comments below the video.
5:26 We will pin the correct answer in the comments
5:29 when the next episode is released, insha'Allah.